How deep is your pussy?

[SnitchQitch]

i often wish i had a deeper one...

 

[psidom]

i often wish i had a deeper one...

i often wish i had a bigger one.:redface:

i bet you are great in the southern region.
some guys get very very mean about "deeper" ones.:wink:

 

[SnitchQitch]

i often wish i had a bigger one.:redface:

i bet you are great in the southern region.
some guys get very very mean about "deeper" ones.:wink:

why would guys get mean about deeper vaginas??


lol!!! i'm not great in the southern region... just... average i guess?

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

my pussy is so deep it's growing its own pumpkin patch inside, just in time for halloween! :lmao:

 

[B_spiker067]

my pussy is so deep it's growing its own pumpkin patch inside, just in time for halloween! :lmao:

Maybe the Great Pumpkin will finally come this year (seems to have some motivation)? In the meantime I'll send Linus and Charlie right over to watch over that patch and keep it watered.

 

[RawDog]

especially not for you.

Oh well, it's my loss then.

 

[RawDog]

why would guys get mean about deeper vaginas??

Having a cock that can more than fully occupy all the potenital space within a vagina is an empowering feeling for a guy. Whether or not a woman likes it is beside the point. We want to be able to physically and kinesthetically overwhelm the woman. We want to be able to reach your core with our dicks, not with our hearts.

Conversely, having a woman handle all of a guy's cock and still not touch bottom is extremely emasculating. Some guys, from their own insecurities, will attribute that to the woman being a slut or "damaged goods"

I'm reminded of a question I heard once, "Would you rather have an inch you can't fit, or an inch you can't reach?"

Having said, and asked, all that and given my signature and avatar, the often overlooked asset most men escape to notice (and women forget to mention) is girth. I've stated this before, unfortunately there is no quantifiable dimension that women can give for their tolerance limits from pleasurable, to heavenly, to painful. It gets too complicated as emotions, mood, lubridity, period within the cycle, attractiveness, etc. all come into play.

Guys are more simple. Have one of those fake vaginas hooked up to a compressor of some sort and I can almost guarantee you we can all pinpoint when it's too loose or too tight.

 

[psidom]

yeah...what muttley said.:biggrin1:

 

[naughty]

I cant say for sure but i do know that when I inserted an applicator which was at least 5 or six inches long in there the inner vacuum sucked it in there and it wasnt any where near the bottom.... LOL! Now, let'sgot back to the Bee gees and their platinum hit from the 80's "How deep is your love?"

 

[Drifterwood]

Conversely, having a woman handle all of a guy's cock and still not touch bottom is extremely emasculating. Some guys, from their own insecurities, will attribute that to the woman being a slut or "damaged goods"

I'm reminded of a question I heard once, "Would you rather have an inch you can't fit, or an inch you can't reach?"

I would prefer to have an inch that you can't reach, and I certainly wouldn't attribute a long vagina to being a "slut".

There are some women who have incredible vagina control, but these ladies are a minority in my experience. Sorry I was daydreaming :redface:

I don't think it is as simple as taking some measurements and then concluding that you need x by y with a slight up curve and a certain shaped head to have the most fulfilling sex. However I do think that it helps everyone, the more you know about and understand your body.

 

[RawDog]

yeah...what muttley said.:biggrin1:

Whoops! Sorry about that, I didn't mean to steal your chance at a response there. Mysoginists just strike a raw nerve with me. Oddly enough, these women-haters get the hottest ones every time.

I cant say for sure but i do know that when I inserted an applicator which was at least 5 or six inches long in there the inner vacuum sucked it in there and it wasnt any where near the bottom.... LOL!

Ok, now you've got me thinking. This "inner vacuum" I've felt before when my wife has an orgasm. Not every time, but usually when I'm not all the way inside. It feels like a pulling motion and I've always wondered if it was a function of the PC muscles tugging in when she cums as opposed to squeezing when she flexes or the tenting in the back of her vagina creating a vacuum.

There's a Taoist/Tantric exercise involving a jade egg where the woman pulls in the egg and pushes it out. The pulling in is more a function of the shape and muscle isolation though. I digress.

Now, let'sgot back to the Bee gees and their platinum hit from the 80's "How deep is your love?"

Indeed!

I would prefer to have an inch that you can't reach, and I certainly wouldn't attribute a long vagina to being a "slut".

Have you ever had a woman you couldn't bottom out on? On average, how much of you can a woman usually handle? Is there a bottom, and then a stretched out bottom? In other words (and I hate using porn as research aid) I've seen porn where the guy's dick is absolutely soaked with her lube up until the last inch or so that's bone dry because it doesn't get used. Later on in the scene, she's grinding away to the hilt.

How common is this?

I don't think it is as simple as taking some measurements and then concluding that you need x by y with a slight up curve and a certain shaped head to have the most fulfilling sex. However I do think that it helps everyone, the more you know about and understand your body.

Finally, someone else (other than chrissymgreen) gets me! Thanks!

 

[Drifterwood]

Have you ever had a woman you couldn't bottom out on? On average, how much of you can a woman usually handle? Is there a bottom, and then a stretched out bottom? In other words (and I hate using porn as research aid) I've seen porn where the guy's dick is absolutely soaked with her lube up until the last inch or so that's bone dry because it doesn't get used. Later on in the scene, she's grinding away to the hilt.

How common is this?

Finally, someone else (other than chrissymgreen) gets me! Thanks!

Purely with regard to length, as far as I understand the vagina (I am a user not an owner), there are four states; unaroused, unaroused stretched, aroused and aroused stretched. Five if you count tenting during intense orgasm. OK five and everything in between, but we're men so we like definition.

The basics are that unaroused, the vagina is on average three to five inches. You can then add up to two for arousal and up to two for stretching. You therefore get this range of average from five to nine. Then you should consider the cervix, head on, not usually a good idea, or to the front and to the back (anterior and posterior). To the back is the deepest part.

You can also see that when unaroused a woman with a four inch deep vagina would bottom at four and when aroused and stretched can take eight etc etc

Have I ever not bottomed out? Of course. If a partner is worried about your size, I would suggest that you encourage her to mount you. She can take control of everything, calm down and get used to it and then enjoy it. Of course you can be too big which is why I would prefer an inch you can't reach, it doesn't stop you having good sex. Too much does.

Vaginas are wonderful.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Right now, because it has been three years, when I'm fully aroused my dude can pop into my cul de sac, and his penis is usually between 5.5" and 5.75" long. He can also hit bottom and feel al little too long when I'm not completely aroused. Sometimes it's just enough pressure to feel good, other times the pain is unwelcome.

Ten years ago, I'm not sure this would have been the case. Back then my partner's penis was 10" long. Though it took a long time for my body to adjust, eventually there was no "excess" in most positions when I was fully aroused, but he had a lot of excess length in our favorite position, in which I lay completely flat on my belly.

After breaking up with that guy, I remember that some guys would fuck me extremely hard, and would take a seemingly animalistic thrill in my begging for even harder. I remember a guy who had over 7" asking me if I thought his penis was small. I sensed it was because he'd never been permitted to pound anyone as hard as he and I both liked. Now, I don't like that kind of pressure anymore. I'm not sure why, but I suspect it has something to do with being very accustomed to a more average-sized penis. Before I met my dude, most of my partners were hung at least 7", and a few had over 8".

It's now been four years since the last time I had sex with my ex and his 10". By our last encounter, I was used to 8" because he and I had already broken up. The pressure of being pushed open to a point to which I was no longer accustomed was very pleasurable, and he had what looked to me like nearly one inch that would not insert (if my memory can still be trusted). Now, He'd probably not even be able to get as much into me as he was able during our very first encounter.


In my observation, given the motivation and time, my "capacity" will adjust. I wonder how true this is for other women.

 

[RawDog]

Purely with regard to length, as far as I understand the vagina (I am a user not an owner), there are four states; unaroused, unaroused stretched, aroused and aroused stretched. Five if you count tenting during intense orgasm. OK five and everything in between, but we're men so we like definition.

This paragraph is something of a revelation for me, I'm glad you answered my question so succinctly. The different states, I've assumed were soley for girth (except the tenting part). I've never seen this applied to depth. My experience in the past is that once we've reached the posterior fornix, we're there. We're happy, we can nudgefuck all we want and we're good to go unless she's had it with that stimulation.

Have I ever not bottomed out? Of course. If a partner is worried about your size, I would suggest that you encourage her to mount you. She can take control of everything, calm down and get used to it and then enjoy it. Of course you can be too big which is why I would prefer an inch you can't reach, it doesn't stop you having good sex. Too much does.

I guess I take it for granted, not having the equipment to make that "problem" common for me. I can see your point of view though. Not being able to go at it with enthusiasm can be a mood killer. There are times when she wants me to go hard and deep, but she needs to lower her legs from my shoulders so as to prevent me from going too deep.

Vaginas are wonderful.

ABSOLUTELY!

 

[RawDog]

Right now, because it has been three years, when I'm fully aroused my dude can pop into my cul de sac, and his penis is usually between 5.5" and 5.75" long. He can also hit bottom and feel al little too long when I'm not completely aroused. Sometimes it's just enough pressure to feel good, other times the pain is unwelcome.

This part sounds like a normal vagina's response to a normal penis.

Ten years ago, I'm not sure this would have been the case. Back then my partner's penis was 10" long. Though it took a long time for my body to adjust, eventually there was no "excess" in most positions when I was fully aroused, but he had a lot of excess length in our favorite position, in which I lay completely flat on my belly.

This part is a perspective I hadn't seen, I'm intrigued. I've had numerous discussions with women about vaginas being able to gradually accomodate larger penises as the pussy gets more accustomed to the fit (girthwise, not lengthwise). When the need for the adjusment is gone, the vagina snaps back to it's usual tightness. Like Drifterwood's post, it is fascinating to hear this "stretchyness" from longitudinal depth, rather than lateral girth. (Sorry, I am an engineer, I've been told my mind works differently when it comes to sex)

After breaking up with that guy, I remember that some guys would fuck me extremely hard, and would take a seemingly animalistic thrill in my begging for even harder. I remember a guy who had over 7" asking me if I thought his penis was small. I sensed it was because he'd never been permitted to pound anyone as hard as he and I both liked. Now, I don't like that kind of pressure anymore. I'm not sure why, but I suspect it has something to do with being very accustomed to a more average-sized penis. Before I met my dude, most of my partners were hung at least 7", and a few had over 8".

Years ago I had a fuckbuddy who said I was the best lover she'd ever had because I was the only one that didn't hurt her. I asked her the same thing, if she thought I was just smaller than her previous guys. She said it was my gentleness, not my size. We were a good fit, she just didn't care for the hard pounding.

In my observation, given the motivation and time, my "capacity" will adjust. I wonder how true this is for other women.

Am I correct in assuming it's easier to adjust now, if you feel you need to, because you've already "trained" your body from experience?

 

[B_capslock]

hm. i've bottomed out on myself with my 5 1/4 inch dildo. i think when i'm more arroused it could probably be deeper, around 6", but then again, i've never actually tested that out. next time i do the deed i'll repost and let you know.

Bee, your gorgeous... i'm a man of few words, but many strokes!

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

Purely with regard to length, as far as I understand the vagina (I am a user not an owner), there are four states; unaroused, unaroused stretched, aroused and aroused stretched. Five if you count tenting during intense orgasm. OK five and everything in between, but we're men so we like definition.

The basics are that unaroused, the vagina is on average three to five inches. You can then add up to two for arousal and up to two for stretching. You therefore get this range of average from five to nine. Then you should consider the cervix, head on, not usually a good idea, or to the front and to the back (anterior and posterior). To the back is the deepest part.

You can also see that when unaroused a woman with a four inch deep vagina would bottom at four and when aroused and stretched can take eight etc etc

Have I ever not bottomed out? Of course. If a partner is worried about your size, I would suggest that you encourage her to mount you. She can take control of everything, calm down and get used to it and then enjoy it. Of course you can be too big which is why I would prefer an inch you can't reach, it doesn't stop you having good sex. Too much does.

Vaginas are wonderful.

WOOOOP DE WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP!!! The most sensible AND informed comment so far!

As a midwife of 14 years i can verify that indeed the vagina is approx 4 inches unaroused thus my fingers reaching the cervix when feeling for dilation.Obviously the patient doesnt get aroused by that so the vagina doesnt lengthen.

Actually the most sensitive area is approx 2 inches in though sensation can be felt deeper inside.Apparently anything touching the cervix isnt felt though i know for a fact that is untrue.( I had an injection into mine and i nearly shot through the roof with pain and shock! Also,Omar hit mine ALOT!!):smile:

 

[B_curiousme01]

I'm pretty sure that I fall into the 6-7" category... I can feel my husband in totality if my legs are slightly squeezed together and he is on top, inside of me. It is especially intense if we start out this way and just rest for a moment or so. He tends to throb and it feels very different than stroking. If he is holding my legs over my head and is "going balls deep" just before he has an orgasm, it can really hurt when he hits "bottom." He is also very strong, so that might have something to do with the "owwwiee" factor of that position.

 

[petite]

I'm with SnitchQitch, I wish I had a deeper one! Sex is a lot more pleasurable if he can go balls deep and his pelvis rubs up against the labia and clit with every thrust and there's no nervousness during sex that there might be that one thrust too deep!

I've also wondered this! But I've also wondered if taller women, or women with longer torsos can take a longer penis. One of my closest friends is the same height, but her waist is much longer, by which I mean the distance between the bottom of her sternum and her pubus mont. I'm petite and short-waisted, thin hipped, like Kim Yuna. I've watched porn where petite porn actresses take large penises, but I've always wondered if it actually hurts and they're just pretending their yelps are pleasure instead of pain, enduring it for the camera and a paycheck.

First of all, I'm surprised that more women don't already know the answer to this question, especially given the popularity of "rabbit-style" vibrators and how you've got to know what size "shaft" you prefer if you want to order online! The first dildo women usually buys is usually enormous, because they look sexier and because women think that's what they want, and they think that they can just insert as much as they want. The problem with "rabbit-style" vibrators is if the shaft is longer than your vagina then the rabbit part does't sit against your labia and clitoris properly! Most rabbit style vibrators have shafts between 5"-7" long. The first rabbit I owned was too big for me, probably 7". The one I own now is 5.5" and I love it, so I'm obviously between 5.5" and 7".

My current bf, the reason why I'm here, is too big, but I can fit more of it inside me now than I used to be able to, so I think some stretching does occur. Because of work, sometimes we're apart for weeks, and we both observed that if we didn't have sex for two weeks, I would become a lot tighter and I'd get sore a lot faster. I can take all of my boyfriend's penis, and I do sometimes if he's nearing orgasm, but it's definitely not pleasurable, and if he thrusts hard all the way in, it can be very painful!

Position does seem to make a difference with depth. Doggy style seems to "shorten" me, but it may just be an angle thing.

For those who questioned interior sensations, my cervix feels touch, pleasure, and pain, and I can feel my boyfriend's cock all the way down to the bottom. I can feel the little muscles that push the cum through his cock when he orgasms deep inside me, each squirt. I think that indicates a lot of sensitivity inside. There is a very deep place past my cervix that can be very pleasurable or sharply painful, depending on how carefully he thrusts.

 

[RawDog]

I'm with SnitchQitch, I wish I had a deeper one! Sex is a lot more pleasurable if he can go balls deep and his pelvis rubs up against the labia and clit with every thrust and there's no nervousness during sex that there might be that one thrust too deep!.

Sometimes I can't tell the difference between a grimace and an about-to-orgasm face. Which sucks because sometimes I can feel myself get carried away and see my wife almost cumming only to be told, "Fuck! Slow down, it hurts!!"

The one I own now is 5.5" and I love it, so I'm obviously between 5.5" and 7".

Mathematically, I'd put you on the 6" to 7" category. You didn't happen to answer that, did you? I've been monitoring the survey results since it started (I have a spreadsheet) and the overall voters are increasing by quite a bit, but the average is still staying the same.

Position does seem to make a difference with depth. Doggy style seems to "shorten" me, but it may just be an angle thing.

That's fascinating. Doggy style is our choice of positions for me to go hardest as it makes her the deepest.

Thank you for the input, petite. And thanks to capslock for reviving this thread!