First time anal - tips?

[hugokiss]

I will be spending a few days in Washington DC later this month. I was planning to use my privacy and hotel room there to find a guy through the internet. I have never been fucked before, anyone any tips of how to prepary myself?

Thanks

 

[Hallmark]

one thing is for sure you are going to need to clean yourself out

 

[hugokiss]

one thing is for sure you are going to need to clean yourself out

And how does that work?

 

[BigGlansDC]

Many guys clean themselves out by taking an enema before they receive a cock anally.

 

[macho8]

suggest yoou find someone who knows what he's doing... and take it doggy or on your back. dont sit on it.

 

[Rugbypup]

It's bloody difficult. Sure as hell doesn't work like porn, just slipping in there.

Keep in mind porn is a well used hole! In real life, the first time is difficult, painful, and did I mention difficult!

Depends on his size I guess. The bigger he is, the less easy for you it becomes.

Sigh.

 

[Nectarseeker69]

I give my self an enema before I get fucked in the ass. I recommend you do too because even if you don't have an urge to "go" there can still be a lot of stuff up there.

 

[Stephenmass]

Macho, I feel the opposite of what you said. I think if one receiving anal for the first time sits on it rather than letting the top go at the "tops pace" allows the receiver to "take it" at his own pace vs the pace the top thinks is suitable. If it's too painful or whatever he stops or gets off completely. LUBE LUBE LUBE!! Condoms! My first time was with an x/bf and he "got me" while I was bent over his kitchen counter. It hurt like fucking hell and I made him take it out. He was pretty much a bottom type guy anyway so it was easy to turn the situation around, but since then with my current guy I don't have any problems whatsoever.

 

[thebesthotsex]

never been fucked before but i'd say u should practice with a dildo first.

 

[tlbuncut5]

Clean yourself out, Relax and enjoy. You are in for the most wonderful feeling of your life....Let us know how it goes

 

[jjsjr]

I dont use enemas to clean out, they make me cramp.

I have an ear bulb (look it up) fill with warm water, and shoot it up there. Essentially I'm giving myself a mini colonic.

Just a second opinion...... but yes, cleaning out is proper etiquette.

MANY BOYS DON"T EVEN KNOW THIS!!!!!

 

[houtx48]

The friggin search is your friend there are only about 15 threads on this subject.

 

[D_LeonardoDeCrapio]

Go Slow.
Use a Condom.
Use Lube.
Don't force anything.
Be into it.
Don't pick someone you wouldn't trust to "pop your cherry".

 

[bimetaldude]

Some great tips here. I just had my cherry popped Friday night in Miami. Been seeing him for 19 months long distance and it was my first time doing anal. I thought I had cleaned myself out well in the shower and came out and rode him (he is 8X6) and was having a little issues getting it in, but finally did and I should have rode it slow, it just was so intense and felt so awesome I was going really fast and my BF told me to slow it down, and so I did and it felt real good too. But my legs started getting sore (he was sitting in a armless chair). So he asked if I wanted him to fuck me on the floor and I said Ok and he got a towel and a pillow. I got on my back, guided him in with ease and he fucked me pretty hard and came deep inside me. Here it is Sunday and my quads feel like I did 300 squats. And my hole is still tender/sore. Oh and there WAS a stinky smell when he pulled out but I did not see anything on his dick. So I feel I probably should have gotten a bulb to clean out more with. Anyway, I really enjoyed it especially getting fucked on my back and face to face like that.

Oh and I was like hyper ventilating for some reason, my body felt like a furnace and I was getting short of breath. After we were done and I showered and stuff I was trembling all over my body, like a rush. It was weird but felt really relaxing and good.

Back home now. I cannot wait to fuck again. I just think I will take it slower and try breathing through my nose next time LOL

 

[Stephenmass]

bimetal, if there was a problem with being dirty, the smell would have been DURING your sex, not just as he pulls out so that is why he was clean. I don't know this for sure, but I think sometimes if a guy is big as it sounds like your guy is, that it more or less creates a vacuum as he begins to take it out. Not to be gross, but it is during that time that I think it is so vacuum like that the suction gets the better of your "inner sanctum"...trying to put it politely.

 

[hot-rod]

I dont use enemas to clean out, they make me cramp.

I have an ear bulb (look it up) fill with warm water, and shoot it up there. Essentially I'm giving myself a mini colonic.

Just a second opinion...... but yes, cleaning out is proper etiquette.

MANY BOYS DON"T EVEN KNOW THIS!!!!!

How do you clean-out with just a bulb? I stick a stainless hose of warm water up there for 30 to 40 minutes lying down in my bathtub. I was able to lay there and take my big 12in rubber dick with no problem and it felt really good. Gotta clean-out!

 

[bimetaldude]

bimetal, if there was a problem with being dirty, the smell would have been DURING your sex, not just as he pulls out so that is why he was clean. I don't know this for sure, but I think sometimes if a guy is big as it sounds like your guy is, that it more or less creates a vacuum as he begins to take it out. Not to be gross, but it is during that time that I think it is so vacuum like that the suction gets the better of your "inner sanctum"...trying to put it politely.

Thank you!!! I had evacuated my bowels 40 minutes before we did it and also showered and cleaned out with my fingers in shower. so that is good to know.

 

[Stephenmass]

bimetal, another thing. Before he pulls out, if there is any room, break the suction with your finger. You may hear air or whatever or sometimes you will find yourself "air farting" because the seal is so tight and he is pumping you full of air. They don't smell though normally because it's just the air he is putting in!!