I have always looked forward to the climax of my "solo sessions" when my cock spouts forth and is covered with cum. Just rumming my hand and fingers through that delightful, messy, slippery stuff is great.
Pre-cum is handy, but my saliva has always been sufficient to lave my lover's cock with and I am always thrilled when my lover's saliva and my pre-cum combine to bathe my cock. I have always liked 69ing. And, my lovers have never been shy about receiving my offering of cum as I have always welcomed theirs. To finish things off with a long kiss in which we move the cum from one mouth to the other makes for a nice finale. And, my partners and I have never been stingy in taking time in the afterglow to attempt to put into words our grateful sense of the gift we have gotten.
Sex is too wonderful to be hurried. It ought always to be savored.