First time, how fast did you cum?

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  1. D_Sergio Swallowme

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    Hey guys and gals,

    So I'm still a virgin at 19, I know its not too young but just still havent found that right gal. Now I jerk off quite often, Id say every other day at least? Maybe more, I wanna ask the people out there how fast did you cum your first time? Did you jerk off alot prior? I've heard stories where guys their first time as soon as they are in they bust, I know I dont really want that to happen to me I want it to be a good experience for her just as much as me. But then I've heard of other spectrum stories where a guy says hes lasted hours his first time. How can a guy last that long his first time? Any tips you can give a guy so hes a bit prepared before going in?

    Thanks guys!
     
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    Actually I had the opposite problem my first time...I couldn't cum at all. Probably from too much masturbating desensitizing me
     
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    It took me about an hour or so (including oral sex breaks). I had been to the the pub previously so was rather desensitized by alcohol.
     
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    With a thread like this you are going to get a lot of people saying they lasted for hours their first time and like the stories you have heard of others lasting for hours, chances are they are lying. I would say most men last a couple of minutes if not less. Have a look around on the internet, there is this page: Having sex for the first time? Here’s what to expect. | AskStudent

    Basically you get overexcited and cum almost instantly. Just take things real slow and joke about it after, when i lost it with a girl we joked saying that the fun part was coming afterwards when we got to practice and build up stamina. I think my first time having sex i came in less than a minute, it was a case of a couple of pokes and that was it, boxers were back up and i was happy, in the link an article states the first times are for the men and then you learn to do it for the women, it is part of the fun. Just don't worry too much about it and like i said, the fun part is building up your sexual stamina!

    (By the way, i was nineteen when i lost mine. Nothing wrong with that at all!)
     
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    ^ Im not making it up...It wasnt like "yeah, i can go on and on and on baby!" It actually was frustrating because I couldnt finish. Imagine getting tired before you could actually cum? She had to finish me off orally since she too started to get sore.
     
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    Oh i am not questioning your story, i mean you will get some boasting they lasted hours, bigging themselves up in that sort of way. You didn't boast, you said you just couldn't cum which is different if that makes sense?
     
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    About 10 mins here.
     
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    Must have been seconds! Her first time too, it wasn't disappointing because I got hard again very soon and lasted longer the next time. I didn't use a condom, suggest you might last longer if you use one?
     
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    1-2 mins. But I did cum another 3 times in the next couple of hours, and they took much longer (and were much better). I was 15.
     
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    Interesting story Molec, just curious, how often do you jerk back then? Does that have anything to do with it? I know I am going to be relaxed at least I hope so haha, but I would like to make a girl cum before I do haha, I would be happy if I wasnt a 2 pump chump lol.
     
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    If you want your girl to cum first I would suggest using your tongue and/or fingers as it's unlikely you will succeed otherwise, don't take your first time so seriously. There will be plenty more after.
     
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    This was around the time I was between 16 and 17...and have been jerking it hardcore from the age of 13 probably religiously everyday.

    My first time was pretty much with a girl that was known to 'put out'...and I remember having trouble cumming, but blaming it on wearing a condom.

    Then a few months later, I had my first girlfriend, and I had the same problem, even without a condom...infact I recall only finally cumming one day and it was completely by accident, and involved a pretty uncomfortable position (for her, but she obliged since I guess I was not the best lay, that she would have done anything to just get me off and get it over with). For months, I'd only be able to cum in that awkward positon (involving her legs straddling mine, and me thrusting it in on a seated position).

    That relationship obviously didnt last long, and I didnt have the fortune of having any serious sexual encounters that I recall of, until I was 19 and had my 2nd serious girlfriend, who was very patient, experienced and made it her initiative that I felt comfortable enough to just be able to cum. If it wasnt for that sweet girl, I'd probably still have that problem now (Im 28).

    My hardcore masturbating as a teen did have something to do with it...I used to grip it really hard, and there's actually a term I heard for that condition "death grip syndrome". Once you reprogram your dick to cumming at a more oppurtune pace, you wont look back.

    If you do go through the normal route of cumming too quick, dont fret, since you'll be good to go again anywhere from 10 to 30 mins, and will last longer. My one advice is to just enjoy, dont ever think it, and be considerate of your partner :)
     
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    3 mins of oral sex.
     
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    I was one month past my 18th birthday and I know I just could not cum at all. It did not last too long, maybe about half an hour, but not half an hour of wild sex, but of me trying to focus to cum with a number of breaks in between and me complaining because I was realising I was nowhere near.

    I am absoultely positive it was entirely mental, I am that way a bit even to this day in some other aspects (when I put the pressure on myself that something must unfold in exactly pre-defined way and I do that for the first time and in public (public as in not witout anyone else's presence, I didn't mean to say we made love in the park, lol)).

    In the end, we just stopped and she started consoling me how that's really nothing to worry about. Subsequently, we had normal sex for a number of months during that year.
     
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    First time I had sex, I had my orgasm within 3 minutes or less, but of course it was from all the work of just getting my Johnson inside her, it was not easy, lots of lube and her on top pushing down while I held the shaft so it would not bend, once inside the feeling so unbelievable I orgasmed after just a few strokes...but then we proceeded to have sex 11 more times that evening, I don't think my dick was out of her the whole time, back when I was young and horny and full of cum, what I liked was the next morning girlfriend/wife said she felt like my cock was still inside her, guess having him inside her all that time made her stretch out, because the next time was much easier and I did not orgasm right away....Thanks for letting me think back to the good times of being young and horny, enjoy every minute of it while you can...
     
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    I shot my load instantly when I first penetrated a girl and the first time up a guy!!
     
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    I second this advice. And remember, just because YOU have cum, it doesn't mean you have to stop. Women are quite capable of having more orgasms AFTER the man has cum (contrary to what many seem to believe).
     
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    First time, came almost instantly.
    Girlfriend pulled her panties down and I saw my first hairy pussy. She was inviting me --
    when I placed my cockhead against her flesh I shot my load all over her. But I have always made sure my woman had a cumm......
    It took time and practice for us to do it well.
     
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    My answer to that is: "Faster than I wanted, but not as fast as I might have.

    My early teen years were my time of learning all about myself as a sexual being. I mean I was heavy into jacking off, but I was also heavy into thinking about the places my cock would find in the future. I did not want a quick cum that first time I gained entrance to a loving girl's cunt.

    I practiced holding back my cumming; I learned how to delay my orgasm. I also put my mind to work on what I was likely to encounter when first I gazed upon a bared cunt.

    Remembering back to that wonderful time, I remember that I was concerned about what I would say. Amazingly, that came easy; the foreplay, verbal and tactile was really sweet and "she" was impressed and said so. We had the luxury of a bed with crisp white sheets and the dear young lady(five yearsolder than I) was as interested in letting me bet "up close and personal" with her genital treasure as I was in having her do so with my cock and balls. We were not under pressure for time. and the afterglow of that first session was the stuff of which great memories are made.

    It was summer (1940) and we had lots of free time so there was the next day, and the next, and...by summer's end, I was lasting much longer and enjoying it all much more. In short, at age sixteen, I was very confident in bed with a lovely and loving young lady who was eager to bring me along in my journey into the fullness of my sexuality.