One of the best things I heard in a movie, and unfortunately I can't remember which one, but it was a porn buddy. This is your bud that as soon as he hears of your death he goes to your home and cleans out your porn collection, so your family does not find it. The line goes something along the line, the saddness of losing your friend is kinda off set by the knowledge that you have a whole new porn collection.
Also I have very kinky friends, some who have adult children, one let his children know that they should contact a couple of his friends--and gave them names to get rid of his "toys" incase of a sudden death. He told them that it is totally up to them, but if they choose to just throw the stuff away, they would be throwing away a good portion of their inheritance!
