It is hard for me to find straight guys homoerotic unless they're in some same sex scenarios (real or imagined) and there is an element of homosexual tension. Straight men are verboten for me.
I don't idolize them. I don't put them on pedestals. I don't have to have a straight guy to get my rocks off. I can admire certain qualities about straight men but I know that there is no chance in H that they are gonna want me because they dig women. That makes it less erotic for me. I don't find it homoerotic. I don't really understand that thing with some have in having to "have" a straight man. Maybe, I am not wired to understand that. There are porn sites dedicated towards that focus. I have seen some of these sites: I don't find the scenarios sexy at all. The producers flash all this ca$h money to these straight guys to have sex with each other. (I have not heard of any porn producers giving gay men ca$h to have sex with women.)