Have you ever had BAD sex with a big cock?

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  1. latinluva

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    This only happend to me once...when this guy pulled his pants down and I was like Whoa! Couldn't wait to get his cock inside of me. Then when we started fucking he was like,"Are you okay, does it hurt....I want yu to be happy and feel good." In my mind I was like,"STFU and fuck me you stupid fuck." And so the whole time we were fucking he was saying that shit and going real slow. "I hope it feels good and makes you happy." After about fifteen minutes I was like,"Okay, this aint gonna work, I'll just pretend I like it and wait for him to cum." What a complete waste of cock.
     
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    No. Never. Not once. I'm sorry you had that experience. He was probably used to hurting people, or being too big for people might have been a fantasy of his. That sucks.
     
  3. HUNGHUGE11X7

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    hahahah I cannot say this has ever happened to me. The only times I have not been able to enjoy a HUGE cock was b/c of me and not being able to take it NOT the cock itself!
    If you encounter another dude like that in the future you have to understand he has always been told GO SLOW , IT HURTS , PLEASE DONT PUT TOO MUCH IN and so on and so forth, we've all heard those lines.
    Instead of wasting a huge cock on a studly owner who has trepidations just tell him FUCK ME, have your way with me dont let your size be a thought if I need you to stop or you are hurting me I will let you know.
     
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    Isn't that implied when ya don't say "go slow" "not to hard"? I would be like," I am fuckin the hell out of this ass unless he says slow down or not to hard. I tried to encourage him, yeah the first couple of strokes nice and slow...but my body language was perfectly clear,"telling him to get that ass." Oh and I also told him verbally,"fuck my ass baby." Bottoms are pretty good at dictating how much and how hard they want it. As a bottom....when I see a cock that I can handle, I am assuming he's gonna pound the fuck out of me, so I'm not gonna ride anything I can't handle. By the way.....I never had a cock I couldn't handle. But there was a guy I thought I couldn't handle, but he wasn't into fucking, so he don't count :biggrin1:.
     
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    Don't big cock guys know that when someone is hungry for their cock, that they (the one getting fucked) pretty much know what they're getting themselves into? They should just fuck the hell out of them and make'em think twice about trying to handle a big cock.
     
  6. HUNGHUGE11X7

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    NO it isn't implied... You can't expect the dude to be a mind reader ya know ? Say what ya mean Mean what ya say !!!
    Don't think it was that HE wasn't into fucking but that he had never encountered someone that could handle him . You need to be more take charge, even in the rare occassion I get to bottom I am still dominant LOL .

    HH
     
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    With some people, you must be explicit. You say you're good at indicating what you want, but obviously the communication doesn't always get across, and on this occasion, I'd say you gave up without trying hard enough. Still, I'm sorry you had a bad time.
     
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    LOL Not everyone with a huge cock is a sadistic bastard :redface::biggrin1::redface:
    Now I would have no trouble with acting like that but not when the guy was unaware what I had

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    Really now, just what IS "bad" sex????
     
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    Painful or boring fall under the heading of 'bad".
     
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    Exactly.....sometimes its just that simple. I don't wanna see someone holding back or thinkin about me so much. Be sexy, wild and don't hold back. Allow your sexual instincts to free themselves and dominate or submit, which ever you are.
     
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    All you had to say was,

    "Buddy, it feels great. If I have a problem, I'll tell you about it."

    It's important to keep an open dialogue during sex. I support Altered Ego's comment as he's likely hurt quite a few people in the past.
     
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    big cock/bad sex = never has happened to me.
     
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    Had it happen twice...

    one was too rough & the other had no skill...

    no skill gets you zero points in my book no matter the size...
    he thought just because he had thor in his pants he was already the shit in bed...
    in the end he just reminded me of my dog dry humping something...
    it was BORING...
     
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    It would have to ball down to a guy's swagger and bodily thrusts during intercourse or for better words..if he is really able to throw that dick the way it needs to be worked.

    You see, most guys think just because you have a big dick that automatically equates to them being able to perform sex very well. Trust, you can have a huge one but have no delivery..plain and simple!
    All that simplistic in-out is wack and played out! You have to become one with your dick interacting with that pussy/ass and be able to communicate through the intensity of eye contact and body language without having to be told so. I really think the best sex EVER to be had is without any words having to be spoken...just the non-verbal connection through various means between X individuals.

    My 2 cents...
     
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    i have .me having the big cock.Pretty much the first couple fucks i had.I had no idea what i was doing so no foreplay ect, plus the fact my cock was huge in my teens so the girls wer like 16 17.could only get the head in for the first couple attempts.Wasnt until i got a gf that it was sweet.and that took a couple weeks before we could go hard.has put me off sex somewhat.
     
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    Just once. This girl wanted me to fuck her deeper and harder and then would just stop and curl up because it was too much. Then she would just be in pain and mad at me. And then I would try to fuck her shallower and she would get pissed again. And when the mood was thuroughly ruined she would get mad because I wouldn't cum in her. That was a unique case of her not knowing what the fuck she wanted. Or wanting to do more than she could or something.
     
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    did you tell him how you'd like to be fucked? he cannot read minds.

    the simple fact a guy has a big cock doesn't mean he knows how to use it, or even is a skilled fuck.
     
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    I dated a gal briefly that just did not get into sex or if she did I sure could not tell it. we even talked about her lack of reaction. I asked if I was too big?? too small??? needed to do something different, etc was she lesbian??? she assured me she loved me and loved my fat cock. we dated awhile longer and the sex never changed. it got to the point where since she would/ could not cum, I did not either. eventually I broke up with her, and she stalked me for months. she even went to my parents and demanded their help in getting me back. what a relief to have my new gf cumming all over herself and my cock within a few minutes!!! I seriously thought I had lost it.

    I married and moved away, and moved back with my family. it had been 15 yrs and I (& wife) ran into her in a store. she shoved a whole clothes rack over in the store and stormed out.
     
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    OMG yes! I hooked up with a guy with a huge cock and all I wanted to do was get fucked all night, and all he wanted to do was get fucked all night. I think this is a uniquely gay problem. The poor guy just wanted me to fuck him with my regular, below average size dick and sniff poppers. All I wanted was for him to fuck my ass with his way bigger than average dick and sniff poppers. I kind of got what he was going through, so I fucked him and let him sniff away. It's got to be hard to be a bg-dicked bottom fag who cant get anybody to fuck their ass because they think you must be a fucker when you are not.