Personally Ive found...there are many positions that fix this...unless your partner is a dead root......in doggy or chair grinding.....it goes all the way......helps if the female is extremely flexible..but thats merely my opinion...
You and your friend are clueless. Body size has NO correlation to vagina size.
As for fat stopping you fucking balls deep - well, those of you with that problem must be unadventurous fucks with no imagination because I've never had a problem finding positions for balls deep regardless of my size.
wow. well. after reading all of this i'll give my two cents.
1. most men tell me they prefer big women because there's more cushin on the inside, and there's very little chance if any at all of them banging into a pelvic bone. my understanding is that the fat makes it more cushy
2. if anyone is basing their opinion of only one plus sized woman then i believe the sample size is too small. .
The only time I have seen this is when I fuck a girl while spooning. Used to date this girl with a big booty not fat. Definitely had to take advantage of my length to fuck her deep. I could see that if I had a short dick It would have been hard to get past her big ass cheeks.
ALL women like big dicks.
The big legs + butt definitely take off a lot of length. I really, really prefer the bigger girls, so I have a good sample size, and there are ones who I lose ~3 inches more with than on smaller girls. That's 3" that average (just above 5") guys couldn't really afford to lose, since that'd be barely enough to move with.
The extra cushion also makes it a lot easier + nicer to take your time going in, so you just naturally go slow enough for her to warm up and make room for you. Thinner women who take a big dick are more likely to have a bad experience where someone who doesn't know how to use what they've got just leap right in.
Big butts + thighs also push you further from the cervix. I remember one time where a really tall, thick woman went on top who almost never went on top. This pushes all the fat out and she just mashed her cervix down. She started to get really scared and thought her vagina was broken, since she'd never felt that hit outside of a gynecological exam.
From my experience big girl prefer big dicks.