Homoeroticism among straight men

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One guy in the changing room at my gym was being "macho" and whipping his mate with his towel telling him to pull his pants down and then watching me walk into the showers.

Does it count when one of the guys is a closet gay and the other is straight?
 

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Funny. I've seen some of those porn sites that allege to have "straight" guys doing things. It's all fantasy. Those aren't straight guys. Those are butch gay men.

I seriously doubt these guys are butch gay men. I have gone on Doug & Jay's Amateur Straight Guys and StraightCollegeMen.com - Straight Amateur College Men Jerking Off On Video lots of times. These guys seem very straight to me. And the producers are throwing all of that mad ca$h at these guys to do all kinds of gay sexual scenarios and alternative fetish type things. The straight guys are attractive on those sites. I think that it caters to the idea that straight men can be had for the right price. I don't find those situations homoerotic.

 

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It is hard for me to find straight guys homoerotic unless they're in some same sex scenarios (real or imagined) and there is an element of homosexual tension. Straight men are verboten for me.

I don't idolize them. I don't put them on pedestals. I don't have to have a straight guy to get my rocks off. I can admire certain qualities about straight men but I know that there is no chance in H that they are gonna want me because they dig women. That makes it less erotic for me. I don't find it homoerotic. I don't really understand that thing with some have in having to "have" a straight man. Maybe, I am not wired to understand that. There are porn sites dedicated towards that focus. I have seen some of these sites: I don't find the scenarios sexy at all. The producers flash all this ca$h money to these straight guys to have sex with each other. (I have not heard of any porn producers giving gay men ca$h to have sex with women.)

off topic slightyly but ........Invisible man THANK YOU ....I was thinking I was alone in the thought that the pursuit of gay or straight people for sexual encounters when you are the opposite is pointless and demeaning to yourself....

I have always wondered why a lot of gays guys express their desire for straight men, when there are more than enough gorgeous gay men to fill that need.

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I seriously doubt these guys are butch gay men. I have gone on Doug & Jay's Amateur Straight Guys and StraightCollegeMen.com - Straight Amateur College Men Jerking Off On Video lots of times. These guys seem very straight to me. And the producers are throwing all of that mad ca$h at these guys to do all kinds of gay sexual scenarios and alternative fetish type things. The straight guys are attractive on those sites. I think that it caters to the idea that straight men can be had for the right price. I don't find those situations homoerotic.
Not really a major issue to me. That was just an off-hand comment.

But I never said it was a major issue for you. An aside comment, cool. You made it nonetheless. Just responding.

I know that you are straight. I am not questioning any of that. I don't understand the "straight male admiring the straight male for their straight male masculinity" thing. There are some gay or bi men that are just as admirable. I don't E-VEN understand some gay men have that admiration. Because I don't understand it, doesn't mean that it doesn't exist nor does it negate your experience. That is a diamond facet of truth.

Why is it that we are attracted to different things sexually that others are not? Sexuality is a lot of different things to different people. Pursuits of happiness are different for everybody.
 

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I have always wondered why a lot of gays guys express their desire for straight men, when there are more than enough gorgeous gay men to fill that need.
Probably because about 3 or 4 percent of the male population is exclusively gay. That may still be a lot of men, but a very small percent of the male population.