Hair pulling and ass slapping while fucking

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  1. Wyldgusechaz

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    In a posting mood today.


    A lot of women I have chatted with LOVE having their hair pulled and their asses slapped while fucking. Do the ladies here like that? If so then>>>

    Questions: Why is it a turn on? How hard? Too hard, not hard enuff? How do you let your guy know you want that?

    Gay men too if reading this. Do you like having your hair pulled and ass slapped?
     
  2. D_Garmanswait Glassnads

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    I hit my girlfriend on the head with my boner last night, she thought it was funny.
     
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    i love this! i think with hair pulling i like them to have a good grasp on it but not so that it hurts more so theyre pullling my head back a little and same with the spanking i obviously dont want to be in agony but a good firm hand sends me wild :tongue:
     
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    Spanking - not so much. Hair pulling - not pulling, but definitely a good, firm hold of the hair at the base of my neck.

    When done right and backed up with the right personality in the guy (I do have a weak spot for guys that are dominant in bed...) it's just something that makes my knees go weak, make me dripping wet and just want that guy.
     
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    ass slapping just reminds me too much of my step dad for it to be a turn on- eewww just can't.
    but oh please, pull my hair (not too hard please) when you cum- pull my head back and lightly bite my throat and oh my god. When a guy kind of has his fingers wrapped in my hair, and does that when he cums, I swear I'll have another orgasm even if I just did. And if he moans at the same time!!
    I have only ever been with one guy who did that naturally though. I've not met a guy who could make it seem natural though I appreciated his efforts to please me. *sigh* god that sounds so good.:tongue:
     
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    To both Geek and Val: Why? What part of your sexuality do you think it taps into? Do you ask for it if your guy is hesitant?
     
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    Yes. I hear that all the time. The throat biting. Is there any women who don't like any of this at all?
     
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    Not sure about what part - I don't really separate them logically. How to put this into words? It's not the intellectual turn-on that I can get from talking to a guy, where he creates an interest in himself, who he is, what he's doing. That part is important too - but that's not what's involved here.

    This part is much more raw sexuality, bordering on animalistic in how it creates an almost instant physical reaction in me. It is also highly connected to scent for me - and what part of my menstrual cycle I'm in. Ovulation, a mildly (or sometimes more than mildly) dominant guy, that undefined scent that I can't really describe and the hand holding on to the hair at the base of my neck = a desire so deep and a physical reaction so instant I just got to have man, cock, inside, deep, hard, here, now...

    Makes sense?

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    And no - never ask for it - can't be asked for. It has to come all by itself. If I have to ask for it, that means the guy in his general personality make-up doesn't possess that dominant quality that I'm looking for in that instant. As far as the light biting goes - yep - that too.

    Perhaps this story, while fictitious gives some added insight.
     
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    Strangely the way you put it makes perfect sense. And its terribly arousing :). thank you in more than one way LOL
     
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    i'm with the other gals about the liking the hair pulled but not spanking and ass slapping. they really are two different things. the hair pulling is more like an animal lust thing, the spanking is a kind of paternal dominance thing. i'm all about dominance, but the paternal thing kinda creeps me out.

    also, every time i've seen spanking or even tried it, it seeme really artificial. even though it is my ass, i don't see slapping as being very hot, period. i don't know, the whole thing seems very baby-fethish-y to me.
     
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    sometimes its nice to feel dominated i think thats all it comes down too with me, as sassy said it sends me weak at the knees when its done right and yeah i ask for it , i think most guys are happy to comply ive never been turned down
     
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    I now feel like I have to sensor what I say... but yes.. hair pulling, biting, ass slapping is awesome! I usually make it a challanging thing... "Oh are you going to be rough now" ...
     
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    Why?
     
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    My "friend" has join the forum.. hehe
     
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    I hate when my hair is pulled, it pisses me off...but I love it when my booty is slapped, especially if it's at the right time during sex; big turn-on. As for doing that, I'll pull hair at times when I'm doing the other doggystyle, but I don't pull too hard, and I ass smack as well.
     
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    Oh, sweet lord! Ditto this for me!

    It's not the hair being pulled that is the turn on so much as having the neck exposed forcibly. Having the neck exposed adds to the feeling of vulnerability I sometimes crave and the teeth biting into the neck gives more of a sense of the mans raw animal lust. It's just hot.

    Ass slapping is just stupid in my book.

    We're not playing football so it doesn't convey 'nice play'. I'm not a horse so 'giddy up' had best not be the message. All it says to me is that the guy doing it watches far too much porn. Unless it's accidental as he grabs my ass too quickly, I'm done with it.

    He can go back to enjoying his video collection.
     
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    I love the shock of randomness it brings too.. and certianly I would think that the reaction would be a tightening of the muscles...
     
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    If I didnt where my hair in a tightly cropped military cut i'd say pull away, as far as slapping my ass...........YES!
     
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    There's a right and wrong way to pull hair. Don't yank by the ends. That's unnecessarily painful. Reach your hand up her neck and grab a handful close to the neck, then you can tilt her head back and bite and kiss her neck.

    The best ass slap is the one when his palm hits your ass ONCE and he caresses the cheek with his hand. Very nice.
     
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    Porno style :D