I don't feel particularly powerful when my husband is thrusting his large, hard, beastly flesh into my small, soft, wet flesh while I am in very physically vulnerable positions. It doesn't *feel* powerful. I scream and gasp and hold on to something as tight as I can. He is 30cm (almost a foot) taller than me, with a powerful looking body. The act of sex with him has me feeling very submissive, and at some times helpless. I just don't see myself being the one holding the power. Even if he does as I say, by the time I orgasm I feel like his slave (and I orgasm very quickly:tongue. That is just how the experience of sharing my body is with him, and as such I don't see having multiple men pushing their flesh into me as a statement of power.
With women it can be totally opposite. With women, the attitude of dominance can be held without the physical realities breaking the spell.
I could say a lot more about it because I love playing that fantasy with women, but I think I have adequately expressed how it doesn't work with men (for me) :biggrin1:
I think I understand. Thank you for clarifying. I am not sure why women would be submissive to you, but then again that's for another thread or PM. You intruige me to say the least.