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The two best cuckold threesomes I have done have been where the husband had it clear in his head what he wanted to happen and he told the wife and I what to do. I think most bulls know they are there for the couple's fantasy, so if you spell the fantasy out it makes it easier for us and better for the couple.

Asianboy; when an attractive married woman opens her legs and invites you to fuck her while her husband watches, it's like all your christmases rolled into one.
 
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I'm 100% straight so no. I am comfortable being naked on the bed alongside another naked man in a sexual situation, and there's no doubt our bodies will touch if we do a double penetration or something like that. but that's the extent of it for me.
 

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In my early swinger days was the bull in about 10 cuckhold encounters. For the most part I was in my early twenties, the couples for the most part were middle aged. Only a few times were the Ladies younger than me. Mostly married to sugar daddies. These were pre-viagra days, most of my cuckhold encounters were with what I believe to be impotent men. Only had a few bad situations that I recall. One married lady cried and sobbed so much I just stopped, even though she wanted me to keep going. Quite a few times the husbands walked out of the room, either embarrassed or just realized it maybe wasn't what they thought. Only time I was kinda stopped or it became a problem was when I was cumming inside a lady and she started to make comments about how she's never been fucked or cummed in that much, etc.... They started arguing while i was still inside her. Did spend a night with a European couple once, they both gave me oral, I'm straight, but I let them both go down on me (only sex with a man I've ever had). Kinda progressed into the regular swingers couples scene. Didn't really like the cuckhold thing very much. Didn't really know that was a fetish thing Back then. Preferred the regular swingers couples/club scene better.
 
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In my early swinger days was the bull in about 10 cuckhold encounters. For the most part I was in my early twenties, the couples for the most part were middle aged. Only a few times were the Ladies younger than me. Mostly married to sugar daddies. These were pre-viagra days, most of my cuckhold encounters were with what I believe to be impotent men. Only had a few bad situations that I recall. One married lady cried and sobbed so much I just stopped, even though she wanted me to keep going. Quite a few times the husbands walked out of the room, either embarrassed or just realized it maybe wasn't what they thought. Only time I was kinda stopped or it became a problem was when I was cumming inside a lady and she started to make comments about how she's never been fucked or cummed in that much, etc.... They started arguing while i was still inside her. Did spend a night with a European couple once, they both gave me oral, I'm straight, but I let them both go down on me (only sex with a man I've ever had). Kinda progressed into the regular swingers couples scene. Didn't really like the cuckhold thing very much. Didn't really know that was a fetish thing Back then. Preferred the regular swingers couples/club scene better.

Can't a man be a bull at a swinger's party without necessarily having penetrative sex? The other dudes get hard from the bull being around their ladies.

I've heard of swinger parties where couples invite a well-hung dude to the bull pen in a "non-cuckhold" kind of way. He's very sexually admired by the other males while he teases the ladies with his big dick. It's about as objectified as a man can get in the straight world, unless we are talking about male submission to a women.
 
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I came close to that a couple of times. In some of my cuckhold experiences the lady only gave me head. The husband was the one that penetrated her. See I used to frequent a swingers club that was just like a regular bar/club in the front and private/public swingers rooms in the back. So I used to meet these couples in the front part. The couples with guys that had problems either erectile or size usually asked me to go home with them. I guess they didn't want to be embarrassed or have the wife get "gang-banged"in the back rooms. We would be just sitting around having drinks laughing & joking. The lady would check me out by either touching me or feeling me up. She's usually the one that was in charge. The husbands typically stayed quite watching and waiting for her to say something like "we have a really nice party place, would you like to come?" I always had some sort of sex.
 

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Ironic reading these posts because my deceased wife would have preferred that I was smaller.

And no my penis did not kill her.
 

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I have been the outside man for couples (I don't like the word "bull") since I was a teenager, dozens and dozens, almost always with the husband in the house or hotel, and mainly watching. I have learned to be clear that I am there for the wives' pleasure and I have agreed to give her a great experience. The hub is not going to tell me or her what to do, or make the wife worried about how he feels. We talk about it ahead of time, and I watch him very carefully for signs that he may be suppressing feelings that will make him freak out when he sees us fucking, or her reacting to me much more strongly than she does with him. If I feel he is unsure, I will get him to imagine it clearly. If I get the hint that he is unstable, I'm out of there.

I have to say that even when I was young and much less experienced, it only happened a few times, where the hub got upset, angry or started crying when he saw the look on his wife's face and how much pleasure I gave her. Only twice was I not able to cool him out and had to break it off. I learned quickly how to see those feelings coming. Most often I and the wife were able to reassure her hub and calm him down.

Vastly more often than the hubs getting upset, the guys have wanted to lick the wife clean after I cum in her (after testing of course) suck me clean, guide me into her and the like. He also will sometimes be quite curious about my genitals, their size and the way my foreskin works. Often the wife will enjoy all that. I'm quite easy with that kind of contact. It makes the session hotter and hotter, the more the hub feels good about her and my fucking.
 
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My ex and I were having trouble from externalities, so we started experimenting sexually to bond more. Fate had us run into an ex of hers who is donkey hung at a sex shop, she blew him at a glory hole on a whim, and then a few weeks later we started doing threesomes with him about once a week. It was freaky but amazing to participate in and watch (long story), but she was then often too sore to fuck from getting fucked, so what was the point. She didn't want to stop, and I didn't like getting cock blocked. Never get serious with a size queen, even if you're above average. She'll inevitably seek what you can't give her. I didn't go apeshit though. Not at all. Guy must be a major POS.
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this is my main drawback of doing this sort of thing. you get to watch her pounded but then don't get any sex yourself because she;s too worn out.

I have done this a few times with couples my age (middle-aged) where it was the husband's fantasy. In all cases the husbands watched us and sometimes indicated they wanted to play later, but usually couldn't get hard to do the deed once I had finished. I do remember sharing a spa bath with a couple afterwards (he did get hard and he did have sex with her, which was hot for me 'cause she was full of my come). He was was also turned-on by fucking her pussy full of my come. In the spa he asked her if my size felt better than his but she was very diplomatic with her answer.

In all cases it's been the husband wating a well-hung man to have sex with his wife while he watches, and in all cases it's been mandatory that we have condom-free sex, even though they have no idea of my sexual past. In one instance the husband got jealous that his wife and I had sex (she played hard to get so I seduced her with some French), and he got the hump and watched cricket on television instead. In one case the wife seemed quite eager but then bailed on me and locked herself in the bathroom. In most cases (except the couple with the spa bath), nerves got the better of them and the husbands ended up drinking to get themselves through the ordeal, which is why they couldn't perform. Another couple wanted me to have sex with her while he watched us, and we all got on well together so it was one of the best for me.

I didn;t apologise to the husband who watched cricket, but I did tell him that reality is different to a fantasy.

that, for me, goes WAY BEYOND FANTASY, that's simply reckless! i understand the want for raw bareback sex BUT to do so with someone who's status they didn't inquire about just seems like asking for trouble. did THEY offer (or you request) to provide the wife's status to you?
 

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I have been the outside man for couples (I don't like the word "bull") since I was a teenager, dozens and dozens, almost always with the husband in the house or hotel, and mainly watching. I have learned to be clear that I am there for the wives' pleasure and I have agreed to give her a great experience. The hub is not going to tell me or her what to do, or make the wife worried about how he feels. We talk about it ahead of time, and I watch him very carefully for signs that he may be suppressing feelings that will make him freak out when he sees us fucking, or her reacting to me much more strongly than she does with him. If I feel he is unsure, I will get him to imagine it clearly. If I get the hint that he is unstable, I'm out of there.

I have to say that even when I was young and much less experienced, it only happened a few times, where the hub got upset, angry or started crying when he saw the look on his wife's face and how much pleasure I gave her. Only twice was I not able to cool him out and had to break it off. I learned quickly how to see those feelings coming. Most often I and the wife were able to reassure her hub and calm him down.

Vastly more often than the hubs getting upset, the guys have wanted to lick the wife clean after I cum in her (after testing of course) suck me clean, guide me into her and the like. He also will sometimes be quite curious about my genitals, their size and the way my foreskin works. Often the wife will enjoy all that. I'm quite easy with that kind of contact. It makes the session hotter and hotter, the more the hub feels good about her and my fucking.

no offense but i don't think it's your "right" to police his emotions. it's THEIR marriage and they both have to agree on what's happening. if not then it's basically her cheating. it's not all about you and the wife, because at the end of the day, their marriage is more important than your fuck session and they're the ones who have to deal with it after you're long out of the picture. not being judgmental but it just seems like some bulls think it's all about them and the wife when it's really not, the husband is ALLOWING his wife to get pleasure so if he isn't enjoying what's happening it's unfair to him and selfish of the wife and bull. if i was a cuckold, there's NO WAY any bull is going to dictate what happens unless i give him that permission. the bull is simply there to provide pleasure, not to act as if he is in charge (again, unless the cuck gives him that leeway). respect in these situations goes both ways and is paramount. you show no respect or try to "check" me it's going to be a problem, best believe. just because i'm allowing you to fuck my wife doesn't mean you're "THE man", you're simply A MAN fucking my wife and you're easily replaceable by another big dick, plenty of them to go around.
 
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For me this is a fun and horny fantasy and i love to chat like that with a guy on here. A mix of adoring and worshipping the big man and being put into my place as the small guy. Sometimes this is a lot of fun and gets me off big time when the hung guy likes to chat in the cocky bull's role.

BUT in REALITY i would never want to experience this as there's no way back. My wife calls me her bull / tarzan now and i would not want to change a thing with that. We have great sex together and she would never want to add a stranger, she would be much to worried.

Sometimes some fantasies are just hotter if they remain fantasies...
 
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This has happened to me a few times. Some couples just aren't meant to swing. Never had one stop right in the middle of fucking, but I've heard arguments while I was in the bathroom or while leaving. Those were the ones I 'forgot their numbers" and left it as it.
 

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no offense but i don't think it's your "right" to police his emotions. it's THEIR marriage and they both have to agree on what's happening. if not then it's basically her cheating. it's not all about you and the wife, because at the end of the day, their marriage is more important than your fuck session and they're the ones who have to deal with it after you're long out of the picture. not being judgmental but it just seems like some bulls think it's all about them and the wife when it's really not, the husband is ALLOWING his wife to get pleasure so if he isn't enjoying what's happening it's unfair to him and selfish of the wife and bull. if i was a cuckold, there's NO WAY any bull is going to dictate what happens unless i give him that permission.

Perhaps I was not clear. I completely respect the marriage of the couple I am with. But, that does not make me the slave of the husband. If the husband wants a guy that he can boss around and tell how to fuck his wife, and that is what the wife wants too, I'm out of there. They want a different guy, which is fine.

When we talk ahead of time, I am clear that I am there, first and foremost, for the pleasure of the wife. This is my avocation, giving women pleasure, and I have done this for wives since I was a teenager. I am there to give them both something that they should want, her wild sexual satisfaction. Most times, in order for her to get that, she has to not worry about the husband, his feelings of being left out, his physical pleasure, while we are having sex... at least at first, while we bond physically. He can watch, be naked, jerk, get close and look, but only after we are all comfortable and the wife has really swung into her full orgasms do we open things up for the hub to be more active. In fact, some women need for the husband to start outside the room for a while, before we let him in. Years of experience with dozens of couples have proved that this is the best way for me to work. Other men who do what I do may be different.

I am completely respectful of the husband. I have no need to make him feel humiliated (although those feelings are part of the experience for some men). When we are all easy, I am happy for the hub to suck me clean, lick the wife, serve the sex to make things even hotter. The wife often likes to see her husband suck me, as well. As long as she is getting the pleasure that she needs from me, and then, if he is happy too, I'm doing my job. And it is some of the best sex that I ever have.
 
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Perhaps I was not clear. I completely respect the marriage of the couple I am with. But, that does not make me the slave of the husband. If the husband wants a guy that he can boss around and tell how to fuck his wife, and that is what the wife wants too, I'm out of there. They want a different guy, which is fine.

When we talk ahead of time, I am clear that I am there, first and foremost, for the pleasure of the wife. This is my avocation, giving women pleasure, and I have done this for wives since I was a teenager. I am there to give them both something that they should want, her wild sexual satisfaction. Most times, in order for her to get that, she has to not worry about the husband, his feelings of being left out, his physical pleasure, while we are having sex... at least at first, while we bond physically. He can watch, be naked, jerk, get close and look, but only after we are all comfortable and the wife has really swung into her full orgasms do we open things up for the hub to be more active. In fact, some women need for the husband to start outside the room for a while, before we let him in. Years of experience with dozens of couples have proved that this is the best way for me to work. Other men who do what I do may be different.

I am completely respectful of the husband. I have no need to make him feel humiliated (although those feelings are part of the experience for some men). When we are all easy, I am happy for the hub to suck me clean, lick the wife, serve the sex to make things even hotter. The wife often likes to see her husband suck me, as well. As long as she is getting the pleasure that she needs from me, and then, if he is happy too, I'm doing my job. And it is some of the best sex that I ever have.

i was alluding to you saying "The hub is not going to tell me or her what to do, or make the wife worried about how he feels."

I was not saying the husband was going to boss the bull or his wife around, I'm saying the bull doesn't get to dictate how the couple interacts. If he (husband) has an issue with what's going on, it's not the bull's place to stick up or "white knight" for the wife and disregard the husband. I'm not saying YOU PERSONALLY do that. This is not an attack on you, this was a comment for any bull who thinks it's their place to control proceedings. Hence why I said mutual respect. For me, showing a lack of care towards the husband in the situation is insensitive. Yes, the bull is there to give her pleasure but you also don't get to dictate that he not tell her what to do or he shouldnt make her worry. If he has legitimate concerns then the couple should be allowed to address it right then and there. Even if it ruins your sex. Yes it sucks to have to stop midway or during but hence as you said bulls should be careful when working with first time couples because MANY men think it's hot to see their wife fuck another men but VERY FEW of the lot can actually handle the sight of seeing her moaning and cumming for another man WAY more than she ever did for them (husband).

At the end of the day there are many big dicks out there so bulls in my opinion are easily replaceable so a little decorum goes a long way in facilitating a long -lasting cuckolding experience for all involved.
 

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At the end of the day there are many big dicks out there so bulls in my opinion are easily replaceable so a little decorum goes a long way in facilitating a long -lasting cuckolding experience for all involved.

I think you still don't get what I am saying. I have no idea why you would think you should try to teach me about being the outside man in a wife-sharing relationship. I never talked about bossing the husband, nor the couple around, and this is not an abstract discussion. I am describing what I have done with many dozens of couples, all my sexual life. I simply talk warmly and openly with the couple the first time we meet, and we get clear our desires and our understandings of what we, the wife, the husband and I, want. If the my way of doing things doesn't line up with the couple's, we part friends. However, in my personal experience, this almost never happens (less than once a year). My life is full of repeat couples and regulars. We all have a wonderful time. The wife is satisfied beyond her imagining, the hub has a great time. So you have your sense of decorum and I'll have mine.
 
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