groping in the club

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  1. goodone13

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    i know guys do it and feel on girls' butts, but every now and then i am told girls do it too. so my question to you is, if u see a guy in the club that you think is hot, or you notice a bulge in the club, do try to steal a feel, or brush up against it? i dont mean dancing and grinding, i mean with your hands lol? had it happen to me in the club a few years ago lol and it caught me totally off guard.
     
  2. AlteredEgo

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    Hell no. And if someone does it to me I ruin their mothafuckin' day.
     
  3. dolfette

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    do i think it's ok to sexually assault a man if he's good looking?

    no. hell no.

    and if some arsehole does it to me then i'll do my best to make him regret it.
     
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    And a hell no from me too! Feel on girls butts? If only it was just the butt! That is the only time I feel justified about kicking someone in the cajones.
     
  5. The Dragon

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    Another hell no from this camp as well. I like to think I'm mature enough to keep my hands to myself and not assault someone because I like what I'm looking at. You try it with me I'm marching up to the nearest bouncer and getting your removed from the club. Why should I ruin my night taking you to task when there is paid muscle to do it for me.
     
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    Firstly, I don't look at bulges and couldn't give a toss about what he might have hiding down there... So no, I wouldn't grab a feel.

    As for them doing it to me, when I used to go to clubs it would happen on a regular basis, and more often than not, I'd ignore it... Maybe it was where I grew up, or that I developed insanely early, but I got used to it pretty quickly, and it rarely became a problem. When it did though, I was more than capable of making sure I was the last person they tried it with for a good while.
     
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    I've been randomly groped before. I can't say I enjoyed it, I jumped like a cartoon character, and my heart lept into my throat, so I felt pretty blech and on edge afterwards.
     
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    The only groping I've ever done in a club is very descretely, with the woman I was with (GF, FWB), not a stranger!

    Woman passing by me in very crowded clubs have given me a boobie brush, not as a way of flirting, but just to get to where they were going. Not that I minded.:biggrin1:
     
  9. Intrigue

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    I never understood why some guys think its ok to touch without consent. I've had men try to fondle women I was with while in the crowd and while sometimes it can be an accident most of the time its not and I get mighty upset by it. Hence why I don't frequent clubs period. If I do go out I prefer a pool hall where everyone has there own space. Clubs + me= claustrophobia freak out time.
     
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    ^My sentiments exactly. If I take issue with someone groping my wife I used to want to bash the mans head in. Gotten tossed out of 2 places for just that. Sticking up for my shipmate one time (female) and watching out for a friend( female). Both times i over reacted and beat the poor schmuck senseless. Needless to say I'm not the same guy nowadays. (Navy introduces ya to a very hostile drunken lifestyle) now i just stroll up to the local muscle point the dude out and my wife and i can enjoy our night. Hasn't had to happen but that's how i would handle it now. Being young and stupid gets old quick.
     
  11. The Dragon

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    Thanks Intrigue.
    There is a practicality to not taking some wanker on myself for groping me.
    I'm a small woman and most men tower over me and out weigh me by many kilos.
    I start shaping up I'm going to come off second best because if they are arseholish enough to grope a woman I figure they are arseholish enough to hit a woman.

    The bouncers are paid to be there to stop patrons from being assaulted so I let them do their job.
     
  12. Intrigue

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    And paid damned well in some cases! Buddy of mine for offered a job just based on what he was wearing and how he carried himself. Skinny as hell but when ya looked at him ya thought "crazy ex-military". Lol. Its never worth it for a woman to try to handle a goon on her own when ya got beefy paid help.
     
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    *gets all butchy protective over Ms. Dragon* i would so put them on the ground in a puddle of their own piss and blood *snarlgrrrr*

    nopers, i never grope, fondle or hump on strangers. friends on the other hand i get quite molesty..... but all groping is pre-appoved by the gropee.

    i've caused swift and vivid pain to men stupid enough to touch me in my friends-only areas. there are benefits to being an amazon. :yup:

    the ladies, no such hang up. let ya hands get all handsy. eta: and gay dudes. i get felt up more in bear bars than in dyke bars.
     
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    *grinning like a cheshire cat right now*

    Bit hard to brawl in a bandage dress and heels.
    You can come over all molesty with me Ms.MickeyLee
     
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    Thank you for the invitation. I'll warm them up for you.
     
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    The sad thing is that certain bouncers grope more than the patrons. There is a lower-class of unregulated bouncer that feel they have free reign. In their book, the rules they apply to others shouldn't apply to themselves. Without going into detail, I had an experience where a bouncer had a fight with another bouncer because he allowed pretty young girls into the club where he proceeded to flirt and touch them.
     
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  17. Intrigue

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    Yeah, always a few bad apples in the bunch. Can't stop it. You can only notice it then act accordingly. (Turn em in or leave)
     
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    I like to stick a finger up their culo as they walk by
     
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    I hope you use a lot of hand sanitizer.
     
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    I've been randomely groped countless times in clubs, a lot of Gay guys seem to think it's sexy to suddenly find a total stranger's hand down your underwear, mind you, if the groper happens to be properly hot then it can be. Cuts to the chase, I like direct. But if you're butters looking then keep your hands to yourself.
     
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