Dorm Room + Masturbation=?

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  1. italia89

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    I'm going to college in the fall and I'm not quite sure how to handle the "masterbation factor" in dorm living. I don't really know the guy I'll be living with, it's a small space (zero privacy), and i'm not really keen on showing off my size...but I need to get off. Anybody got some words of wisdom?
     
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    Yeah, my college roommate discovered me jerking off once. He was a very conservative and religious guy, i.e. Fundamentalist Christian. He's now a minister! Thankfully, I had the closet door open and stood behind it(alas, no room to hide in the closet, although I was "closeted" at the time!)and was shielded from being seen "fully" as he entered the door. As I recall, I was jerking off to some photo of a naked East German couple(M+F) from an East German magazine. Awkward moment!
     
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    I sometimes manage to wank lying next to my wife without her knowing. Lift your legs slightly so your hand isn't rubbing the bed sheet and take it slow, the build up is amazing because it's slower than normal. Failing that do it together.
     
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    You two probably won't have the same class schedule, so jerk off when you know he's in class. As for showing off your size, you're going to see each other naked; it's inevitable in such situations with changing and showering. Don't try to cover it up or timing it to when he's not looking - it just makes your life more complicated and, when he finally does happen to see it (and he will), it will be a big deal whereas, were he to see it the first day, it's old news in a couple days.

    Another thing to consider is that he's going to need to jerk off too, so be aware of what time he does it, how he feels about it, and you'll know what he's comfortable with. The worst thing you can do is pretend that you don't jerk off and that it's "disgusting" that you're roommate does, cause that sort of attitude will blow up in your face (no pun intended).
     
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    bigmuscles_averagecock gave the best advice - especially about trying to pretend otherwise and the backfire of denying that one masturbates. Even the Fundamentalist Christian guy masturbated - i.e. the 1% of young men who claim that dont' masturbate are lying. You just want to work slowly towards dropping space boundaries concerning nakedness.
     
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    Big muscles gets it exactly right. (By the way, this works out somehow in every dorm room in the world, so I wouldn't waste time worrying about it. It isn't that big of a problem.)
     
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    if u dont want to show off (wich is totally normal) u can go to the bathroom and lock the door...or u can wait until he fells asleep at night. even if he isn't really sleeping...he wont tell a thing and stay quiet...
     
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    be VERRRRRRYYYY quiet. My second year in the dorms I had a double instead of a suite for two, so no separation... and I could never get to sleep without rubbing one out. My roommate was a pretty sound sleeper, or at least he never let on that he knew what I was doing. Was in an un-airconditioned dorm, so fans were running high speed all night long- which gave me a little "cover".

    Yea, I've been caught... and in some pretty embarrassing situations too. Have also caught my roommates as well. It happens. Don't make a big deal when it does... and don't go telling everyone either... that street goes both ways!
     
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    Maybe he'll want to help you and it won't be a problem!
     
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    yeah i think your concern is typical of a fresh...along with all the other concerns... ince you get comfortable with the roomie youd be suprised how much more relaxed youll be.. underwear and being naked in yoru room with him there will be no big deal..

    and really dude every guy in that dorm will be trying to find a place to toss one off.. you have the showers, bathrooms, when your roomie is at class, etc etc... it will be no big deal at all.

    in my dorm it came to the point where guys would talk about it.. there would be dudes whod come in yoru room and ask if any one has a magazine or anything they can use to toss off to.. then theyd like come back and return it and all laugh and act like we didnt want to touch it.

    seriously bro.. eventually you will see more dick, more hardons in the morning, etc that you will get used to all that...

    and trust me if you are big all the guys will eventually see it at some point.. especially your roomate.. you cant live with another dude and not see each other naked...he will see yoru dick bro. Im not saying hell see you with a hardon..but at some point it will be partialed.. or youll wake up in the morning with morning wood. The lamest thing is a guy who is all shy, changes in the bathroom, puts his underwear in under his towel etc etc.. dont be that guy!
     
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    The shower always worked for me :). I agree with everyone it is not a big deal. If he catches you, get a laugh out of it.
     
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    Just do your things and see how he react if he see you.
     
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    It's possible to get off without stroking, remember. Just lie on your front and rub your dick against the sheets. Or if you're really desperate, do it in the shower - no one goes barefoot in there anyway. But BE SURE you clean it up. The water noise makes for good cover.
     
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    if its a big dorm its even harder to do it in the bathrooms. i did it wherever was clean haha. some class buildings were smaller and had 1 person bathrooms, those were always good. but like others said, both you will be doing it in the room one time or another. when the lights are out and your roomate has been sleeping for a while is the best time. that was my most frequent time if memory serves me correctly
     
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    uh, yeah, i'm with rico. you always have privacy in the shower.
     
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    You might be as suprised as I was. Never spotted him playing with his penis, and at one point he said he didn't know what masturbation was. From his expressions, he seemed that he was telling the truth; I told him to google it :biggrin1:

    A couple of minutes later and we did it together. (Certainly wasn't shy of showing his uncut boner of approx just under 7")

    I think his truth was reinforced due to the fact that he seemed cautious about pulling his foreskin back too far, and the number of questions he was asking.

    After that, I noticed him doing it roughly about 3 times a day, but of course he might of been doing it whilst I wasn't there too, so who knows the right number. He's obviously liked the pleasure part of it :smile:
     
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    I was only in the dorms a couple semesters. You'll lean his schedule and when he's not going to be there. That will give you some private time to get off. I was cursed with a roomate who pretty much never left our rooms (part of the reason I moved off campus) and went to an ABS a few times to get off.
     
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    You could also become a volunteer sperm donor. Most reproduction clinics seek young males who are clean and under 35 years of age and they even pay you for the sperm. They are private.

    But thenk as so many have pointed out, 99 percent of human males masturbate. The other one percent lie about masturbation. You need not do your pleasuring in a public manner, but if you are ever caught by your room mate you can suggest that what you are doing is very normal and you have nothing to hide. He then also might become very comfortable with his own masturbation. Too many other problems in college to even be concerned about self pleasuring. A normal event.
     
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    Go to Adult Web forum, search thread :One of the best Vids ever"
    Have fun in school!:cool:
     
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    I had this problem last year. I just waited till they (I had 3) went out for the night or left for the weekend. Usually I could get back from my classes and j/o before any of them was done for the day so it worked out well....im not one for shower jerking (i need porn!) but you could do that if you have a private bathroom.