Controling how far you shoot

Discussion in 'Show Off' started by david brown, Jun 9, 2006.

  1. david brown

    david brown New Member

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    Hey guys
    Recently i lost my virginity with my girlfriend.
    While we were having oral sex ,my cum flew half way across the room and i was wondering if there is a way to sort of make it shoot less.

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    heh im just the opposite i wish i could shoot that far...the furthest ive ever shot is like maybe 2 feet? and thats like once a month kinda thing..


     
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    I find the best way not to shoot so far is to cum more quickly, or cum a few times a couple of hours before your girlfriend comes round to see you.....

    most guys want to shoot further..so you are possibly in the minority here......and the reason you can shoot so far is that you have great muscles in that area!...without realising it, maybe you are holding back on the cuming for a while..this will build up the pressure and then when you let go, out they shoot...pow....you should try filming it then replaying in slow motion!...what a great memory!
    another solution is to have a cold shower just before...as I have found that after laying on the beach all day..with the sun on my parts.....or in a warm bath.....the warmth will make it shoot much further....you could try turning up the air con in the car for a while..and going for a drive?......

    anyway hope it helps..sounds as if you are a good match anyway...!...I'd hang onto her!....I find it hard to get a good blow job because of the size issues......but most girls will be impressed about how far you can shoot...and probably tell all their girlfriends...I'm not saying that your girlfriend is like that..but she does have a great talent !...
     
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    I agree with one of socute's suggestions: Jack off at least once within a few hours of getting together with your girlfriend. I am a big shooter like you, but generally the distances get less and less the more ejaculations I've had that day.

    Not having been with an awful lot of different women, I'm not sure what most of them think of us guys who can hose down a room. It's something worth asking your GF about at some point, because if she likes the fireworks then you shouldn't go trying to tamp them down by rubbing one out beforehand. My wife really enjoys the "show" I can put on for her, but I had one previous GF who was extremely cum-phobic. Based on what others have said here, I tend to think most women (aside from the porn actresses who are paid to love semen) fall into the cum-averse group.

    Good luck!

    Steve :smile:
     
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    I too wish that I had your problem. And you should determine if it's an issue with your girl before you attempt to "fix" it. I know I saw another discussion here where the women said that the bigger the guys load, the more enjoyment they got because they felt that he was more satisfied with the sex.
     
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    Haha, who wants to control how far they shoot? Girls like a nice big shot ;)
     
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    Hehe... I find that the more horny I am and the longer I've been holding off shooting, the harder and further I shoot. I'm guessing that it being your first time, you were extremely turned on and horny. Be interesting to hear your experiences on further sexual encounters to see if the problem continues.
     
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    If you can convince her to take it all in her mouth and/or swallow, it would not be messy at all....:smile:
     
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    It's mostly mind over matter - and how aroused you are!
     
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    I've found that I can shoot a lot further now than when I was pre-teen. About the time I was 15 I started being able to shoot a pretty big load and it depended on how excited I was as to how far it shot. My GF likes it when I do that and encourages me to hold off for a while so that it comes out in faster spurts.
    She likes to help me masturbate and when she knows I am getting close she pumps like crazy. One of her girlfiiends told her that if she poked her finger up my butt hole just as I shot that I would shoot further. She tried it the other day and we both loved it.
     
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    I , for one, am extremely turned on when a guy shoots lots and far!
     
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    come here and i will show you lol ready, aim, fire! :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
     
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    Don't worry about shooting far with big loads. Most women like it. In any case, as you get older, you will shoot less and not as far, but you will have the same pleasure no matter how far and how much.
     
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    Be thankful you can shoot that far. As you get older it will decrease. The more turned on I am the farther I can shoot and the cum I unload. Don't worry about it and have fun with it.:smile:
     
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    The best reason to aim is so that you not shot someone in the eye; cum burns, at least mine has.
     
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    I have to be careful where I aim otherwise the head board/wall gets a plastering. I've been that way ever since I was a teenager (mid 30's now).

    I'm surprised that I still do it at present considering I've gotten pretty out of shape generally over the last couple of years.
     
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    the day will come when your gonna wish you had that problem again !!
     
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    most guys that i know would LOVE to have this problem, don't see it as a problem, just enjoy it. If your GF finds it to be a turnoff, then just shoot in a condom, just make her comfortable
     
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    THat's half the fun of getting a handjob or blowjob... watching the jizz spray everywhere out of control... have fun with it