Girls, when did you realize that you like big boys?

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  1. Parisian

    Parisian New Member

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    Do you think that all girls secretly prefer big?
    Du you think that the fact you prefer big is due to a physical or psychological effect?
    Did you love big boy before your first time?

    thanks !
    S.
     
  2. Pirate Wench

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    I never gave it that much thought until hubby and I played around with a "feels real" toy that's 9" long and 2" diameter......haven't measured the circumference.

    Had that toy for over 3 years before I finally got curious in 2004......and it put me on another planet. :wink:

    A few here have mentioned a 7" circumference.
    OMG
    Would like to find a toy with that girth....
    :smile:
     
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    Well, no, I don't think ALL women prefer anything. I think there are some natural advantages to a large penis though. I think some women don't let themselves admit they prefer large ones, but then I think some women really prefer average ones. I have girlfriends who prefer an average sized dick. I like big, but even I don't like the hugest ones. 7-8X5-6 is just right for me.
    As for physical vs. psychological, both play a factor but for me personally I'm a glutton for pleasure, so for me I like how a large penis looks, but I love how a large penis feels, especially a thick one. I do get quite excited at the sight of a large cock, but I think a lot of that is I know how good it's gonna feel.
    As for your last question, no, it took a real life experience to teach me I prefer big. I could give a technical description of how I cum easier and harder with a large penis, but I won't for now. It's enough to say the first time I had a well-endowed man who knew how to use it, I had a multi-orgasmic experience that had me seeing stars. After that I was sold. Hey, it's all about the "O" :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
     
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    even though I am no girl, experience tells me a definate NO for this question.
    A german (female) pornstar once stated that a 7incher was the way to go.
    Ok, 7inches is above average I know but think some girls are scared of the humongous things some ppl wear undernieth their pants.
     
  5. Parisian

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    oki ! thanks for the answers !
    I appr├ęciate the way you think !

    Don't you think it's a pity that (big) boys generally don't try to undestand how works the females sexuality ?
    More often, we (big boys) that the size itself is sufficient...
     
  6. madame_zora

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    I think that's a generalisation as well. I've had plenty of great lovers who were big. Size CAN help performance, I mean a bigger guy doesn't really have to be all that great, he just has to last. That being said, size won't save a lousy kisser, a guy who's awkward, shoots too fast, doesn't listen, or things like that.

    Studhunter, we are in the same place for size preference, and for the same reasons. A big guy who has practised edging enough to be a long laster is the greatest thing the world has to offer!
     
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    ![/quote]A big guy who has practised edging enough to be a long laster is the greatest thing the world has to offer![/quote]

    i'd prefer a lamb doner kebab from the start of a new rack, garnished liberally with mild chilli sauce and a gentlemens dollop of helman's finest low fat mayonnaise..
     
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    You and me both know it:smile: . In discussions on cock size we sometimes hear it's not the size of the ship it's the motion of the ocean. Well, yeah, a guy's skill is important but if he has size he really doesn't have to be as creative. As you said, Zora, a bigger guy doesn't really have to be great, he just has to last. If a guy has enough size, especially girth, if he can last long enough he's touching enough sweet spots that I'm eventually going to cum. If a guy has a smaller dick it requires more creativity. Of course if a guy has size and skill it's even better. Indeed, a big guy who can last is a lovely, lovely thing. But a big guy who can last AND knows how to move, is breathtaking...:biggrin1:
     
  9. like10x7

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    I think i knew I like bigger boys after watching a few porn movies and fast forwarding only to the hung scenes then i got to see some in real life and the bigger ones made me mucho moist more than the regular size. For me big is anything passed 7.5 inches and about 6 in girth..but i've had some monster and they were not necessarily the best...quick cummers or just didn't know how to work it.
     
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    When first starting out I didn't give much thought to size, just live in the moment and enjoy what you got. I'm on the petite side so any size is enjoyable for me. Then I met my fiancee and it opened up a whole new world, I love the look and feel of a big cock. Not only can he last forever but with a BIG tool you can do it in many, many, many interesting positions. And studhunter hit it right on, its all about the multiple earth-shattering O's! It's what I look forward to and live for every night! :naughty:
     
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    I think most girls prefer a big one for sure.. it just feels sooo much better inside. I think a guy with a 5" cock who knows how to work it well, still doesn't come close to a guy with a 9" who can just last a little bit.. as previous posters said. The size is really important in how fulfilled I get from sex... definitely bigger is better!! ;-)
     
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    I totally agree with "Totally Addicted" size is very important and bigger is better.
     
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    That answer makes me hot. I like you.
     
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    I must say I'm a spoiled kid when it comes to dicks. The first time I had sex (as a n 18yo, I was a late starter, but made up for it!) was with someone who was very well-endowed, i never measured, but I'd guess roughly eight long, and solidly thick. I've had some smaller lovers after him, but it didn't take me long to find out that they're just not the same. I can't find much of a difference between an eight-inch dick and a seven-inch-dick, but I'd not go smaller. I don't like lying to man that they pleasure me while they don't, so I straight out tell them that they most likely won't have much fun with me.

    There are women who prefer big, but take smaller if those have other ways to please, magnificient oral skills, skillful hands, or something like that, but I'd not count myself as one of them. It's no fun for me if a man has to go out of his way to please me, it'd just spoil the fun for me.
     
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    Boy am I glad to read these comments. I'm new here and was beginning to get a complex after reading about how so many women on this forum aren't satisfied with non-huge dicks, though admittedly LPSG selects for women who are into size. I've always felt I was big enough since the only bad size experiences I had had years ago were with a couple of women whom I had trouble fitting into. I'm certainly not huge (7X5.25 properly measured, not exaggerated) but I was starting to feel like there was a large population of women out there that men of my size couldn't satisfy. I guess it doesn't really matter anyway since my wife seems quite satisfied but you know how us guys are about things like this- lol.
     
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    An Ex of mine always complained about how big my cock was and how much it hurt her, She was a fairly tight girl. She always told me that I should get it reduced, which I would never do Being 8 long and 6 girth, (i gues i would try something like that if it was the only option left), but she always told me that to her, normal sized ones were perfect. She always said the normal ones pleased her better, but the next day, when she would talk about it with her girlfriends, thats when I knew that she was glad to have me around. She would always gossip about our sex and then tell me all about the talks about my cock she had with her friends. So with her, she loved having one, and talking about one, but when it came down to sex, she wanted a smaller one. Gosh, I feel like just a piece of meat now. haha
     
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    Shamelessly recycling something I posted last year, supporting my contention that penis size is primarily a male fixation ... :wink:

    @ fit_at_50: It's definitely easy for the "big but not huge" guy to get a complex around here! As a couple of the ladies have reinforced, though, it definitely seems that 7-8" erect is the "sweet spot" for a straight guy. Yeah, there's always lots of mindless gushing on LPSG about how all women crave 14-inchers, but if you look past that nonsense there are a lot of more thoughtful, believable posts about the very real problems faced by the genuine largest guys among us (by this i mean 10-11").

    I suspect that most guys, like me, have an irrational part of their brains that envies these giants among us ... and it's that irrational, bigger-is-better voice we hear in a lot of LPSG posts. Realistically, though, I'd rather be a size that is impressive yet still fully usable.

    Steve :smile:
     
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    I'll agree that arond 8 inches and 5.5-6.5 thick is the sweet spot, at least for me. My current bf is bigger than that, and it can restrict what we can do sometimes. I never had any problems at all with the 8 inchers I've had. I will say that less than 6 and I do feel like I'm missing something, or something less thin 4 inches around. But guys can make up for it with other things, like oral, so its never been something I see as crucial to a relationship.
     
  19. Gisella

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    No...
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    I prefer good decent men who appreciates women & who know how to use the penis they own...
     
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    I thought I should chime in on this one. I don't think that all women automatically like a big penis. My friends each have different preferences that are based on what they find physically attractive as well as emotionally attractive. It's no secret in my group of friends that I like big guys and I have, on occassion, recieved referrals from my girls. My preference started with generally being attracted to taller guys because of my height. I found that a few of the taller guys I was with were also more well endowed. I enjoyed the sex so much more. It was purely a physical thing for me and I found that I enjoyed the feeling of being filled. My first experience was the summer between high school and college and from that point forward I have had the preference. But like others have said it is not a make it or break it deal for me. If the guy treats me right and is will to see to my pleasure and not just use me then generally it works out well.