Guys Who Like to Watch Big Cocks

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  1. Nekoman

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    Just a little curious -- what do you girls think when guys show a real interest in watching guys with really big cocks?

    If your boyfriend gets real turned on by very big ones in action, do you ever think it's because he's gay or bi? Or do you just think it's naturally to like 'em that way.

    Is it a sign of some kind of gayness to be extra excited by big dicks --
    or do you just chalk it up to nature?
     
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    i think there's a difference in the guy WANTING to watch a man with a big cock, let's say...jack off on webcam for themselves to view while they jack off (cough cough) and a guy watching hetero porn and he wants the guy to have a big cock so he can watch him slam her. knowwhati'msayin'?
     
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    I prefer my porn to have well endowed men, mostly because it usually translates into a louder female partner.

    Like she said though, it's a little different than watching a guy solo with a big dick. I'll be honest, I don't mind seeing them at all, but I actually enjoy it with a woman involved.

    There just aren't enough videos with a woman struggling to handle something too big for her. Seen too many porn star women who take something as thick as a coke can as if it's nothing. Booooring!
     
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    Well said.
     
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    amen, brother. testify.
     
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    It's sad when my girlfriend is frequently saying "ow" and grimacing, but someone much larger than me in a porn doesn't get any reaction?

    I calls bullshits!
     
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    Never been interested in watching porn when I've had a girlfriend, but when I'm single, I can relate with the second part of your statement.

    And yes, I agree with you Mercy, clearly these girls get warmed up a lot before the shoot, or they are just slack and used and need to work on their muscles down there. There is a HUGE shortage of nice, slow, initial penetration shots. I love it when you can tell that the girl's love muffin needs work and warming up before it slides in. And so much porn just cuts from the girl blowing the guy or him going down on her, to them already banging away. I mean come on, let's see some work to fit his dick in there!
     
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    Either way, that's still the same thing though right?

    Whether it's the webcam guy or the hetero porn guy, having a big dick is the preference and in one way or another involved in the turn on. Just because you throw a girl in there doesn't seem like it would change anything to me.
     
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    I use to work in a "facility" and we had staircases and levels,it was my job to watch the guys shower (I know whata job) and I loved watching the guys shower, there must have been 50-60 guys in there at one time, it was a very old place and I could see everything and everyone. I tried not to look at the big ones but I just couldn't help it.
     
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    That's the question, in the first case, it's definitely getting off on the guy.
    In the second case, is it just getting off on the guy, or is it -- getting off on the girl getting off on the guy.

    Or is it the same?
     
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    I think "the same", with some added incentive
     
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    Nope. Not at all. One is the act of seeing a big cock that turns the man on, the second, in porn, is aiding the WOMAN to (typically) moan louder, get fucked harder and rougher, and experience greater orgasms. Again, only stating that in PORN this is usually depicted.

    It's the fact that in porn, when they emphasize a man having a big cock, those who watch porn typically assume that the reaction from the woman will be more intense, greater, and thus more erotic for the male watching.
     
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    I hear this question so many times here...the real answer is this: when I watch a guy with a big dick fucking a girl, I get turned on because I can imagine myself in that guy's place. I can fantasize that it is my dick fucking that girl and that is why the girl also has to be attractive to me for the scene to work. I don't watch guys jerking off (with or without big dicks) because I can't imagine myself in some fantasy in that scene that interests or excites me. I can jerk myself off anyday. The difference is that the guy in the first scene acts as my surrogate in the fantasy. That does not happen when it is just a guy and his cock.
     
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    I'm not speakin for anyone except myself. When I watch big dick porn with a girl, I am envious of her and fantasize what it's like being her. Remembering all the big dicks I've had and how she is feeling at that moment, and that really gets me going.
     
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    ok, but you're admitting you're half gay, as it says on those percentages over there. the OP is referring to when women are dating their straight boyfriends, and they still get turned on my a big dick, and whether that effects the way WE view their sexuality. my only point is that it depends on the way that they're viewing it, and the reason for why they're getting turned on.
     
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    Most of the guys I know love big dick porn, and I know not all of them are hung. As a girl, if I'm going to watch any porn with or without my bf, and I don't watch much at all, the guy has to be big. It's just more of a visual statement and the way the girl reacts makes it better.

    One of the best parts of having a hung bf to me is how he has to open me up to get in, to mold me to fit around him, and I don't know about the rest of the girls on here, but I can't take my bf on the first push. You know the girls in porn have been "pre stretched" to take these guys, but I really wish they would show you the girls getting broken in before the guy just starts slamming her.
     
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    Oops..my bad!:wink:
     
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    If only, I'm thinking someone needs to start a new porn company using people from here to get those shots of girls that can barely take it.
     
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    In my case, my fantasy is to have a big dick. So, when I watch jerk-off porn, I imagine that the porn stars cock is my own.
     
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    I understand the point you are getting at, but if it was "just about the woman" moaning, getting fucked harder, etc. then why does the size of the cock matter? You'd just want to see the woman moaning, getting fucked, etc. regardless of if there was a guy there or not.

    This brings up the bigger societal point that most people don't seem to understand. A lot of homophobic people don't understand what the term homosexual means, and day in and day out they call themselves heterosexual but undergo many homosexual acts.

    Bottom line, if it involves another naked person of your same sex besides you, then it's homosexual!! By definition it's homosexual. Not a hard concept to understand. Now that doesn't mean whatever it is is full blown gay necessarily, but it does mean that at least part of whatever is going on that involves your same sex is homosexual (i.e. involving your own sex).

    This includes watching straight porn. It's a supposed straight man, with a supposed straight lady - all fine and dandy. BUT if you are watching it as a man or a women then there is a homosexual element there. There is a naked person of your own sex, having sex... you are watching... and that is by definition homosexual.

    It's not to say that you are gay. You have the final say if you are gay or not. Everybody undergoes homosexual acts all the time, doesn't make them gay... because if it did, then we'd all be gay!
     
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