I like my big dick. So have lots of other people. When I used to fuck women, only a few could take the balls-deep pounding I like to deliver; mostly, I had to be much more gentle (9 x 7).
Blowjobs are a problem. When I get fully hard, I have only met a few people (guys) who blow me for any length of time, no teeth. I have never been deep-throated, and I can't deep-throat myself, dammit, though I always give it the college try.
I've been with a few guys who just couldn't get my dick inside them. No big deal, really. Once I do get to fucking, I know I have to take it easy, but most guys, once the pain is past, can take a hard fuck. I feel the best with super-long strokes, balls-deep, please. Jack-rabbit towards the last few minutes. I like a long fuck. And when I shoot up the guy's butt, I suck my cum out of his asshole; I love assholes and cum.
I am probably more bottom than top. I love getting fucked. My butthole is tight, but once it's in, I love the guy to really go to town.
I don't care that much about size. But it's got to be fucking rock-hard for me to get the most pleasure. I've had a couple of guys my size fuck me. Zowie. Major girth is beautiful, but it can be more difficult for me to adjust. Long is fabulous, longer the better, to hit the old prostate. But most important is to get a guy who is a really good fucker, someone who loves his dick and what it can do, really into it, no matter its size. Big loads are a plus, especially if I can get him to shoot in my mouth.