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I need to talk to some guys about a male (well and female) issue. ED.
It is my issue because it is affecting my lack of affection from my husband.
He has been to the doctor. The doctor has put him on both Cialis and Viagra (at different times) with no positive effects. We've known for years that his body does not react to medication like most folks. (I think he's Superman and now we've found his Kryptonite.)
For the last several months it appears his ED has continually gotten worse. He never really actually opened up to me and talked to me about it until this past weekend.
We are having some alone time and I pretty much just told him that I needed and missed sex with him. I felt that I was not attractive anymore as it seemed that I could do nothing short of walking around outside naked to get a reaction from him. (I truly did think it was my fault!)
He assured me he "wanted me" but that his plumbing wasn't working right and that it has now gotten so bad that he is literally afraid of approaching me. He is scared and embarrassed that "it won't work" and I will be disappointed in him.
I think the problem is now not only physical, but also emotiona and mental.
Any ideas how I can help this man I love? I did tell him that now that I understand the problem better, I will be more patient and will not anticipate or expect penetration. I suggested that he start using my toys but I'm not sure about that. Will that make him feel worse, you think?
Anything will help guys. Thanks!
It is my issue because it is affecting my lack of affection from my husband.
He has been to the doctor. The doctor has put him on both Cialis and Viagra (at different times) with no positive effects. We've known for years that his body does not react to medication like most folks. (I think he's Superman and now we've found his Kryptonite.)
For the last several months it appears his ED has continually gotten worse. He never really actually opened up to me and talked to me about it until this past weekend.
We are having some alone time and I pretty much just told him that I needed and missed sex with him. I felt that I was not attractive anymore as it seemed that I could do nothing short of walking around outside naked to get a reaction from him. (I truly did think it was my fault!)
He assured me he "wanted me" but that his plumbing wasn't working right and that it has now gotten so bad that he is literally afraid of approaching me. He is scared and embarrassed that "it won't work" and I will be disappointed in him.
I think the problem is now not only physical, but also emotiona and mental.
Any ideas how I can help this man I love? I did tell him that now that I understand the problem better, I will be more patient and will not anticipate or expect penetration. I suggested that he start using my toys but I'm not sure about that. Will that make him feel worse, you think?
Anything will help guys. Thanks!