Cum on Command?

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  1. Imported

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    fastfastr: Can anyone here cum on command or cum without direct cock stimulation?
     
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    Javierdude22: Uhm....no

    And i would seriously like to give credit to anyone who can... :-/

    I can come as quick as i want, or elongate it for a very long time...but I don't see how anyone can come with some kind of physical cock stimulation, no wait, is mental stimulation also excluded? Cause i can see someone coming with mental stimulation only, though it would cost effort. But as always...stranger things have happened.
     
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    Pavlov trained dogs to involuntarilly salivate at the sound of a bell.

    I wonder if he could train men to cum at the sound of a woman's voice?

    God help us!!!

    Pecker

    (If the Phone Doesn't Ring, It's Me)
     
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    Longhornjok: I think most guys can cum by having their prostate massaged. It has been described as being jacked off, from inside. Some guys (gay, bi, and str8) use a finger or partner's finger to massage it, and gay guys who bottom can have it happen when their partner's penis rubs it back and forth. Actually, I guess that would work for str8 guys who experiment with a gf wearing a strap-on and doing them, too. Of course, if you have a problem with a finger (or anything else) up yer bum, then this ain't for you.
     
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    awellhungboi: I don't usually watch porn, but I did see that documentary about Ron Jeremy--and supposedly he can cum on command. He starts counting down 10-9-8-7 etc and by the time he gets to 1, bingo!
     
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    AnonyMs: Climaxing on command is something that could be done through behavioral modification training if you were with a partner you really trusted; however, I do not think it would get to the point where you and your partner are together in Wal-mart, you hear the magic word, and the next thing you hear is "clean up on aisle three." Some state of arousal is probably necessary.

    As for the no direct touch scenario, other posters report the prostate massage being effective. I recall another poster or two has stated this has happened to them with no touch whatsoever - anywhere - but it appears to be a very rare thing.  Do nocturnal emissions qualify for the no touching part?  
     
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    jerkin4-10: actually the hedgehog...ron jeremy has his partner start counting from 30...not that it makes a difference...i knew a guy that could cum within 30 seconds as well...
    ive experienced the no stimulation cum once or twice...
    caught up with a live fucking...couple of people that werent supposed to be..LOL...watched for a couple of seconds and shot in my pants...big time...LOL...
     
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    I maybe jaded, but I have the hardest time cumming. When I was in my 20s, I could shoot when I wanted, but never with out stimulation.
     
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    wvalady1968: [quote author=AnonyMs link=board=sex;num=1062241826;start=0#5 date=08/30/03 at 15:08:11]Climaxing on command is something that could be done through behavioral modification training if you were with a partner you really trusted; however, I do not think it would get to the point where you and your partner are together in Wal-mart, you hear the magic word, and the next thing you hear is "clean up on aisle three."  Some state of arousal is probably necessary.

     
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    OMG! You should give some kind of warning before posting such posts!!!! I spewed my drink all scross the monitor!!
     
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    fastfastr: I didn't mean that a guy in WalMart could just cum (Maybe in Target, but not WalMart).

    Seriously, I meant:

    1. Can anyone just decide during sex with stimulation that it was time to cum and spurt... or

    2. channel mental thoughts to cause an orgasm, just like a few people can slow their heartbeat via thought.
     
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    :eek: :eek: :eek: No. Niet. Nein. Nu. Na. Non. Nej.
    Impossible. That means that love would completely lost. For good. Ugh !! :-/
     
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    Javierdude22: [quote author=fastfastr link=board=sex;num=1062241826;start=0#9 date=08/30/03 at 20:11:26](Maybe in Target, but not WalMart).
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    :D

    I do think that it is possible to come at your own given time. It's just a matter of concentration. The thing with most people though, is that they don't cóme when they want, but they put off coming till the time they want to come. Well for me personally at least. I could come kinda fast, but i just put it off by using a different position, rhythm, focus, or speed...

    So for me its not, when do i push that button to come, no, i pushed it already, but its a matter of letting go of the button.

    Was that in any way sensible?

    ...Hm...might have had a ding-dong too many
     
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    aj2181: Even if I could cum on command I'm not sure I would want to. The process of gettin there is so much more fun, satisfying, and intenese. The means to an end are just as good as the end it's self.
     
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    wvalady1968: [quote author=aj2181 link=board=sex;num=1062241826;start=0#13 date=08/31/03 at 13:18:07]Even if I could cum on command I'm not sure I would want to. The process of gettin there is so much more fun, satisfying, and intenese. The means to an end are just as good as the end it's self. [/quote]

    Yeah, getting there is half the fun.
    ;)
     
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    gigantikok: Hmmm. It sure would be a neat parlor trick. Maybe even a sort of sideshow attraction!

    "HURRY HURRY, Step right up and see with your very own eyes!! The one eyed monster that spits on command! Not for the faint of heart!"
     
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    thingsteal: I can pretty much "cum on command" in bed.

    Following my vasectomy it's been a snap. If, after 2 minutes or 2 hours, the wife asks me to cum I can usually do it within 30 seconds. This has been nothing but great for our sex life. If she gets tired and can't get off then it's my cue to 'finish'. Likewise, if she gets her orgasm then she always wants me to cum with her. It's great. Who wouldn't want to fuck for hours and cum together? I feel very lucky for this.

    Before my vasectomy I always had trouble getting off. This was either due to being around in the "Pre-Magnum Condom" era or having sex with chicks without protection and worrying about "pulling out". By the way I've never experienced "premature ejaculation".

    When I was younger I attempted to have an orgasm without any stimulation. I tried and tried, but it just never happened. If anybody has ever been able to do this, you've got my vote.
     
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    bdgxxx: Well I'm afraid I can't cum on command exactly. I can sometimes cum without direct genital stimulation though, but only by stimulation of my nipples.
     
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    sammygirly: Orgasm on command is something that is explored quite etensively in my lifestyle and something that will most likely be integrated into my own sex life.

    But it takes some work, training and definately requires some previous arousal on my part....although wouldn't it be nice if we could just cum at the sound of a word?
     
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    nowoonder: If we are leaving out prostate massage (which can be VERY nice), the only touch-free scenario that I can think of is using the PC muscle.

    I've got a very well trained one because of doing this jack-off/hold-back with your PC muscle jsut before ejaculating/jack-off ... thing for years. I did not know it was my PC muscle I was training, but it gives me a fair level of control on orgasm.

    If I haven't had sax for 5-6 days and als did not jack off, I can come from repeatedly and rythmically squeezing my PC-muscle. But I've only done it once for the sake of knowing if it is possible. Afterwords I had a sore PC muscle.

    But I can always use squeezing to get me up without touching and without audiovisual stimulation. And I get nice feelings from squeezing it when I'm bored on a bus or a plane. Sometimes I squeeze it so long and so hard, that I feel I can almost come. And then I take my hand for the finishing 5 seconds or so.