Gay Guys: How often do you use a dildo?

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  1. matt121matt121

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    NOTE: ANY GUY CAN ANSWER THIS THREAD!! I DIDN"T MEAN TO ONLY LIMIT IT TO GAY GUYS, Any guy who uses a dildo can answer!!


    Guys, was just curious how often you guys use a dildo?

    Either like by yourself, or with a partner please specify.

    How big is your dildo? Any Tips?

    I want to get a smaller one so I won't fear using it too often.

    But I'm afraid to use it too often, because I don't want to loosen myself up too much to the point where I won't be able to enjoy anal with a "real" size dick. I mean I can use it all the way without pain as long as I use ALOT of lube, and usually use it in the shower/bath to make sure everything stays clean.

    If you have any favorite dildos that are available online, would be great if you could provide links to where they can be bought.

    I currently have this one:
    adammale.com

    Celestial Jelly Dong Details

    It must be a gift from the Angels! What a heavenly piece of carnal pleasuring is yours in this realistically sculpted clear jelly dong. Providing just the right balance of rigidity and softness, it stands 8 inches tall (7 inches of insertion) and has a 1 3/4 inch width. Words can’t really describe our admiration for this beauty – the picture speaks for itself!
     

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    I do not like being penetrated anally. I am OK with using one in a man if he's into that. Why are you limiting this to only gay men? Bisexual men and even heterosexual men enjoy using dildos too and even enjoy them in their asses. Careful with the Gel toys they have bad chems in them. Use silicone, vinyl, or rubber.
     
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    I didn't mean to limit it only to gay guys, I just wanted to limit it to the male perspective.

    Bad chems? does that apply to the one I have? it just seems like some type of plastic to me, I don't like leave it in me or anything for an extended period like some people do with a butt plug.
     
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    I have a COLT Gage Weston dildo its the best 10incher by far alot of lube is required but omg once its in its the most amazing feeling ever! I highly recommend it!
     
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    i don't even have one, I've really thought about getting one, but i don't have the money, and i'm worried about the same thing, I mean I'm REALLY tight, and I take pride in that, as far as sex comes with a real guy.

    I KNOW THE ANUS IS ABLE TO REFORM ITSELF! but that's only to a point. I know if I use a dildo once it won't stretch me, but i don't know how big I can go and for how long without being stretched... I mean i can take a cock, but without any warming up, I can barely take a finger or two haha need tons of lube
     
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    Get the realistic looking kind... Don't let anyone find it !
    you should look into the lube type because some lube can't be used with certain dildos...
    Dude! That's the Dildo I used to have...It was clear see thru, had a realistic feel to it - thick, around 8x6 I only used it a couple of times and had really intense sessions when I was really wet ...
     
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    Tried once, didn't like, prefer the real thing
     
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    Never !!!
     
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    I prefer the real thing, and I really don't like the whole plastic feel. But I DO use a dildo about twice a month I guess, mainly because my bf really gets into watching me play with it. The payoff comes when the plastic dick comes out and the real dick -- a very hard and very excited one -- goes in.

    The most common things I've heard about guys who use dildos is that 1. They get to like them so much after that initial discomfort that using one becomes as stimulating as jacking off (not true with me, although I don't mind having one inside me anymore) and 2. Guys who use dildos are hungry for cock all the time, no matter how much they get (uh...I'm gonna have to plead guilty on that one...)

    I haven't noticed any loosening because of dildo use. In fact, I think I tighten up maybe more than I'd like. But my advice for anyone starting out is to get a regular-size unit first. If you like it, work up to the porn star molded kind (my personal favorite, varying the star depending on mood) and think twice (or three times even) about trying out the jumbo like-nothing-found-in-nature-size. My partner enjoyed seeing me take as much of one of those baseball bat size models as I could, but despite all the lube I was majorly sore for a week!
     
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    I don't like to use toys like dildos/plugs/vibrators in myself but I like to put them in another guy if he wants it.
     
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    Stoneguy is on the mark. Start small and work up to a larger size if you just HAVE to see how much you can take. Some like to show off, and some like to just feel good. When I am jacking alone, I use the Aneros as it has a nice continual touch to my prostate causing a lot of precum leaking. And, when I do climax, it is a much stronger feeling than without it!
     
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    Let's just say that prostate stimulation drives me wild and I've had a long distance relationship for 5 years and leave it there, ok? Oh, and that I hear that there's something called a rudeboy that might address your issues in an amazing way.
     
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    I have never used one . I have only had 1 guys cock inside me (2yrs ago). I like using them on other guys though!
     
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    If you let another guy penetrate you with a dildo, make sure you know him very well -- and that you know he will go slow or stop when you tell him to. An enthusiastic driving dick pounding your ass can be great, but a plastic dick is way too hard for that kind of action.
     
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    I defintely prefer the real thing, as when I use a dildo my mind isn't really in it since its thinking about the dildo so my cock usually doesn't stay hard and I can't really play with my own cock at the same time.

    I did use my dildo once on myself sorta riding it while I was fucking a guy, and that was definitely pretty hot and he liked seeing me getting fucked while I was fucking him, from porn I would think it would be hot to be in a fuck sandwich sometime, only if I knew the other two guys well enough for that.

    I'm gonna have to agree when you say guys who use dildos are hungry for cock all the time!!! As recently the more I've used it the more I've wanted the real thing, though I do have self control so its not going to push me into doing anything that I wouldn't do anyways, like hooking up etc since I definitely like to get to know the owner of the cock first.

    I haven't noticed any loosening yet, so thats good, though I have noticed that over the years of having anal sex it is easier and less painful and more pleasurable than it was when I first started, I can still remember the days when I would practically cry when my boyfriend at the time would fuck me, it was so bad sometimes I'd have to like hug his teddy bear really tight and sorta cry into that (I hate how that makes me sound like a total homo).

    Yea I don't think I'd ever want to try any of the sizes that are not found in nature for fear that they could definitely cause some permanent damage. I can be sore enough sometimes from using the dildo or getting the real thing so I can't imagine how sore I would be if I tried the non natural sizes.

    It also seems like a real dick goes more where its suppose to since it seems like the dildo that I have sorta conforms more to my body and so then it doesn't quite hit all the right spots.

    I've seen those like eros? things that are suppose to be designed to hit like the male g-spot. Would one of those be better than a dildo when I'm by myself?
     
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    Well, I do own one...but I use it more often for oral practice than sticking it up my ass. It's kinda big, so I have to reeeally want it to fuck myself.
     
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    Oral practice is a novel way to use one, but I always preferred the feel, taste and flexibility of the real thing. I'm sure you'd have no problem finding willing practice partners... I know I always found guys ready to let me "try it and see what it's like" when I was just getting started. Plus, it's way easier to deep throat a guy than a hard stick of plastic.