I understand that some females can only cum one time and that is normal, my gf is one of these people and she generally seems satisfied, however at times this cuts our intamacy time down to under five minutes, she has said at times she wishes she could go longer and there is times id like to go longer and provide more satisfaction in her one orgasim.. It seems that if i go down on her and get her close a few times and then switch to intercourse and get her close a few times, and keep getting her close and backing off before finally bringing it home she gets a more intense orgazim and adds time/intimacy to the sexual encounter.. my question being is it true that getting her close a few times before taking her all the way home is more intense? and does anyone have any other suggestions for making the experince better for the one and done sensitive clit girl? This is the love of my life and i want to make sure im continually providing her with the best sexual experience possible.
It sounds like she likes it when you edge her, which is good. Just as edging teaches a premature ejaculator endurance, it can teach your girl endurance too.
I usually only have one orgasm during a sexual encounter too, unless the encounter lasts several hours. I average one an hour. I can still perform for my partner for some time after my climax if he needs or wants me to, but at that point it is for him, and my pleasure is diminished for a refractory period, though I am happy to see to his satisfaction. It bothers me though if I know there isn't enough time to builde up to another orgasm, and my partner seems insistent that I should have one. I do not approve of goal-oriented sex. I don't want my partner to fuck me for my orgasm, so if he is, that's about his ego, not my pleasure.
I hope you mean that you would tie her down if she was open to being pushed past her boundaries, because I know I would harm you in your sleep if you forced yourself on me like that. If you're sexually incompatible with someone, the best course of action is a discussion, after which the best course of action may be to go your separate ways.