Can str8 men get bj's from men?

[ManTubeula]

I Can't Even Believe This Is Debatable....

 

[meatpackingbubba]

"I might be from another planet, but I've always thought straight meant "only into women." Just me, I guess.

No, it's more about how one self-identifies.

 

[B_henry miller]

This is such a broken record question. And the answer is always the same.

If you suck dick or get your dick sucked by a man you are NOT straight. Unless you're blindfolded and have no clue it's a dude doing it. But if you're looking right at him and showing affection for it then you are bisexual. Just deal with it and accept it. Being in denial and blurring the lines of what is bisexual, what is straight, what is gay doesn't work. Because no straight man would allow a man to slob him down.

Unless he's a porn star with a family to support (which actually happens). Or unless he's a lonely truck driver, which, according to Kinsey, actually happened. He said that a lot of truck drivers get lonely on the road and will turn to gay sex.

Oh, hell. Who knows? Sexuality is so complex.

 

[FelixM]

I had a guy I knew for 10 years who for 6 of those swore to me he was straight....then one night he let me suck his dick and we hooked up like 50 times.....as far as I know i'm the only guy he was ever with......he must have liked it if he let me do it that many times

 

[bullnuts]

That would be a negative.

 

[novice_btm]

...Oh, hell. Who knows? Sexuality is so complex.

That may be one of the best quotes I've seen on this site.

 

[hung]

Why Not?

 

[BigNole]

Unless he's a porn star with a family to support (which actually happens). Or unless he's a lonely truck driver, which, according to Kinsey, actually happened. He said that a lot of truck drivers get lonely on the road and will turn to gay sex.

Oh, hell. Who knows? Sexuality is so complex.

Mr. Miller

You are aboslutely correct! Sexuality is so complex it is too difficult to caterogize..And honestly, who cares.. If a guy likes some gay sex it does not mean he is gay. There are many straight men that enjoy some gay sex but that does not mean they are gay but rather just sexual beings which is fine by me...

 

[dude.sweet]

i`ve been suckin cock for years and i`m not gay . and i love it so much

that means you're a girl right ;D

 

[Corius]

Why sweat it? What the world sees may be very different from the man you know yourself to be. My first sexual relationship was with a male classmate; it continued for two years yet we never thought of ourselves as anything but regular guys. For many years the world has seen two happily married men and fathers, but we know ourselves and have come to value the opportunity we had to become acquainted with that "other side" of our sexuality. I do not claim to be straight not because I do not have sex with men but because I know that I have and could still be capable of sustaining a sexual relationship with another man. And I am glad to be me.

 

[canihavu]

No....

 

[Radiant]

no

 

[garyemenson]

God, there are so many men, who actually believe that if you don't take it (suck cock or bottom) you are not gay.....the number is surprisingly high, I've met many men who believe this.

 

[bek2335]

I would agree here. However, I think, like the Kinsey scale states, it's not as cut and dried as people make it seem. I think there are various levels within the sexual spectrum that make you who you are. For example, is a guy who does something with another guy once, just out of curiousity, but never again does anything sexual with a man, is he bisexual still? Or did he have a homosexual experience out of curiousity but now is totally straight? There just isn't a clear way to define it.

Bottom line is we are sexual creatures with the capacity to enjoy sex with whomever we choose. Whatever that makes us, labels wise, is what we are. :tongue:


Your answer is the most sensible and thoughtful one so far. I believe it is only fear that motivates people to want to see things as "either-or".

 

[Ed69]

I would agree here. However, I think, like the Kinsey scale states, it's not as cut and dried as people make it seem. I think there are various levels within the sexual spectrum that make you who you are. For example, is a guy who does something with another guy once, just out of curiousity, but never again does anything sexual with a man, is he bisexual still? Or did he have a homosexual experience out of curiousity but now is totally straight? There just isn't a clear way to define it.

Bottom line is we are sexual creatures with the capacity to enjoy sex with whomever we choose. Whatever that makes us, labels wise, is what we are. :tongue:


Your answer is the most sensible and thoughtful one so far. I believe it is only fear that motivates people to want to see things as "either-or".

Sorry no fear here,I just don't have a desire to see a mans head between my legs,thanks!

 

[submit452]

I think guys who would do this are Bi, but everyone uses the standard of "1 in 10 are gay" I would argue that at least a third or fourth of that notion are bi. Have fun please be safe and I would try not to harp on the point of gay or straight. We're all on here because we like huge cocks. And we all have varying orientations. But the guys who are really into causual sex tend to be partly gay or at least bisexual.

 

[Charles Finn]

it used to make me mad that you have to label someone if you bi you bi i am bi but prefer guys.
some guys are bi but prefer girls
just be who you are

 

[nashboy]

haha...the last boyfriend i had was "straight"before he met me...and then he was telling me he was doing everything he could to make me like him. i guess it worked (for a while).

 

[joejack]

Yes, dear, they can and do so quite often.

 

[craig_uk]

Are people confusing two issues here?

Does having your cock sucked by a guy make you gay? Suppose you didn't know it was a guy - does it only make you gay when you find out? if you find out? Or does it only count if you enjoyed it?

The real question is however both circular and pointless.

Would a straight man knowingly allow another man to suck his cock?

The answer of course just depends on your definition of straight. If you define straight as 'a man who would never let another man touch his cock' (whatever his reasons). Then clearly the answer is NO. If however your definition of straight includes people who wouldn't say no to a blow job wherever it came from when they were pissed and horny at 4am on a Sunday morning then the answer is clearly YES.

Receiving a 'no strings' blow job from a man is probably more pleasurable than a wank. Provided of course you are not so repulsed by the idea of a guy sucking your cock that its going to send you into long term therapy.

It is almost as if some guys would rather have sex with animals than consider letting another guy touch his cock, because the obvious consequence is you would no longer be straight; you would become a dirty little bender.