Edging - Tantric Male Masturbation:

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  1. B_Austin Blue

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    Tantric Masturbation - What Is It?

    Reprinted from Tantric Masturbation - What Is It?



    Edging refers to getting to the EDGE of cumming, a stroke or several away, and then staying there for a while. It goes by many names:
    • EDGING = staying on the EDGE of cuming (very different from "edge play" which also plays with breath to enhance arousal, but which literally rides the edge of asphyxiation to achieve this; not something I want to do or have done to me!);
    • PEAKING = staying at the peak of arousal;
    • BRINKING = staying on the BRINK of cuming;
    • TEETERING = teetering on the edge of cuming w/o falling (thanks in Melbourne);
    • PLATEAUING = cruising on the Western Prairie of BLISS;
    • VERGING = surfing on the edge of the Wave of BLISS;
    • ENDORPHING = ever so gently stroking your Erotic Handle to increase the flow of ENDORPHINS in your brain;
    • PROLONGED AROUSAL = staying AROUSED for a welikemLONG time;
    • TANTRIC MASTURBATION = doing ALL the above :eek:)

    I like to do it for 10 minutes several times a day and for at least 20 minutes early in the day. But this is a luxury I cannot afford some days!

    Some refer to the intense feelings while riding very close to cumming as ORGASM-WITHOUT-EJACULATION; that is, without the sharp contractions we have when we shoot out cum. I find that the intensity of pleasure gotten while riding the edge is at least as great as what I get when I actually do cum, and the prospect of doing it again very soon with the same or even greater pleasure the next time is what convinces me (usually) to pull back away from pushing over the edge and just enjoying the incredibly intense pleasure I can give myself.

    I also find after doing it for 15-20 minutes that I usually get to a meditative state and let my mind travel free of what I am doing with my cock. Sometimes, I have had esp. good insights on my work that lead me in good new directions, hence the saying: "I'm smarter when I'm hard."


    It is very hard to communicate what edging is w/o DOING it, experiencing it yourself and for each of us and, indeed, each time I do it, it is a bit different. That is our god priapus surprising us! So COME, TASTE THE SWEET FLOW OF NECTAR !



    Some Details


    The key is
    Be Mindful.

    Pay attention to what you feel - Savor your feelings in ALL parts of your body. Don't focus only on your cock, but be aware of tingles in your feet, your back, your mind, and especially your perineum and prostate. Help your mind be aware of these by touching yourself in these places.

    I like to put the index finger of my left hand (well lubed!) up my butt hole and touch my prostate and wiggle the end of my finger. Pressure on the perineum is also exquisite. Savor the little tingles, and when starting, don't rush it. Vary your starting routine. Best of all: surprise yourself: if I can think I am going to do one thing and then my hands end up all on their own doing something else, that is the best!

    Most guys find that porn flicks or friction fiction is useful, if at all, only at the start of a session. After you get GOOD VIBRATIONS going all the way from your cockhead to your prostate, focus on these, savor them cultivate them. If you have other ideas, or porn thoughts, or even work ideas come into your head, just let them float across the screen of your consciousness, the surface of your meditative mind, and stay centered on your breathing, your body.

    Consume the deliciousness of the tingles in your perineum, in your cock, as you pull your balls, twist your nipples. If something heightens your pleasure, just let it happen and focus on the deliciousness, letting thought of how it happened pass.
    Sometimes after edging for 15-30 minutes nonstop, I find my mind wanders to some problem I have been wrestling with, whether mundane logistical stuff or my mathematical theory stuff, and I get a new insight that seemed very far from something I could think of, a true gift from Tantric Masturbation.

    This is what I refer to as seeing with my
    Third Eye:
    which I locate just below your frenulum (or lack of frenulum in most circ'd men).


    When my third eye opens up this way and I have an unexpected vista, what W. H. Auden referred to as being guided by one's cock in writing poetry, I permit my meditative discipline and my attention to my breathing to slack off for a bit so I can register it in a more secure memory module of my brain before I go back to riding the edge of consciousness with my cock.

    Thank you Humphrey Carpenter for noting this adivce
    from Auden to John Pudney on p. 118 in
    W. H. Auden: A Biography.
    1981 Boston: Houghton Mifflin. ​



    Paying attention means that the NEXT time, after you surprise yourself by cuming unexpectedly, you may notice some warning signs of what is about to happen.

    These will be new sensations of which you have not previously been aware. A startling example for me occurred when I was rushing to get high, forcing to the edge after I had already ridden the edge a lot and my prostate was FULL; my prostate decided to empty itself without much of any sensation at all.

    It just poured out a good tablespoon of cum like it or not! I now recognize a slight fluttering in my prostate as the warning sign that this is about to happen.

    I also now know that, if I simply clench my perineum muscles (i.e., do a very strong Kegel tightening) as soon as this flow starts, then I can stop this emptying and then gradually resume my climb to the summit of the Hill of Pleasure. This is a good example of how being MINDFUL matters in edging.
     
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    Very cool stuff. Thanks for the info and the link. That spot where spirituality and sexuality meet is one of my favorite topics!

    Austin Blue, have you been doing anything that you'd care to post in the way of personal experiences?
     
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    I just edged today for a new record 3 and 1/2 hours before finally allowing myself to ejaculate semen.

    Just before the final ejaculation - I had what I call a mini ejaculation where my cock was pouring out precum in a slow flowing stream. I used the pre-ejaculate fluid to lube my dick and continued masturbating to an incredible final orgasm and huge, I mean huge volumn of semen ejaculated.

    I was an amazing feeling, my entire penis felt electric and my cock head was so sensitive that towards the end, even the lightest stroke was sending me almost over that 'edge'.

    I hardly ever have the time to allow my body to experience this sort of total tantric ejaculation - but it was worth it!
     
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    One of my favorite topics :biggrin:
    This is a form of sex that was taught to me when I was 19 by an older woman. At that time I came too fast and she told me I needed to learn to "fuck like a man" LOL. At first it took a lot of concentration and self-control to hold it before the point of no return.

    My gf from Russia does this to me with her mouth and hands whenever we have the time. I call it riding the wave. Just staying on the edge of ejaculation without cumming is completely amazing. She didn't believe me at first that it was possible to have an orgasm without cummimng, but now she really loves to make me moan. It starts out coming to edge and retreating back from it. After a few times, the orgasm becomes nearly continuous. We can go for hours, stopping to take tea breaks and showers. We'll be sitting on the couch and she reachs over and starts to stroke it. My cock is so sensitive by then that the edge just comes almost instantly. Later when we fuck, the same feeling continues as I stroke her pussy, with waves of.. of.. ectascy coming from my dick running though my body. I kid you not!!!

    For me, after edging for a long time, it can actually become really hard to cum. I have to really bare down and fuck her hard, really hard, to finally blow my load. Once I got so tired and tried to fake the ejectulation, but she didn't fall for it, LOL. The final explosion is mind numbing.
     
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    I've been practicing this for a looonnnggg time.... LOVE it ! I can go for hours, its good for the prostate and the PC muscles, as well as the mind..LOL ! One of my favorite things to do is to find someone who's never done this before, and edge them senseless, the milk them. I find that after a prolonged session of this, a guy can cum several times.... and they LOVE it... they're massive orgasms too. I have a group on Yahoo on the topic of milking....
     
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    I'm just starting to seriously get into this practice, but I also love it. The level I'm at now has helped me to stay at supreme hardness levels while having sex with my wife. This in turn has helped her learn how to squirt!
     
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    Do you usually stream precum? I was wondering if I prolong my masturbation sessions to several hours, would I be able to stream too. I usually just dribble precum and let it gather but I have never experienced a stream of precum because I rarely pass the hour mark. :disappointed:
     
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    I knew I couldn't have been alone in this discovery.

    I have a long term, long distance relationship...

    Masturbation is an art.

    Practice makes perfect.

    :wink:
     
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    This segues into a different area, but I luv to edge to the point where my precum starts to flow. Often times, at this juncture, I like to lie on my back, kick my legs up and let the precum flow into my mouth...YUM! Getting hard just thinking about it!!! The actual cumshot is still hard to take and most of the time I won't shoot in my mouth.
     
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    I frequently EDGE then popup a picture of Ralph Nader. The feeling stops immediately. I then EDGE somemore than popup a picture of Theodore Roosevelt. The feeling of course stops. When I have to go to work and need release I popup a picture of Bea Arthur and let it shoot. Once I shot 11 feet.
     
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    sounds interesting...not sure I have the patience or discipline necessary...
    I've tried before, but I've only gone to the edge 2 or 3 times before I finally took myself all the way there...
     
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    Haha me to no will power here!

    By the third time "i sprint to the edge and jump off no riding the wave for hours for me"


    Maybe i will try agian tonight!
     
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    When I have time I edge for 5 to 6 hours. There is nothing you can compare it to, pure pleasure the whole time and when you do cum it is incredible!
     
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    Words well spoken - love edging and then exploding!!!!!!!
     
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    edging will make you a better lover. get in that fully extended state and my cock gets so hard, it gets numb, and I can last forever to the point where the wife has "O'd" plenty and is asking me to please cum.
     
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    Edging with a guy or just on the phone can really get a precum flow going for me
     
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    Edging is great
     
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    I have experienced it...phenomenal. Its not something I do every time, sometimes I just wanna cum and do not have the discipline. But this is the way to experience pleasure on an intense level....best done with a partner...for support and coaching.