do any guys fuck your gf/wife in her sleep?

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  1. daddydick84

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    I try to fuck my wife in her sleep at least once a week. Most of the time I rub her pussy and get so worked up I wana eat her out and then leads me to want to fuck her. But I am sometimes yelled at because sometimes I'm stuck in one position and don't want to wake her so I rub my head up and down her pussy and try to put it in on feel alone and end up "pokin" around and wake her up..MAD as fuck! Its funny sometimes when it happens but does this happen to anyone else? Women feel free to input on this. How do u feel about it?
     
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    Not sure how many times I have done something similar but the woman usually wakes up; if they don’t wouldn’t this be akin to rape? Based on the frequency that you do it is this mutual fantasy or just you who gets off on this. I mean to say she obviously is aware that you are doing this right? She isn’t unconscious is she?

    On the other hand it is no different than when a female friend will wake me with my cock in their mouth or hand so I am not sure that is too uncommon just not sure about the total unconscious or unaware part if that is a good thing or not.

    I do love play with their clit or caressing their ass though until the begin to stir and then wake them with my hard on that is very HOTT indeed!
     
  3. Stephenmass

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    If she does wake up say, unless like the poster above says he does it all the time, why can't she get into it a bit and even go so far as to help him "home". A nice slow unexpected "fuck" at a time u least expect it can be a truly GREAT experience.
     
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    i love rubbing my hard cock between my girlfriend's asscheeks while she sleeps. there is nothing better than hearing her moan in her sleep.
     
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    you know, most people would consider fucking a woman in her sleep (regardless if she is your wife/fiance/GF) to be rape. You don't have her consent, and you are forcing yourself upon her.
     
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    Doesn't seem right. Why don't you just wake her up?
     
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    Never tried, I am married to a mean woman, scared I will go to bed a rooster and wake up a hen, if you get my drift, so I always ask when she is awake....
     
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    Ok..no its not considered rape in my case..especially when she always tells me "baby, this is your pussy. I want you to take it whenever you want". And on top of that she gets off on the submissive part of it. Feeling like she is mine and the object of my desire. It IS a mutual understanding and not all the time does she get mad. more than not she does wake up and go with it. But I'm WAY more into wanting sex constantly and its not possible for me to lay next to her and not get a raging boner and she knows that. So no its not rape. AND she also has a little rape fantasy with me but we are goin about that very slowly and at her pace. I'm very sensitive about makin her comfortable so to end the comments that people are callin it rape...its not..she IS NOT unconscious, drugged or assaulted..its really just a fetish we both share but she plays hard to get..and I always GET. But I promis yall..she is rewarded every time we have sex with multiple orgasms and I don't stop til she can't take any more. Its an understanding me and her both have regardless of what people think about it
     
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    I think its perfectly fine. My bf says he wants to when I'm sleeping but has only gone through with it a few times. Its great longs as he gets it right. The truth is the fumbling around is what's annoying but if you can get it wet and put in where it needs to be without fumbling around down there then she will love it.
     
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    If she's so
    into it then why is she getting that mad?
    The 2 psts. are conflictiing.


    Given the 2 posts I see a disgusting individual that hasn't any respect towards women and a potential rapist. Date rape and mate rape are still rape. When she wakes up angry that this is happening it is a violation of her rights and her body.
     
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    I think youre twisted and if you were my husband you'd be minus one nut!
     
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    I may not be huge, but I think I am large enough that there is no way in hell I could get away with this without immediately waking her up.
     
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    If there's genuine mutual consent, I'd say it's okay, but Daddydick is giving mixed messages about wherther or not his wife is okay with this.

    I've woken up several times to find my (previous) girl-friend giving me a b/j in my sleep. Each time I was already hard and close to cumming. Generally, I thoroughly enjoyed it. But one night it was clear that she intended this as a foreplay to full-on fucking, when all I wanted to do was catch up on some much-needed sleep. I wasn't going along with it and must have been pretty grumpy 'cos she never did it again! Yes, much as I love sex, this was intrusive and, at the time, unwanted!
     
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    I had a guy do something along these lines once, I really liked the guy and thought it was erotic, but if I didn't like him I can see easily how it'd be uncomfortable and irritating.

    God the guy who did it to me was awesome, I litterally was thinking in my sleep "wtf is going on...??" until I woke up.

    People calling this out as "rape" are too over sensitive...you gotta try having some FUN sometimes....
     
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    Thank all of u who are with me on being adventurous..god forbid I do anything others have never fantasized about or think is wrong. Life is short and if u don't try new things how can u say you have lived a full life? Open ur doors instead of keepin em' shut and quit bein "pussies". And for HOSS...she only gets mad because sometimes I fumble around and it wakes her up enough to say something. When I get it in she ALWAYS wakes up..its more of the excitement of doin something to her and totally surprising her with some good dick in the morning. you really need to understand that some people are more complicated and have grey areas instead of being just right and wrong. My wife is MINE..what she has I am entitled to ANY time I want no matter what and I dare u tell her any different. She would look at u and seriously say u weren't a man that takes charge and doesnt act like the alpha male or "protector" in a relationship. Its just how she is. I'm not downing u I'm just saying u shouldn't tell someone something is wrong without understanding how that couple or person sees it in their eyes.
     
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    :popcorn::popcorn::popcorn:
     
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    I had a girlfriend that would wake me up by riding me or giving me a blowjob/handjob, and it would work the other way as well. She was totally cool with it, and so was I.
     
  18. Voyperd

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    I freaking love sleepy sex!
    Waking up to his tongue hand or even better cock rubbing against my ass or pussy..or when he tries to get inside me without waking me up. yeah sometimes I also get mad and grumpy but after a while I just beg him to continue :D
    Sometimes tho when I'm too tired, I just get back to sleep as he fucks me, it's a weird feeling.. cumming ang fucking and sleeping and waking up and all over again.

    But yeah, I can get why your wife gets a bit mad. But since she likes it overall, there's no problem really.


    Also new here, hello to everyone :)
     
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    it's actually weird because on new years this was reversed...we were all drinking and when it was time to go to sleep i passed out next to this girl who happened to be a very good friend and i was actually woken up because she was trying to get her hands down my pants....so i obviously woke up kissed her and received onee of the best blow jobs ever...no sex because i also passed out right next to my best friend who was cuddling with his gf and i didnt want to wake them haha
     
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    I enjoy waking up to this, and when I have an s.o. he knows he has my consent. I find it to be so incredibly sexy......