How does a big cock feel the first time to a woman

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  1. BunnyC

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    Gentlemen,

    I always been enticed by men who claimed they have a large penis. However, I watched the episode of Sex in the City when Samantha got her wish for a sexual encounter with a man with a large penis. Sam was not happy and stopped the encounter. She was in pain. However I heard most women love it, why?

    Since then, it has been my greatest fanasty and fear. Do women really appreciate a large cock over the average of 5 to 6 inches?

    What about a women like me? My mouth, hands, ears, and pussy is small. How can I accomodate a large penis? Will there be pain and tearing like the first time? I tried a large dildo and could not handle it.

    What about anal sex. My ass is so tight that my boyfriend claims its painful to him, as well as me. We tried twice and never again.

    Any suggestions for me? Should I try one, and how can I learn to love it?

    I live in Tampa and I am very curious.
     
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    hey bunny.. well a big cock can be so wide ranged.. anything over nine inches and youll prob be in pain. im 8 inches longs and have a girth of 6 inches.. my girl is very pettite as well and can accomdate me just fine.. although proper foreplay is in order.... is your current boyfriend not big enough for what you need? dont go lookin for a bigger dick just to try it... if your single and it happens.. lay back and enjoy:biggrin1:
     
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    If a vaginal canal can birth most babies, unless he is extremely long and hitting your cervix sex should be quite OK for you. Perhaps he is going too quick and your "natural lubricant" has not had a chance to kick in yet making it uncomfortable for you.

    As far as anal goes, yeah can be fun for some, painful for others, regardless of how much lube is used. If you and him communicate well, a simple that hurts and isn't enjoyable should be enough.

    There's SO MANY OTHER THINGS TO DO!! *smile*
     
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    Hi, Im not massive, Im about 7 3/4 x 6 1/2 but my girlfriend often complains about pain and will sometimes need to stop. Big dicks, I'd imagine, don't feel better unless you can handle it. If you're petit then an average dick probably feels like a big dick would in an average size woman. So don't try to go after one thats huge, go after one that feels good.
     
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    Hi Bunny - just relax and I am sure it will work for you
     
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    I don't see how relevant that is as childbirth isn't known as a pleasurable experience!
     
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    My 22 yr old f buddy can barely take me, she loves the filling FEEL but I have to go very easy one her until she is about to cum, then I can pour it on but she is always pleasantly sore afterward.
     
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    You'd have to ask my ex-girlfriends.:rolleyes:
     
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    Are you writing down a list of the people who actually answer your post seriously Bunny? :smile:
     
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    Hey, it's not for everyone! :) Don't worry about it!

    "Big" is subjective; no matter what happens and what people say you are who you are!
     
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    In heterosexdual relations there are going to be females with small vaginal canals just as there are going to be males with small penises. The opposite is true as well. A "small" woman is going to have some trouble accomodating a "large" man. The bad combination is the large woman and the "small" man because neither one has a great time.

    Most dating is hit and miss or like a roulette wheel. Usually the meeting is two who are average and everything works.

    It was once said that most women cannot easily take anything over 8 inches in length. Again I believe that to be something again based on averages. All one can do is try and find the ....ahem...."perfect" mate!
     
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    Welcome BunnyC!!! Just take it slow and easy, you really will find your way to handle a BIG by your self..!! Or I will be happy to show you in person if you like..!! ;-)
     
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    my first girlfriend couldnt handle it many times for about 2 years, which was discouraging, and she was also very thin and tight, and i feel it had a little to do with us breaking up. funny thing is though, whenever i run into her at the bars now, she usually ends up coming home with me
     
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    Take it slow at first, focus on foreplay before you try to take it, and then take it slow and work up to full speed, that should help
     
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    I gave birth. I did the natural birth thing, no drugs. It was not a pleasant experience. I only did it once. I told myself never again, not even for love.

    Since you are a guy, let me describe the feeling. It's like running a marathon, and you are at that pain threshold feeling, where you body is on fire, and your body is cramping up. However, you never get that rush of euphoria like in running. Instead, you get more intense cramps, until your body can no longer stand it ,and the baby is ejected from a small vagina.

    That natural streching of the birth canal is painful, and you'll experience tears at the opening, like when your hymen is first torn, only a larger tear that requires stitches.

    Be glad you are a guy.
     
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    Bunny, I am married to a woman who had a child by natural childbirth (we weren't married then). She can accommodate me quite well, and she claims sexual intercourse is much more pleasurable to her now. I never asked but she did tell me her first husband was not as endowed, and after childbirth sex was not like it used to be.

    I tried to be as non-macho as I can and say that I know that size doesn't matter. But she quickly corrected me and said that size does indeed matter and she likes size... a lot.

    She is not what I would call a size queen, but she teases me quite a bit about our "second child" and how he's her favorite. I would like to think she did not marry me for my size, but sometimes she makes me wonder.

    Anyway, short story is that sex is not painful to her.
     
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    Why would you stick a large dildo in your ear!!?!??!!! Keep it out of there:eek:

    I can't imagine your BF's penis fitting in your ear if it has trouble fitting anywhere else. It'll take a micropenis to fit it there. Can you orgasm from ear stimulation?

    Sorry, It was just too funny that you mentioned having small ears. :tongue:
     
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    My first reaction also. :smile:...I didn't even want to go there , but that was the tip off that this was another bogus thread.
     
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    Can any women who have a big cock answer this?
     
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    It hurts so good.