Can str8 men get bj's from men?

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  1. garyemenson

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    I am active on hookup sites, and internet sex sites, with a fair bit of success. I have an oral fetish, and I have many regulars, most of them are with women or are "seekingwomen" , and they come to me regularly, some every other month, some once a month, and some as much as 2-3 times a week, but I dygress. Most of these guys say they come to me cause I am great at what I do, and that they are straight. Some of these straight guys have even reciprocated the service. My question is, is it possible to be straight and mess around with other men just to enjoy a great blowjob, or are they just in denial about being at the very least bi-sexual.
     
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    Be safe, have fun, and don't worry about the labels. If the guys are asking, tell them they're still straight. If you tell them they're bi or gay, they will start getting hung up and ruin your sex life! Very few people are 100% straight.
     
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    How many str8 men say "yeah, I suck cock,but i'am str8".Denial is OK,work with it.
     
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    Yeah, just do it.
     
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    I've always thought there was a little bi curiousity in most people. Interesting insite guys.
     
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    I think that you've answered your own question there.
    Have fun emenson.:wink:
     
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    I've given a few to "straight" men. I think if you think too much about sex it becomes a lot less fun. Call me crazy, but to me it should be more about getting off and enjoying yourself. But then again I really enjoy giving head... it's easier for me to focus on the task in hand than it would be if I was receiving.
     
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    Uhhhh.........no, they are not straight, they are fags. Hence, why they let a man suck their cocks. They are not in denial, most likely, only massively desperate.

    Don't bitch, that is how hooker's get work too. But ACTUAL straight guys go get laid.....and not with men.
     
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    Bull...
    throughout history ostensibly 'straight" men have been more than willing to allow a less straight man service them when women were not handy.

    Hell, talk to anyone who has served hard time...

    the etiquette there is pretty clear... TAKING dick makes you gay... GIVING dick (exclusively) is not really gay... just opportunistic.


    But to me, I think its a matter of fooling oneself. Some guys are so caught up in their image of themselves... in OTHER men's image of them that they would never in a million years allow another guy anywhere near their dicks and would never reciprocate....


    That, however, doesn't mean they wouldn't like it if they tried it. With some guys, their avoidance of anything gay smacks of a lady that doth protest too much... as if they are trying really hard to convince themselves of something.


    Personally... I have never met a man who has successfully sucked a cock that did not come to like it.

    Anyone here ever try it and HATE it?
     
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    In the arabic army, there are 8 men to a squad. Yet they have a guy they call "soldier number 9" 9 is there for the guys morale. He's not really a soldier. He polishes boots and he also polishes other things. ;) In the arabic culture, if you as a man, receive a bj - you're not gay. the guy performing it is. Which may explain Iranian leaders' comments that homosexuality does not exist in Iran. I think about that when I watched this story about a straight guy performing in gay porn, claiming "it's just a job...everyone has a price."


    So I think it depends on who you ask. If you're a guy that just likes an oral fixation, it may be just that.
     
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    possibly happen if i get drunk!! if that's counted.
     
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    Until the moment the head hits the tongue, it could be deemed as just a fantasy. The moment contact between lips/mouth/tongue and penis is made, the fantasy is realised and he's can no longer claim to be exclusively hetero.

    Good for him, too.
     
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    I think your preaching to the choir here =] I havent had the pleasure of a stright guy yet but here's hoping ;)
     
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    I plead the 5th
     
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    This is such a broken record question. And the answer is always the same.

    If you suck dick or get your dick sucked by a man you are NOT straight. Unless you're blindfolded and have no clue it's a dude doing it. But if you're looking right at him and showing affection for it then you are bisexual. Just deal with it and accept it. Being in denial and blurring the lines of what is bisexual, what is straight, what is gay doesn't work. Because no straight man would allow a man to slob him down.
     
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    It's all semantics. Different people have different definitions of gay/straight/bi. It can get confusing but luckily it doesn't really matter.
     
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    a guy yes, a STRAIGHT guy no.
     
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    Sure you can, but then you're not strictly straight. I think men are awesome and have the utmost respect for gays and what they go through, but I couldn't ever envision myself getting head from one - I love women too much and am always thinking about them.

    I'd say that if you're feeling the urge, go for it, and don't worry about being referred to as either gay or straight - it's okay to be gay and in addition, there are so many people out there who like both genders to some degree, so you're more normal than you think. I mean, just look at the percentages all over this site.
     
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    A lot of straight men want to suck me off !!!
     
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    Labels are not important. I think we are all potentially bisexual in that if we weren't worried about labels it would be possible to enjoy oral sex (getting or giving) with another male. I haven't actually tested (or tasted!)that theory, but am "man enough" to acknowledge that the idea of it is very interesting to me and arousing too, as is looking at all of the fine examples of manhood on display on this site, regardless of what % straight/gay the owner says he is.