Dilemma: Pay to suck big dick?

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Hey everyone, hope you are all doing well! I've been a member on this forum for some time now, a silent member but a member none the less. I am writing because i need the advise and expertise from all my fellow lads and gals. I was recently on this cam site, chatting along with one of the broadcaster. To my surprise He sent me a private message asking me where i was in nyc. I was taken back because he is straight, banning and kicking people who write over the top gay comments.

Anyways he asked me if i was willing to pay to suck and rim him. I said i was but offered up a mere 60-80 bucks with room for more. I've been asked this countless times by straights,bicurious, and gays over and over. The cock is 9x6 on a young 18 year old. I've never done anything with a guy and have always been bi-curious never had to chance to do anything; However i know i want to with this lad, even though im nervous as fuck!

My question is should i pay to suck the dick, or just wait out for a natural cash free first experience? Help me!
 

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if you like what you see.. just do it...

like someone said to me once.. if you went out on a date.. you'd probably spend the same amount of money. and you are not even sure if the date turns out well.
 

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Macho thank you so much for your answer, i never thought of it like this and you are completely right. I think its worth it, now to make my move :p. Any tips for my first time?
 

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I paid cash once for sucking a cute guys cock. He needed fifteen bucks for something. I'm sure I have spent more than this buying people drinks at a bar.

Was it worth it? Definately but I could probably have had him for ten. :wink:
 

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I have never paid for any kind of sex and doubt that I ever will. But I do think the advice you've already gotten in this thread makes perfect sense ... so why not?

On a road trip one time i did pick up a nice looking young guy who was hitchhiking and, riding along in the car, he kept pawing at his crotch. I asked if he was OK and he said that he had been away from home for a spell and was simply horny as hell. He nervously joked about not wanting to suffer premature ejaculation when he and his girlfriend got together that night. I offered to give him a blowjob to take the edge off his horniness and he asked if I'd be willing to pay him for the privilege. I told him no, but that I would be willing to take him to his final destination which was a little out my way and he agreed. I was returning from a tournament down south and was pulling my travel trailer so we stopped at the next rest stop, adjourned to the trailer and had a beer before getting down to business. He had a beautiful cock, but was so horny that he came within five minutes; I would have preferred at least twice that duration with his dick in my mouth. Anyway, it was well worth it even though I had to go a good 50 miles out of my way on the return home. By today's standards that's a good $25 or so in operating expense so between that and the beer I guess you could say that I have paid for a blowjob. But I just looked at it as exchanging one favor for another.
 
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The day I pay for sex, is the day I become celebate. If you're gay you can go to a bar, cruise club,sauna or online for sex. So many different outlets for sex. There are usually hot men at all the above mentioned places so why pay?
 

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Hey everyone, hope you are all doing well! I've been a member on this forum for some time now, a silent member but a member none the less. I am writing because i need the advise and expertise from all my fellow lads and gals. I was recently on this cam site, chatting along with one of the broadcaster. To my surprise He sent me a private message asking me where i was in nyc. I was taken back because he is straight, banning and kicking people who write over the top gay comments.

Anyways he asked me if i was willing to pay to suck and rim him. I said i was but offered up a mere 60-80 bucks with room for more. I've been asked this countless times by straights,bicurious, and gays over and over. The cock is 9x6 on a young 18 year old. I've never done anything with a guy and have always been bi-curious never had to chance to do anything; However i know i want to with this lad, even though im nervous as fuck!

My question is should i pay to suck the dick, or just wait out for a natural cash free first experience? Help me!
Could be a sting operation and you could end up in jail for soliciting prostitution ! If you really want to try sucking a dick--there should be plenty of opportunities in NYC !!! JUST BE CAREFUL--lots of diseases out there and not all HIV+ guys will yell you upfront !! !ENJOY !!!
 
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Hmm..if I started charging, would this be considered taxable income? It's bad enough I get raped by the taxman with every paycheck.
 

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Oh yeah, it is worth every penny. But make sure that you are always in a secured place because you'll never know if he is a crazy lunatic or a serial killer.
 

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I paid cash once for sucking a cute guys cock. He needed fifteen bucks for something. I'm sure I have spent more than this buying people drinks at a bar.

Probably, but though buying drinks is something you can rarely avoid in an heterosexual hookup, there are numerous ways for gay guys to get dicks for nothing.
IDK, Grindr is the first thing to pop in my mind...

Paying allows you to choose somebody who would otherwise not let you touch him, if you're not too picky you can easily get someone if you live in a town
 

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I agree with a lot of the above. Don't pay for it. It will make you feel like you paid for it. He gets all the satisfaction (and I know the argument will be you get satisfaction too for the what, priviledge (sp?) of sucking his dick?) and you get nothing. Not fair. At the very least, find someone that will mutually return what you give. Makes the experience much more rewarding!
 

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I have read everyone's post, thank you for your responses. I to have held the view of "never pay for what you can get free from someone else". However, i wont lie in saying that he is so FINE. However i think i am considering it mostly because i can tell and feel he wants to try out men, but need to be incontrol and benefit so how in order to "feel str8". LOL, its funny cause i told myself "maybe if i give him the best blowjob he ever had, he'd come back for more at no cost" i might of never sucked dick, but hell if porn taught me anything it was THIS!

Im also not into "the scene" so i doubt i will be meeting anyone at the clubs or bars. I'd feel like a piece of meat waiting to be taken off the counter.
 

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I've been offered 100-150 a couple times from different guys. I turned it down, but if I was bi, I would pretend to be straight all the time, just to get payed by the gay guys who get of servicing straight ones.