OK...what really caused it to happen for me regularly? It was seing other women do and and knowing it was normal :tongue: It really feels like your going to pee yourself at first when youre not used to the sensations and while the G spot is being stimulated it must enlarge and press on your baldder a little as it feels like your going to pee. THAT feeling I think is the reason some women don't ejaculate. Its hard to just let it happen. If you tense up or stop it or move or cease the stimuation, the moment is lost.
So I guess the biggest thing I can say to you Doc if your with a woman and experimenting and wanting to make her ejaculate ...tell her it is normal to feel like your going to pee....tell her it passes. When the feeling passes, it turns to mind blowing pleasure that you CAN NOT stop hahaha then you get an overwhelming uge to bear down....hard to explain..if she had something high in her pussy and needed to get it out ( like a vibrating egg etc) that pushing it out sensation if what you feel you need to do ( and tell her to do it ) ..just tell her to go with everything her body is telling her and not to worry about the mess :biggrin1:
The actual stimuation part for me is after I am already turned on by other things ( whatever makes you horny) G spot stimulation ( for me ) before I am horny feels annoying and wrong
so I need to be in the mood so to speak .
He then moves on to fingers stroking that G spot lightly,then he moves to kind of hard fast two fingers (palm facing my belly ) finger fucking making sure the fingers brush over the g spot area.
Keeping on doing this even though I am moving about alot and moaning etc, a hard steady pace with fingers does it for me. G spot orgasms are all about internal stimulation not clitoral....so fingers are important. If she hates fingers, some small curved dildos might do the trick.
Once I start cuming, or ejaculating, anything will make me spurt, once it starts, I can cum just standing there , or fucking, or whatever ( quite a show :tongue: )
Its like my clitoral orgasms, once I have built up to the orgasm stage, anything makes me cum again and again....................
I think we as women are a bit ewww about mess and noises and being different ...I know it used to freak me out 15 odd years ago...no info on it then..I thought I was a wacko and would stop all the time . If my hubby got me drunk and did it
( he always loved it :smile: ) I'd die of embarrassment the next day ( at that time in my life I had NO idea what was happening )
For what it is worth, its a bit of a thing at our swingers club to see if we can get the new girls who come to spurt......we have NEVER failed ( yet ) haha....however we are dealing with women who are open enough sexually to go to a swingers club, so not the general public. One woman did it for the first time at 56 !
:smile:
Honey