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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Tim37, Apr 21, 2006.

  1. Tim37

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    I was wondering for you gay guys who bottom, do you lose your hardon while getting fucked. The guys that have bottom for me have always stayed hard. Was talking to a friend and he told me he loses his hardon as soon as he starts getting fucked. Was wondering if there is anyone else this happens to?
     
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    I cant tell you from personal experience, but from watching LOTS of gay porn over the years. Most bottoms do not stay hard.
     
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    Like tall said most guys don't stay hard unless they're jacking or being jacked at the same time simply because their attention is focused elsewhere. But some guys stay rock hard while being fucked and you apparently just know how to pick em. :wink:
     
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    The bigger the dick the less likely I am to stay hard. But that's just a general rule, nothing writ in stone, mostly it depends upon the guy, the situation, the phase of the moon, etc.:biggrin1:
     
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    Try feeling the bottoms chest up, or kissing his neck, that might keep him hard.
     
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    Straight sex is much simpler....does the woman stay turned on during sex? Who cares?:smile:
     
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    LOL! Are you wondering why you're having trouble getting laid?
     
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    I rarely stay hard when getting fucked. It is a totally different area of sex for me. My pleasure is focused on the back side, not the front. I would think that for most great bottoms feel the same way. Sometimes if the right spot is being hit, I get hard and cum without any manual stimulation. Which is fantastic. Now if my Partner is playing with it while he is fucking me, yes it stays hard.
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    Me too, rarely i stay hard when i take it... If i am really excited i became hard, for example when he kiss and embrace me, otherwise i enjoy the sex whitout be hard too. The one that need to be hard isn't the mine on that moment... ;-) Many active males likes to see their submissive partner to stay soft during the sex, it shows his stud's condition. Sometimes me too i cum whitout touch myself, it's really a fantastic sensation.
     
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    It's weird to come while soft, too.
     
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    I usually stay hard throughout sex unless the cock is exceptionally large (in excess of 9 inches) and can normally cum without any form of slimulation of my penis. Guess I'm the odd one out!! x
     
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    i usually lose my hardon and will get hard again while being fucked.
     
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    Depends how big the cock (long but slim preferred!) and how much I'm enjoying it. If everything is feeling good then I'll stay hard and cum quickly when it's my turn. The few thick cocks I've had have just been painful.
     
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    most bottoms dont stay hard the whole time.
     
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    I have managed to maintain an errection while being screwed to untold limits however it requires a man who knows what he is doing and my having an unbearable lust for him--without those two requirements it becomes just plain sex for the hell of it. Ray was able to keep me going of course he had a few extra tricks up his sleeve including a grab of my penis and my testacle (see earlier postings for the explaination on where the other one went) and some nipple tweaking action along with a belly rub (I'm not weird, I'm just easy to excite). In the past couple of months only one guy has managed to keep me going and I ejaculated before he had finished. Sadly he then went home to his wife and kids in another town so there has not been a repeat performance.

    On the other side--where I have been on top (I'm flexible, if it's for sex I don't get caught up in the dynamics of who is top and who is bottom, he calls the shots and I go with it. I said flexible, I did not say Slut), when on top and driving into the other man it has usually been a matter of their losing the erection rather fast and staying wilted for the remainder, some have ejaculated but with most it has been a before and after deal--I give them a b/j before and then again after. Again, I am am flexible and willing to please--I am not a sex crazed slut of a man.
     
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    I have a life time partner and we have great sex. I am bottom 99.5% of the time and I love it I am top about once every3 months. He is also big in the equipment parts and I loose my hard-on almost all of the time. I enjoy feeling his cock ponding me hard (harder the better) and that is what it is all about. He always wants me to cum while he is inside me but that takes away of all the wonderful feeling that he is giving me. (As I said we are life time partners so we use no condom.) When he cums inside me I get this full body orgasm that last about 10 to 15 minutes. Then we lay there with his dick inside me and fall asleep for a couple of hours. Most of the time I never even cum because the pleasure is so great.
     
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    good question!!!
    Speaking for myself, I dont keep my hardon all the time. usually if I can masturbate (which sometimes can be difficult depending on the position) I can keep my hardon. And usually if i masturbate and I am overly excited, I come quicker that the top and that usually pisses the other guy off. So I let the fuck me, and fuck me and fuck me and I just love a hard cock in me and I really dont care if I have a hard on or not. The best fucks I've had was when i am getting fucked and the guy does not care if I have a hardon or not.
    how do get my pleasure? i do try to cum, but I dont make it first cum, first serve match. I just go with the flow. If the other guys cums faster than me and wants to pull out, thats ok. I just masturbate after.
    I know some guys that think if the bottom doesnt stay hard, they blame it on themselves. Thats a mistake. Often, the top has more testosterone and therefore can keep his hardon easier than the bottom, its can purely physical. Of course, sometimes it can be that the top does not excite the bottom enough but honestly thats does not happen very often... and who cares !!! you're in him, he s letting you in that hot juicy hole so just use it for your pleasure.
    When you re bottom, its a totally different ball game than being the top and a hard on is only small part of the fun of getting fucked.
    my 2 cents
    from a very content bottom
     
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    some bottoms keep the hardon some dont. The "bottom" line is that it should not be that important anyways. as long as he lets the top in and as long as the top keeps his hardon.
    that simple.
    For me, sometimes i have a hardon most of the time depends ont how i get fucked, the positions, the rythym etc... and honestly i d rather the top doesnt care if I have one or not.
     
  19. Nomad

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    Hmm... Now I have a new goal. lol That has never happened to me.

    I wonder if people have wet dreams when they're soft, too.
     
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    Oh ...WOW....been there done that many times...feels good.
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