do women take a big cock for granted nowdays?

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  1. jake7.5

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    This may be an odd question, but do women nowdays take a big cock for granted? like are all men are suppose to be big? It made my mind ponder as I was watching this amature porn the other day, the guy was big, well above average, and the girl in the video just acted nonchalant, like not impressed with what he had. as he was expected to be hung. does that make sense? :confused: it seems that there are more of them out there nowdays and i guess maybe the odds are 8 out of 10 are gonna be big & the women are gonna get lucky now?? Right??

    to the food producers; stop growing genetically grown chickens & stop putting growth hormones in the foods our kids eat. these boys cocks nowdays are as big as shetland ponies. and all these young girls nowdays are growing breast at a younger age, more so than they ever did. :frown1:
     
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    8 out of 10 penises are not big. It may seem so if you watch a lot of porn and hang out here too much - but no, 8 out of 10 penises are not big ones.

    Do women expect to see large penises now? My answer would be no. In fact, for many of the women I've known big penises are not just a surprise - they're a little scary. For me personally - I don't expect to see anything over seven inches, but I'm pleasantly surprised if I do.
     
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    Why would a girl in a porn be shocked by anyones penis unless it's her first porn or she gets someone who is amazingly hung? I would think an average LARGE sized cock wouldn't make a porn star blink. That's just my opinion of course since I'm not a porn star. I don't think I would ever take a large cock for granted.
     
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    Porn and real life aren't the same thing. If you're in porn as a guy you're supposed to be 8 or bigger, so any guy a porn girl works with is going to be pretty big, and they're used to that and expect that.
     
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    No, I don't think so. Maybe I'm wrong or just niave but I definately don't want to be compared to any girls in porn anyway.
     
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    it's porn!

    ffs.
     
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    well i think that as the perception of women by boys seems to be changed because of porn, it might be true for women and their expectations. Now i don't think they watch as much porn, but it still might change the view.
    And it might be true that the hormonal and medicamentous acceleration of the growth in meat production actually influences the bodies of younger generations.
    But i don't think that an amateur porn video is related to that, why should she make a big deal about it, does your girlfriend act surprised every time she sees your boner?
    And if they are making amateur porn it probably wasn't the first time for that couple.
     
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    indeed.
    this is a very silly thread.
     
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    while i do find it interesting to talk about whether and if to what degree porn does change a girls perception of boys.
     
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    not as much as it's changed boy's perceptions of girls i would wager.

    men in porn are usually just your average looking jock. a bit too heavy on the muscle for a lot of women's tastes, fairly attractive faces, above average cocks, but pretty much natural.

    women on the other hand? completely unnatural looking, fake hair colour, fake lips, fake breasts, labiaplasty, anal bleaching.

    lots of young men think pubic hair, meat curtains and natural droop quite shocking.
     
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    lmao........that is true.......but funny.
     
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    Yeah i wouldn't bet against that, it is just that whenever i heard about porn changing the perception of someone it was always about the boys perception of women, i do think that is the case, and i do think it is problematic, but i still am interest how it is on the flip side. I mean wouldn't it really be possible that porn changed what girls think is the average cock, or in general how they look naked.
     
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    men walk around topless all the time. we know what guys look like and that porn stars tend to be the fitter end of normal.
    the dicks, whist a bit bigger than average, are natural. they look like scaled up versions of the average knob on the street...and they aren't usually that much bigger anyway. most guys in porn look 7-8''ish.
     
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    You'd be right to the extent that girls have increased their porn consumption relative to men over time.

    Certainly, big cock is something that girls today feel that they have more selection over compared to their mothers or their grandmothers. This website itself is an example - or rather, the women on this website are an example. Women can be more open about their preference than before, and so awareness of the preference and about variations on cock size has increased.
     
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    I don't think like a girl obviously, so I do not know how many even let it really change their opinions, however, I would believe it is the smaller ones that are taken for granted most. Disappointment at something that could do the job, and do it well if under a skilled user.

    Some average sized ones may also be taken for granted, in that they are neither big nor small and are therefore not worth even thinking about. She may simply wish it was bigger again.

    The big ones offer the satisfaction to these size queens, but it won't stop them wanting more (perhaps?).

    Personally I wouldn't consider anything more than a quick fling with somebody who considers a penis' dimensions over the person it is attached too. But then I'm sure that wouldn't be too much of a problem for them.
     
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    You know I never really thought most of the porn guys looked that big? I just assumed it was the combo of camera and being totally shaved and the fact that the girls seem extremely petite. Well until I saw shane diesel, then I was kind of shocked. Other than that I never really thought they looked that different from what I had already seen. I don't really think most porn gives us above average expectations. I don't normally focus in on the guys cock and wonder how big it is? I honestly never really thought of it until the above mentioned actor.
     
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    I know I do. I live with him so it's just always there. I guess I take it for granted.
     
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    first of all people knew women preferred big dicks back in the day or else there wouldn't have been all those old jokes about it, and cod pieces. your typical woman today has more sex partners than in the past so if anything she is more likely to have a more realistic view of size than women in the past who only knew their husband, maybe a few others, and rumor. your average cosmopoliton girl has probably seen 100 cocks in her life. she gets that there is a range there.

    as for porn: are you fucking serious? i hate to break it to you but when women freak out about penis size in porn they are acting. they knew what they were getting into when they signed up. there are plent of porn scenes where they guy has an above average to large cock (most pornstars do) but the point of the video has nothing to do with size fetish so it goes unmentioned. porn stars see a lot of big dicks, a lot more than susie rotten crotch down the street has.
    as for it being amatuer, so what again? like was said above it probably wasnt that couples first time. girls dont freak out and yell about how big your cock is ever time you fuck them unless they see that it makes you feel good.
     
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    Dude, I've missed you! :kiss:
     
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    well yeah most are 6.5-8 but all of those factors from camera angle, to petite actresses, to shaved pubes and flat stomachs are all meant to give an impression of a big cock. porn producers make a lot of money knowing what they are doing.