Havent had sex with a woman in 8 years need advice!

[TheEqualiser]

Ok so starting off im 24 only had sex with 2 girls when i was younger im bisexual and have spent the rest of my time having sex with men. Now that's cleared up onto the fun part.

So met this girl at college she is awsome nice funny cute likes some of the stuff i do etc. I was in a relationship at the time but after i broke up she was there nice and all. Unbeknownst to me she had been making a move on me clarified by her friend so got a txt from her while she is on holiday she will be back in a month and made it clear since investing time into our friendship she now wants the d.

So i have a month to go from basically useless to hopefully awsome and fulfilling.

Initially i thought i had my sex game with woman locked down with oral work foreplay etc. This however does not appear to be the case.

While tirelessy searching through google on how to please a woman i came across a thread about the anterior fornix or cul de sac as you guys here call it.

Now my mind is blown and since i possess a 5 inch length and 5.7girth penis im left wondering am i going to get the job done.

I have no objection to using toys or fisting to make up for my size but its apparent most girls just like the good ole fashioned dick in vagina.

Also i dont know if she possess's a toy and what would happen if we went camping and she just wanted some forest fun i cant be all like "Hold on babe, let me just shave this tree branch for you it'll be ready in 40 mins.

So yeah i need advice lol

 

[AlteredEgo]

You are confused. The posterior fornix is the cul de sac. The anterior fornix is the other side of the cervix, just a little past the g spot. Do you know how to find the g spot?

 

[TheEqualiser]

You are confused. The posterior fornix is the cul de sac. The anterior fornix is the other side of the cervix, just a little past the g spot. Do you know how to find the g spot?

I know my curved penis hit it a few times when i was with said girls but iv never touched it by fingering. I'll go out on a limb and say its like a guys pros but not as pronounced?

 

[AlteredEgo]

I know my curved penis hit it a few times when i was with said girls but iv never touched it by fingering. I'll go out on a limb and say its like a guys pros but not as pronounced?

Bingo! That's it exactly. So, you push a little deeper, and you run into the side of the cervix. That's the anterior fornix. For some women that can be just as painful as if you'd struck the "face" (for lack of a better word) of the cervix, so go easy until you figure out whether it feels good to her or not. I know for me, it hurts a little, sometimes a little too much, but if I'm a little drunk or a little stoned it doesn't hurt at all and the resulting orgasm is beyond my ability to fully explain to anyone else, but there's hysterical laughing and crying, and whole-body waves of pleasure and tingling. It's good for me.

On the other hand, to reach the posterior fornix, aim toward the butt so you can scoot around the cervix. You may even feel the "face" of the cervix rubbing against your corona as you pass, depending on how tented she is. If you're past the cervix, and hit a wall, you've found the posterior fornix. It is sensitive to pressure, more than to friction, and so responds well to grinding which provides friction to you, and constant pressure to her. You might be able to reach it, you might not. This alone is not going to determine the quality of your performamce. Your dedication to her pleasure, and willingness to share your pleasure will.

Please stop watching porn. You do not have a size that has to be made up for. You have average length. If that was so terrible, average would be much bigger. You have well above e average girth. Many women hope for a thicker cock like yours. Dump porn. It is undermining your confidence thereby eroding your sex appeal.

Please remember sex isn't meant to be goal-oriented and scripted. Find sensations that feel good to her (pay attention to speed and position when you think you've found something good), and let that drive your experimentation. Look for non-verbal communication. Have fun. That's the whole point.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

^Nuff said. Good work AE.

 

[Mercurygirl]

Advice: Before you start entertaining ideas of fisting or probing her depths with a large vibrating zucchini perhaps you should find out what she likes. Begin with kissing.

 

[LaFemme]

Advice: Before you start entertaining ideas of fisting or probing her depths with a large vibrating zucchini perhaps you should find out what she likes. Begin with kissing.

That's kind of what I was thinking. Before going all Kama sutra on her, can't you just start with simple good sex? Kissing, touching, talking? Getting to know her?

I don't like my posterior fornix stimulated. So...um, yeah.

Plus if you start off doing a bunch of stuff right off the bat with a woman, where do you from there? And if a guy acts like he's making up for size? Like he's insecure about his cock? That's not attractive to me.

Just some random thoughts.