Do you feel loose from having a hung boyfriend?

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  1. thehighheelsgirl

    thehighheelsgirl New Member

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    So I've been with my boyfriend for a lil over a year, who is quite large (just under 11" and quite thick). My last two boyfriends were about 8" and 9 1/2" before my one now (I know I've been lucky lol). Well while being home for the holidays last night I got in a big fight with my boyfriend, who isnt home with me, and I ended up going out for drinks with my ex boyfriend....and then we went back to his place and had sex. He's about 7" probably average thickness. Needless to say it was a little different than I'm used to lately. He got me off, but I just coudnt get over how different it was. With my boyfriend I love how he stretches me and pushes in and out of me deep and slow. My ex kinda felt like a finger in me after my boyfriend lol.

    So, to other girls here who have hung boyfriends or have sex with large guys alot, do you feel like your "wrecked" or all stretched out down there?

    Jen
     
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    My hymen still bleeds... can I tell a real difference... no both boys are up there and close to each other... I'm an obsessive compulsive PC tightener. So everything feels big or huge to me. Sorry not going to get a good answer from me. :p
     
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    Your last 3 guys have been between 8 & 11" long...WOW, that is defying the odds as isnt that many hung guys around.

    Ive only had 1 guy id consider large and at the time i did feel the difference in myself but i have always been rather tight (so ive been told) however i have always gone back to my original size. That may have been due to the fact that i was constantly doing my kegal exercises to keep the muscles tight.

    Maybe doing kegals could help you..
     
  4. snoozan

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    In my experience men that are average can still hurt a little bit going in, no matter how wet and aroused I may be. It seems like I'm always a bit tight. I don't even do kegels/PC exercises but I should start for reasons unrelated to sex-- childbirth can kinda mess up the plumbing a bit. With that said, my vagina is still pretty tight even after having a baby (by cesearean).
     
  5. Lordpendragon

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    You may have a large vagina to begin with.
     
  6. snoozan

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    There is nothing wrong with a large vagina, by the way. When I was at the free STD clinic and they whipped out the child speculum with Mickey Mouse or something ridiculous like that, I was rather embarrassed. Also I have some pain during intercourse in certain positions even with guys that are average sized.

    In any event, large vagina, small vagina, large penis, small penis, there's nothing wrong with any of them. I think it's interesting that we think large penises and small vaginas are the most desirable genital conformations. If you put the two together, OW.
     
  7. OmahaBeef

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    Sounds like you hit the lottery 3 times and then settled for a weak 4th time payout...

    Can I interest you in acompanying me to the casino?

    Can anyone detect my sarcasm?

    ...OB
     
  8. DC_DEEP

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    Snoozie, Lee, Think... all you ladies who always Keep Up With The Kegels, I applaud you.

    A question for the original poster: a tampon is much shorter and thinner than even most of the very smallest cocks... can you wear tampons, or do they just fall out after you insert them?
     
  9. snoozan

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    Well thank you, sir.

    So you didn't ask me, but I have to say I have personally experienced the sneeze-ejection of a tampon. At my mother-in-law's house. At Thanksgiving. While wearing a skirt. With no underwear. It was BAD. :biggrin1:

    That really wasn't on topic. I would assume the OP can use a tampon just fine because of, you know, human anatomy.
     
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    Maybe its only me but what the heck did U go and had sex with ur ex-boyfriend. Everyone seems to have missed the real point here...U had sex with another guy, ur EX...and then U go on and talk about size????
     
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    Miss Valentine, you may tickle my pickle.
     
  12. thehighheelsgirl

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    Hey... well on the issue of cheating....I'm not sure what to tell my boyfriend on that. I cant say I feel good about all that.

    My real issue though....I'm not sure if I have an extra large vagina....I remember when I was in high school and lost my virginity and had my first few boyfriends they were all 6 or 7 inches. I used to be really tight. I'm also only 5 3 and 105 pounds. I didnt get a guy who was around 8 til I was 17 or 18. I've had like 5 guys who were 8 or bigger out of all the guys I've had sex with, and just been lucky the last 3 were big.

    I really kinda think my current bf has just ruined my cooch lol. Yes I can use a tampon, but I cant use the little thin ones I used to be able to anymore. I do kegals but like...if I'm not squeezing...I feel loose but I can squeeze pretty hard. I guess for reference, when my bf fingers me he can get 3 or 4 fingers in pretty easy.

    So am I loose?

    Jen
     
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    Either "thehighheelsgirl" doesn't have the slightest concept of true size or she is actually a teenage "he," digging for answers to his juvenile misconceptions (understandable).

    The story is quite ellaborate, considering he could have just asked, "Is it possible for the vagina to bet permanently 'stretched' by a large object/penis. And the answer would be, "Size matters to some women but not most. Her vagina doesn't become permanently stretched, but women can develop preferences for large dicks based on past experiences with hung guys."

    :cool:
     
  14. Lordpendragon

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    You can have a larger vagina without being loose.

    I know a remarkable woman who can accomodate a man's fist and squeeze on a pencil. :smile:
     
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    well...I just think this is such a stupid issue to have if Ur loose or not. The real issue is about that U cheated on ur bf...

    I totally agree with thirdlegmeat. And U cant get streched out permanently...I dunno why I keep on writing here...this is just soooo stupid.

    BYE
     
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    Thank you for that! I'm finding that that is one of the biggest misconceptions out there. The example you gave may seem kind of extreme, but I do think a woman's vagina is quite capable of accomodating various sizes.
     
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    Consistent sex with a larger guy may cause your vagina to "adjust" a bit. However, if you stop having sex for a while (or stop having sex with the large guy) your vagina will return to its natural state (whether that was tight, loose, or somewhere in between).

    Trust me, I know.

    If you were tighter before, you will become that way again, and even more so if you do Kegels. Then, if you end up with an average guy, he won't feel like a "pencil."

    You may always retain a preference for the feel of a large penis, but you're not permanently "loose."
     
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    Snooz... I hear you with the position pain... I can't be penetrated in missionary style... unless I contort my hips in a painful way. So those exams make me bawl.... it hurts more than anything in the world.
     
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    whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? a mickey mouse speculum would be the most bizarre thing i've ever heard of...i have to assume it wasnt an officially licensed product, eh?