From having lots of straight friends and some homophobes also. I have come to the conclusion that men have the predujice and dont want to be labeled gay, or bi and in large part is due to things from puberty and peers from 11-16. First the flame gay queen is so detrimental to any positive respect that young boys see. I see boys observe this and are repulsed and the ones that are not learn over time to make sure they dont associate their homosexual curiousities with any of the mainstream friends.
I thnk men regardless what they classify themselves as will experience things with men to their comfort level. and over time that grows. thats why you hear str8 man who wants to suc cock or be fucked.
second men are born with hormones that drive their sexuality and masculinity or feminity. some men have less testoserone and are the last born and fair skin smooth cute boys and typically it seems their behavior can be associated with them more femine, conversationlist and enjoy men and women dont appeal to them. Another set of men grow very masculine and are hard logger men.
but i have realized that 1) the man behavior that he projects to other men and women depends on how much hormones of the various kinds he was born with. He can be born with heavy masculine genese. But that is separate from what sexually he likes to do. if you go back before 1870 the word gay or queer didnt exist.
i have a journal of my great gr gr gr grandfather who was a miner during the calif gold rush and then later a dry goods business in the mining fields and his wish provided hot meals for the men. he would be considered bisexual in todays labeling. But he has hundreds of pages of just about all the men in those days having sex with other guys, sort of hidden secret as much as men in prison resort to some sex than no sex. But we are talking about 90 percent of all men had the what he called the routine release men jerking off in groups at night sometimes, and sometimes depending on the campsite and group would do it in private, but most all men in private had regular sexual men and Boys that they had jerking, sucking and anal with. Obviously young boys raised in that era thought nothing of older men and them having sex. the older man was a mentor and looked after them. And in the city itself almost the same. My journal says in 1848 there were 99% men and no women. And all the men that came from the east that were mormons, quakers fundamentalists soon lost their religion being around all the sex. I was amazed to read that the normal saloons we all grew up seeing on tv had a trough downby feet where the footpegs were and that was a piss trough, men just would use it as a urinal and young boys would come with pails of water and rinse it out during parts of the day. the smell was quite putrid at times for the new san francisco imigrant. So men will do what ever they feel sexually comfortable with and what they feel is to far from them and is gross they will shut down and men do such behavior they psychologically label some name but since faggot is a hated term, they like to use that.
I thnk men regardless what they classify themselves as will experience things with men to their comfort level. and over time that grows. thats why you hear str8 man who wants to suc cock or be fucked.
second men are born with hormones that drive their sexuality and masculinity or feminity. some men have less testoserone and are the last born and fair skin smooth cute boys and typically it seems their behavior can be associated with them more femine, conversationlist and enjoy men and women dont appeal to them. Another set of men grow very masculine and are hard logger men.
but i have realized that 1) the man behavior that he projects to other men and women depends on how much hormones of the various kinds he was born with. He can be born with heavy masculine genese. But that is separate from what sexually he likes to do. if you go back before 1870 the word gay or queer didnt exist.
i have a journal of my great gr gr gr grandfather who was a miner during the calif gold rush and then later a dry goods business in the mining fields and his wish provided hot meals for the men. he would be considered bisexual in todays labeling. But he has hundreds of pages of just about all the men in those days having sex with other guys, sort of hidden secret as much as men in prison resort to some sex than no sex. But we are talking about 90 percent of all men had the what he called the routine release men jerking off in groups at night sometimes, and sometimes depending on the campsite and group would do it in private, but most all men in private had regular sexual men and Boys that they had jerking, sucking and anal with. Obviously young boys raised in that era thought nothing of older men and them having sex. the older man was a mentor and looked after them. And in the city itself almost the same. My journal says in 1848 there were 99% men and no women. And all the men that came from the east that were mormons, quakers fundamentalists soon lost their religion being around all the sex. I was amazed to read that the normal saloons we all grew up seeing on tv had a trough downby feet where the footpegs were and that was a piss trough, men just would use it as a urinal and young boys would come with pails of water and rinse it out during parts of the day. the smell was quite putrid at times for the new san francisco imigrant. So men will do what ever they feel sexually comfortable with and what they feel is to far from them and is gross they will shut down and men do such behavior they psychologically label some name but since faggot is a hated term, they like to use that.
