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I think I may have said this in a similar thread before, but I have absolutely had experiences with friends who are straight. I think it was a combination of alcohol and curiosity on their part, and my personality. By that I mean straight guys are always very comfortable around me. Thats what I've been told. The guys I'm referring to all have gfs/wives and I'm pretty sure I was the only guy they fooled around with.

Its a very strange complicated thing that I don't understand but it happens. And as much as I believe these guys are straight, I can't help but notice the contradiction that when I've been under the influence of alcohol, I don't suddenly have an extra urge to experiment with my female friends (even though I'm open to that). But I truly believe they are straight. Only the guys in question can truly know whats going on in their heads, but in my opinion I believe they are str8 and decided to act on curiosity with someone that they felt comfortable with.
 

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In my early 20's i lived with two women. I must mention i worked for an escort service as did one of the girls..The other girl that lived with us worked as a pole dancer. I guess you could say we were in the sex entertainment business.I worked as an escort for around 7 or 8 years and had the opportunity to meet men from all walks of life..The vast % of my clients were from out of town on business and most were married. At my age then i really did not label these men as gay after all they were married and most had kids my age.A large % of them would tell me this was their first time calling to see a guy and i believed them.They had all kinds of reasons why they called for me. (guy) Most of them were just curious and a lot were uncomfortable..I just think they wanted to feel a guys cock. A lot also wanted to see how they me sized up with me. I was usually always bigger and some would say they never seen a cock as big as mine.I know that i had seen bigger but i am not small.So if i had to put a label on these men i would consider them to be for the most part straight.A funny thing about the 2 girls that i lived with, they both had steady boyfriends that i considered to be straight but both knowing that i was gay and on seperate times when the girls were at work came onto me, something i did not initiate.One was drunk and after a time playing cat and mouse wanted me to blow him..The other guy who was a real pretty boy who i thought could be had came onto me too. (not drunk) I found out why he was so pretty, he was hardly had maybe about 4 and a half inches in his pants,lol..I like some size. Both of these guys were really into their girls and i feel the reason it happened was that they knew i was gay and just were curious..
 

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I think I may have said this in a similar thread before, but I have absolutely had experiences with friends who are straight. I think it was a combination of alcohol and curiosity on their part, and my personality. By that I mean straight guys are always very comfortable around me. Thats what I've been told. The guys I'm referring to all have gfs/wives and I'm pretty sure I was the only guy they fooled around with...
EXACTLY! This was like reading a page of my own, figuratively speaking, diary.

Are you a smaller guy, height-wise? I've always assumed that everyone's inexplicable ease and comfort with me, was because of my non-threatening height, but maybe it's more my demeanour.
 

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I always joke that it's my blessing and my curse to attract straight guys. I went to an all-boys school, so I'm comfortable around all types of men. I'd say that a third of the guys I have been with have defined themselves as "straight" (or in serious denial). I get a lot of rugby player types too, who are always curious to ask me about sex with guys or sexual questions which you wouldn't expect to hear from them. I think what they like about me (I can only guess) is that I'm open about my sexuality, but I don't let it define me in the sense that I don't really talk about it very much and don't go to gay bars or whatever. I think it probably appeals to the closeted ones who want to be with men, but don't want to face all the baggage that comes with being 'gay'. I think that's it at least.
 

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I believe they are str8 and decided to act on curiosity with someone that they felt comfortable with


EXACTLY luvguyz .. thanks fr the post
always been my belief, and will remain convinced of such till my dying days
Thanks fr putting it out there
NEVER going to be a problem as long as participants are respectful of each other
 

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I agree with what someone else said early. With the guys that I had sex with. They all were curious and said they could trust me. I would say that i would still consider them straight. I could never picture any of them in a gay relationship
 

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thanks for your input guys. enjoyed reading your posts. i'm sure alcohol plays a large role in most of these guys deciding to act on their curiosity. i'm interested to know where these alcohol-induced encounters start (gay bar?). i also believe that physically fit men can appreciate the bodies of other physically fit men, which could lead to them becoming curious and wanting to act on it.
 

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I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm bisexual (straight acting) and have had numerous sexual encounters with guys who were otherwise outwardly straight. Most of them of were close friends of mine and roommates.

One roommate in particular had sort of been sending signals that he was open minded sexually so I decided to have a good at "breaking the ice" with him. We were both up later in our rooms, doors shut and chatting with each other online. The conversation naturally turned to sex and porn, and we both admitted that we were looking at porn. Eventually I mentioned that my girlfriend and I had filled ourselves having sex and based on his level of ethusiasm for the topic, I invited over to my room for a screening. He came over and put on what was probably no more than a minute long video clip of my girlfriend and I and we watched it on repeat for probably an hour, all the while we kept sort of tugging at our pants to make room for the growing erections. Eventually I took the plunge and suggested that we just jerk off while watching the video clip and made it sound like no big deal. I said it was something my friends and I used to do in highschool. He seemed to think this was a great idea and immediately dropped out pants, let our cocks spring free and started jerking. Of course we were both stealing glances at each others cocks often. At some point he asked what else my friends and I did. This was an open invitation to try just about anything I wanted, which I would never pass up! I said that we used to push our cocks together and compare sizes, and sometimes we'd jack each other off which we then proceeded to do. The evening ended after what seemed like hours of stroking with us standing and facing each other while jacking off until we shot cum on each other and on one of those cheap mirrors you buy at target. We made a huge mess, the mirror was covered in our cum, but neither of us complained. To this day, I still have that mirror and if you look closely enough you can see the evidence. Lets just hope my wife doesn't get out the black light! No matter how many times we jacked off together, or even sucked each other, he still identifies as "straight" (though he knows I'm bisexual).

Re: alcohol, yes that always played a big part in breaking the ice with straight friends. That and porn. :)
 

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EXACTLY! This was like reading a page of my own, figuratively speaking, diary.

Are you a smaller guy, height-wise? I've always assumed that everyone's inexplicable ease and comfort with me, was because of my non-threatening height, but maybe it's more my demeanour.

Wow thats cool. As for height, I'm actually pretty tall (6'3) lol so it must be my sparkling personality :biggrin1:.
 

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thanks for your input guys. enjoyed reading your posts. i'm sure alcohol plays a large role in most of these guys deciding to act on their curiosity. i'm interested to know where these alcohol-induced encounters start (gay bar?). i also believe that physically fit men can appreciate the bodies of other physically fit men, which could lead to them becoming curious and wanting to act on it.

I forgot to mention earlier that not all of my experiences involved alcohol, and none started at a gay bar. One was at a regular bar, one after a friend's bday party, and twice at my place. Each of those instances was in a group of mixed friends (gay, str8, guys, girls) Then there were a few other instances where it was just me and a str8 friend hanging out together.
 

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Similar stories here.

On one occasion I was in a pub at Victoria Station, in London, with some mates. I went for a piss and realised that this tall lad at the other end of the urinals was taking a look at my cock as I pissed. I looked back, he pulled his out to full length, gave it a stroke and grinned at me. We both zipped up and left. The next time that I went for a piss he followed me in. The same thing occurred. We went back to the bar, I was with my group, he was across the bar with another guy and two women. The next time that I went for a piss he followed me again, this time he stood next to me and pissed and said that he thought that I'd got a great cock. I returned the compliment and let him play with mine, which developed into a full scale wank as we both stood next to each other hammering away at our own cocks and eventually both cumming in the urinal. He said that he'd like to do it again, apologised for not being able to hang around as he was on a night out with his girlfriend and his mate and his girlfriend!

Also, I've often gone to watch the rugby matches in Cardiff (Wales), especially when England play there. The toilets at the station are woefully inadequate for the volumes of people returning home after the match (after much drinking). On both main platforms the toilets have two urinals, two stalls and a sink. It's not uncommon to see guys pairing up at the urinals and in the stalls and the sink is regularly used as an additional urinal. I've been in the stalls and been joined by complete strangers who've pulled out their cocks and pissed and talked to me. It's impossible not to get a good eyeful of cock in that situation (especially for them - I'm 6' 5"). On one occasion I was pissing in the sink with a couple of other lads, all (as far as I know!) straight but admiring each other's cocks - afterwards one of the lads followed me along the station platform and told me that I'd got a really impressive cock and would I be interested in a threesome with him and his wife? He said that his wife would really appreciate being serviced by a big cock and that he'd like to see me pounding into her while he wanked off or let her suck him. His timing wasn't good, so I couldn't take them up on the offer.

On another, non-public occasion, I had a similar situation after a night out drinking with a college mate. We got back to the house and both made a bolt for the toilet. He got there first and didn't lock the door, so I followed him in. My mate had his cock out, his foreskin pulled back and was in full flow, with his back to me. After a bit of teasing and friendly pushing and shoving he suddenly grabbed my right arm, pulled it around the front of him (and me up against him, so I was looking right over his shoulder) and put my hand right in his piss stream. It was quite funny at the time (and very out of character!) and quite horny - once he'd finished pissing he had quite an erection developing, as had I when I got my cock out. He hung around in the bathroom whilst I pissed, still with his cock hanging out, and then after I'd finished we both ended up standing around the toilet and having a damned good wank, both shooting our spunk into the toilet at about the same time. We both gave our cocks a wash, put them away, went back downstairs, grabbed another beer and it's never been spoken of since. He's been happily married for years with a family.


Which just goes to prove that labels mean nothing!
 
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Of the 10 guys I have had some sort of sexual contact with in my life, only 1 is gay, and 1 said he was bi. All the rest claim to be totally straight.
3 of the 'straight' ones looked me up and made the first move and the other 5 I made the move.
 

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Can't people just be "Straight Horny"? I don't see the point in any labels, I'm attracted to women and fuck them silly, but I've also had fun with guys because they are easier and generally to the point. When I'm in the mood for fuck, I really don't care about gender or sexual orientation to be quite frank.

So what am I, bi-curious? Bi-winning? How about "Straight Horny"?


I think you've hit the nail on the head. Straight horndogs would best describe some of the guys I'be been with. A mouth is a mouth is a mouth to them. Yeah they'd prefer a woman - hence "straight" - but failing that they'd rather have a guy's mouth than their own hand.

I also think there is a bit of ego with some of these guys. The conquest is part of their sexual enjoyment. And if you are a straight horndog with a large ego, you can get off on being the alpha male that other guys will get down on their knees for. It actually adds to their self concept of being a dominant "straight" male.

At least those are the kinds of "straight" guys I am attracted to and have hooked up with. lol
 

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I also think there is a bit of ego with some of these guys. The conquest is part of their sexual enjoyment. And if you are a straight horndog with a large ego, you can get off on being the alpha male that other guys will get down on their knees for. It actually adds to their self concept of being a dominant "straight" male.

At least those are the kinds of "straight" guys I am attracted to and have hooked up with. lol

I LOVE "those kinds" of straight guys! Happy to get on my knees for alpha males.