cervix

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  1. SnitchQitch

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    Hi, i'm a 20 year old asian female.....




    today i had sex with someone about 8 inches, and it was terribly big for me, and it kept banging against my cervix, which made the sex uncomfortable for me.

    i want to know if it is possible for someone of that size to cum without such "deep" sex, and if this discomfort is because i have never had anyone bump my cervix before(never ever did anybody larger than 7"(or non-asian) before today).

    any techniques to avoid my cervix being bumped so often?

    thanks! :)
     
  2. D_Leotols Toy

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    Tell him to go easy. At my size, I still bump the cervix every now and then, but it's all about listening to your partner. He shouldn't continue thrusting into you for shits and giggles if you're making uncomfortable faces. Different positons allow for shallow or deeper penetration, as well, but I'm not expert on which these are.
     
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    It's possible, sure. My gf is Asian and I bump her cervix all the time. In fact the last time we did it was with her on top. I came so hard from her cervix rubbing up against my head. I've never cum before with her on top like that. Of course me hitting her cervix doesn't bother her.

    As far as techniques go, the ball is in his court. It's his job to control the thrusting so he doesn't hit your cervix. Putting some pillows between your bodies will help a bit.
     
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    pillows? kinda "unsexy", isn't it? lol!

    mrhard: how come she doesn't mind it? it was so uncomfortable for me. every time he pushed in deep, i was "shocked". not VERY unpleasantly, but i wouldn't say i really liked it?

    yikes! LOL!
     
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    I think she likes the pain, lol. If it is actually painful to her, she's never really said before. She'll just want me to pound harder. I'll even arch my hips outward with her on top to where all her weight is sitting on my body and not on the bed, therefore her cervix is resting on the tip of my cock. She said it hurts, but it's a good pain. Actually, I think my cock slamming into her cervix hurts me more than her, lol. But I don't mind really.

    LOL, yes, pillows would be unsexy, but it'll keep your guy from thrusting too deep. It's a hard thing to control when you're in the heat of the moment. You don't think about depth too much.
     
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    omg! i can only hope because it was my first time screwing a white guy that's why i couldn't take it. LOL!

    he slammed it really hard and he seemed like he was having a good time so i tolerated it and let him do it. but i don't know.. coupled with the huge girth and me feeling terribly, terribly overstretched, and my cervix pounded...


    HELP!
     
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    First time I hit my wife cervix she said "aoutttth" and no more sex that day.
    That thought my a lesson, so I always leave "a few" inches outside instead off hammering it in.
    When I want it all in, I tell her so and I push it gently all the way in and stay there. Sometimes I rotate my hips to let her really feel it, perhaps I pull it gently a few inches back and then gently in again. It is always very intens for both of us.
    It could be nice to hammer away, but I know the result of that :)
     
  8. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    Well it was the first time you've had someone that long and that thick before, so I'm sure it was a shock. If you continue to see him you can only gather two things from it, you either begin to like it or you still hate it. Big guys aren't necessarily for everyone I guess. :redface::rolleyes: Luckily for me and my girl we seem to be a perfect fit together. :smile:
     
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    it depends on the girl. I've bumped cervixes before with the girl liking the pain/ pleasure aspect of it.

    I was with an girl for almost 2 years. When i angled it just right i could feel the tip of my penis enter the cervix... it felt like having a mouth on the tip while having vaginal intercourse ... it was amazing for me.

    However there were some days where she didn't want it to go so deep, i would try my hardest not to go all the way in, leave an inch outat all times. However this unfortunately leaves a small mental block. Never really let me fully enjoy the sex because i was always afraid to hurt her during those sessions. ...

    the safest bet, is you being on top, controlling the tempo, and depth aswell ....

    If he can't help you have a satisfying time in bed, and just only cares about bottoming out... then i hate to say this ... u need to be with a guy that either is smaller or is willing to accommodate you.
     
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    You can usually go all the way because most women's bodies will adjust to penetration as they get more aroused. But as a man you have to start slow and work up to penetrating deeply, if it's possible. It's all about, as stated above, reading your partner's reaction and working from there. But for sure, even at my 7", you just don't go all the way straight up, not with any woman.

    And sometimes you just can't go all the way with some women, so you have to work with what you can do.
     
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    change the angle or position so it misses it, if you can. more foreplay will help too.

    i know a woman who claimed it was "just a sensation", no pain, no pleasure. every woman is wired differently.

    i know another woman who could orgasm from sucking her nipples.

    that's what makes women so hard to understand. they're all different!:eek::tongue:
     
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    Always a casualty of a big dick. We've learned that her on top is the safest way to avoid hitting the cervix-plus she is in control, until she gets tired, then I take the lead in the in-and-out thing, when I get tired, her turn. When we doggie style, I have to go in kinda at an angle to the side, or it hits the ol cervix. My cock curves upward, and doesn't bend to the side at all. Also, with her on the edge of the bed, me standing on the floor, she can maneuver in such a way that it never hits as I drive it home. Missionary? nope, doesn't work.
     
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    I had an episode with 2 girls where one was holding my balls in her fist from behind while I was fucking the other missionary. It was very exiting for me because the one holding my balls didn't let my cock go all the way in. Maybe that is the answer to your problem, frostypeaches.
     
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    More foreplay, more fantasizing, more relaxation--in short, give it some time and you should get used to it.

    Also, try changing the position, as every couple fits together differently. Maybe letting him go in from behind will change the angle of his thrusting, and it might hold a little length back until you're more comfortable with it.
     
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    This has kinda thing has been discussed in another thread somewhere, you'll probably find he's not hitting your cervix but going straight past it and hitting the end (can't remember what that part of the vagina is called, but the cervix isn't quite at the end) but whatever is happening it's painful none-the-less. I have the same problem with every woman I've been with to varying degrees. Miakara's suggestion of holding his balls is a good one, my GF does that with me.

    Most of all I suggest you talk with him and let him know how it feels and work something out together. I'm sure he'll get a big ego boost knowing he's too big for you ;)
     
  16. D_Leotols Toy

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    He's probably hitting the fornix, not the cervix.
     
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    Just tell him, it is as simple as that. My GF doesnt like to ride me, but when she does she has to angle forward because I end up hitting her cervix if she is sat right ontop of it. Looking at my pictures you wouldnt think I could, but its coz my balls are insanley high up.
     
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    Size has nothing to do with "bumping" the cervix. If you experience pain then this is a warning, not to avoid large penises, but to see your gynaecologist soon.
     
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    My experience is that some girls like their cervix rubbed, almost like a massage. You should ask your partner to take it easy and not to thrust so much. Sometimes just keeping it in deep can do wonders for you.
     
  20. salthebb

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    My girlfriend loves it when I hit her cervix. She cums like there is no tomorrow and begs for more, which I love to give her. I am glad to oblige her and we keep going and going. Maybe she is different than you, but she absolutely loves it whenever I go that deep.