Do women generally have to lube up for a large one?

[Jessica237]

I've never had too? But I guess some would need to? If you wet enough it's not needed

 

[10inchmember]

Have you noticed that i many porn movies there is a cut just when it comes to penetration?

 

[supersecretlemur]

Seems to me that it varies from woman to woman, year to year, day to day, mood to mood.

 

[RawDog]

My ex wife refused to use bottled lube the first few times we fucked because she was convinced that it was somehow dishonest or took away from the experience because everything has to be natural otherwise it's not genuine.

She changed her mind the second time I tore her (which was around the fifth time we fucked)

 

[SEnewguy]

Definitely helps, no reason to avoid it for me unless your super wet anyway.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Lube can be neded because of endurance, too.

 

[jaap_stam]

Lube can be neded because of endurance, too.

Explain?

 

[RawDog]

Lube can be neded because of endurance, too.

Explain?

Not sure about Scarlet, but after her first orgasm, my wife's lube production starts diminishing. I found out that's actually pretty common. The more she cums and the longer we go at it, the more bottled lube we need to add.

FWIW, silicone lube lasts the longest and doesn't get tacky like water based lube does after extended use.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Not sure about Scarlet, but after her first orgasm, my wife's lube production starts diminishing. I found out that's actually pretty common. The more she cums and the longer we go at it, the more bottled lube we need to add.

FWIW, silicone lube lasts the longest and doesn't get tacky like water based lube does after extended use.

Pretty much this. Interesting to know it's common. Thanks, rawdog. (and your dear lady)
Since I'm pretty much at my tissue's limit of stretch, lube makes the difference between pleasant memory the next day and painful walking.
And I walk everywhere.
Took us a year to get this, no less.

I actually have to keep water by the bed to keep hydrated overall. Guess where the body conserves. :/

Coconut oil here. No condom issues.

 

[185248]

Goldilocks and the three bears comes to mind.

 

[ALooker]

I'm not going to say oh I never need lube. I love water based lube. Silicone is too sticky.

It totally depends on if you are having a sex marathon or a quickie or how turned on you are or if you are dehydrated!

 

[LargeInLife]

as your body sometimes doesn't make adequate enough lubrication for a ginormous peener. i read this somewhere. what has been your experience?

I can't speak for older women, as I understand that as a woman ages she might have more trouble lubricating herself, I can however speak to my experiences with younger women.

In my experience some women have wetter pussies than others. My first girlfriend, at her most aroused and turned on, would hardly seem to be very wet at all, even if you fingered her you could barely feel her wetness. (And no, as I'm sure the doubters out there might be thinking that this was a situation where I wasn't properly turning her on, to address said doubters, this girl very much enjoyed sex, and would orgasm very easily, usually having about 2-4 orgasms per session with me from penetration).

On the flip side. If I use my current lady, who I'm madly in love with, she has the wettiest pussy I've ever seen. Here's an example, the other day we were cooking in the kitchen together and she brushed up against me, I kissed her right on that spot she loves on her neck as I grabbed up a handful of her butt, next thing you know she's grinding on me as we're both fully clothed making out in the kitchen. I dropped down and in one quick motion pulled her skirt and panties off, and her pussy literally dripped on to the kitchen floor. Just as if you took a moist sponge and wrung it out.

So thats the first part of my answer to you. Some women are extremely wet, and others are less wet.

When it comes to a woman being prepared and ready to handle a very large penis entering her pussy, proper lubrication is very important, but thats not the only thing that matters, and its also not up to the woman to be responsible to make herself ready for a big dick. In my opinion, it's the man's job to make sure that she is ready to accept a huge dick. You're the one thats putting something huge inside of HER. I'm sure that is she was sticking something large inside of you, you would hope that she is respectful to you. So what does this mean to you? Well yes, her being properly lubricated is a must. This can be done in many ways which I'll come back to. But even more important than her being lubed up correctly, is her being aroused correctly. If you want her to enjoy herself, and if you want to keep her happy, and keep her coming back for more.... A woman needs to be VERY aroused to handle a huge dick, take my word for it bro. This is more important than just having proper lubrication. When a woman is unaroused, her vagina is quite small, and cannot handle very much inside of it comfortably. However when a woman becomes aroused, and then becomes very aroused (ie. with proper foreplay, kissing, touching, nibbling, licking, even whispering her secret fantasies into her ear and turning her on mentally) her pussy elongates, and tents up. It's called Vaginal Tenting. Her pussy literally stretches up and her parts almost rearrange themselves in preparation for penetration. This only happens when a woman is super turned on, and stays in that state for a decent amount of time, 20 minutes at least (you have to remember that men are microwaves and women are ovens. We as men are ready to go almost instantaneously when the mood strikes, but women need to warm up, the need their ovens pre-heated before you stick anything in)

What I'm getting at is this. If the mood strikes for your woman, and she becomes turned on... and you reach down and feel that she's just instantly become wet... that doesn't mean she's ready for you to shove your big dick inside of her (some situations might allow for this, especially if she's a girlfriend/wife who you have sex with regularly and she is quite used to youre size)... It just means that she's a little wet and starting to become turned on. If you were to shove it in her at that moment, she would not be ready, it would not be comfortable for her, and she wouldn't find as much pleasure from the experience. Especially considering that for a woman to climax, she needs to be comfortable enough to let herself climax, and when you fuck a woman who's not properly ready to be fucked, and your dick is huge, she'll probably feel pressure (not as if you're pressuring her, but literally pressure in her vagina) and she'll tense up, which literally has the opposite effect you want.

So to respond to your original statement: "as your body sometimes doesn't make adequate enough lubrication for a ginormous peener."

To make sex enjoyable for her when you're working with a tool in the "ginormous" category you need to take extra precautions....

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[LargeInLife]

...Continued from above...

Ideally, you'll get her nice and turned on, and her sweet juices will start to flow (mmm just writing that sentence is making my mouth water and crave to be pressed up on my lady's sweet glistening pussy lips) and once she's starting to feel the mood like this, you should keep it going for a while, keep touching her, playing with her nipples, kissing her, talking to her about things that turn her on, licking her... ideally you'll be able to get her off once during foreplay to make sure she's extra ready for penetration.

Then at that point, she's ready for penetration by your "ginormous peener"... and this is where lube comes into play. As I said, some pussies are wetter than others. If she's a super wet girl, then she's probably ready to go as is. If she's not the type who gets as wet, then grab silicone based lube, I recommend Pjur, it's the best. You can use silicone based lube with or without a condom, and it is silky and lasts a very long time (doesn't get sticky like water based lube, and water based lube just sucks in general, I don't recommend it ever). Even if she is the super wet kind of girl, lube will not hurt at all, so lube yourself up, feel free to apply some to your crotch and her crotch too so when she grinds her clit on you it will have a slippery buffer to slide around on... At this point, I recommend slowly easing yourself into her. I love to drag this process out as long as we both can stand... it builds anticipation, and watching her eyes roll back into her head when you give her just a little bit more, and then a little bit more, and then a litttle bit more... is just incredible... I mean, if you have a huge cock, why not take advantage of the advantages of having a huge cock right? Give her your dick slowly and at her pace, feel free to go even slower than her pace as she'll be aching for you to go deeper, which is a better state for her to be in as opposed to going too deep and hurting her and halting the progress by her wincing in pain. If things are going according to plan, she'll have probably already cum a few times at this point. I know in my experiences, there is often that moment where I'm teasing her with half of my dick and then eventually she is just begging me to put it in, and I'lll wait a few moments, and just surprise her with a deep thrust (I only do this when I know she's ready for it) and if she hasn't cum yet, THIS is the moment where she literally loses control and explodes. That's my favorite. Especially when she's held back her orgasm up until this moment and decides to finally let it go... unf...

Then there is the question of what kind of wet is she.

This might sound confusing but it's true. I know of two different ways a woman is wet. And I'm not a sex health professional or a doctor, I'm just an educated and experienced civilian amateur who loves pussy and pleasing women. The first type of wet is the wetness that is sticky and creamy, its slimy and thick, and it tastes like heaven. This is secreted from her vaginal walls as she's aroused. This fluid acts as an amazing lubricant, and it allows for very high sensitivity to be felt. Then there is the second type of wetness, this second type is more watery and thin, and is not as slippery, it has a slightly different aroma and it comes from her para-urethral gland (no it is not pee). This is what comes out when a woman squirts, or ejaculates. But she doesn't need to be a squirter for this fluid to appear, it can come out in small amounts without her "squirting" like you see in porn. I've experienced a squirter and I love it, the sensation of her releasing all over me with the warm juices is simply amazing, it bathes your dick and shaft in warmth and drips down your balls, and its just, wow. Now when a woman releases this second type of wetness, the more watery thin type, it can have a downside as it in a sense can wash away the thick slippery creamy wetness that was inside of her in the beginning. You can still keep fucking, and it won't be a big deal, but when she's squirting or just "gushing" a lot of this fluid, in my experience, the sensitivity goes down a bit, and she can eventually become rubbed a little raw as this fluid isn't as good as a lubricant as the first type of fluid. Yes, you can keep going as is, but theres a good chance she'll be a little sore when you go for round two, or she might even need a break for a few hours. So once she's squirted or gushed this fluid, and you can feel the wetness change from slimy to watery, at this point you have two options. If the session is coming to a close, then just finish up as normal. But if the session still has 5minutes or more left to go and you want to continue fucking for a while, then pull out for a moment, apply some drops of silicone based lube all over your dick, and then rub some on her pussy lips and clit too, maybe even rub some on your pad of skin just above your dick so her clit can have a nice slippery place to rub itself on, and then continue fucking... The sensation will be better for you both, and you're taking precautions to keep her pussy happier so that when you're done, and decide its time for round two, you can annihilate her pussy all over again and she'll be rolling in pleasure all over the bed, all day long, cumming and panting for breath, not knowing what hit her. Which in the end, is what it's all about right?

I know this isn't the answer you were looking for. And probably don't care to be hearing this stuff especially from another guy. But I know what I'm talking about, and I know what's best for you (haha but seriously) so just give it a chance. I hope this helps

 

[khadejiacat]

as your body sometimes doesn't make adequate enough lubrication for a ginormous peener. i read this somewhere. what has been your experience?

Not me, If you are a good kisser, that usually gets me ready. Actually, if you call me on your way over and talk to me the right way, I'm ready, lol.

 

[Guy-jin]

Not me, If you are a good kisser, that usually gets me ready. Actually, if you call me on your way over and talk to me the right way, I'm ready, lol.

That's so nice, right?

I had a girlfriend like that and it was fantastic. We'd talk on the phone for like five minutes before I got to her house and she'd jump me right inside the door. That woman was a treasure. A wet, wild treasure.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I get adequate foreplay AND I need lube every time. No shame in it.

 

[BaronSaber]

Not as a rule, and not because he's endowed, but sometimes extra lube is just a necessity. Probably age related.

age realted? you look 27-28?!!!

 

[BaronSaber]

I never need lube if my lover gets me excited and turned on. Foreplay is key, but if I am super-horny and into my guy, I will get wet just from thinking about his cock or even something as simple as seeing his profile. Sex is more than just physical, it is emotional and mental.

That said, HAVING a "ginormous peener" can sometimes mean that the owner of the peener thinks that his giant cock "magically" makes him an expert cocksman whose penis creates orgasms everywhere it goes by right of its innate ginormity. Or, the deluded owner of said ginormous peener mistakenly believes that his very presence creates rivers of wetness and dripping pussies in his wake, and therefore, he does not need to make any additional effort in attempting to arouse or pleasure the woman.

Bottom line: If the dude makes the effort at foreplay and pleasuring the woman, most women will naturally be aroused for sex, regardless of the guy's cock size. But every woman is different, and hormones and arousal vary from person to person and situation to situation, so some women may need lube.

how big is he? do you mean his profile here? did you meet here?

 

[bigbill810]

Need lube with my wife. She gets too wet sometimes, but it never goes in easy. I feel bad for her at first. Usually doesn't last long, she goes from a little wince to moaning and pleasure quickly. That makes it all better, lol

 

[EllieP]

age realted? you look 27-28?!!!

OK, I like you. A lot. Might be in love with you. 27-28? I would even take 37-38! LOL!