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I've had several roommates where talking after a shower, one completely naked, the other not, wasn't uncommon. Yeah, really hot days are good for sitting around nekkid.

I saw an Australian TV show a few years ago which included 3 characters, 2 guys and a girl, who shared an apartment. They'd all use the bathroom at the same time; for example, one guy would be taking a shower, the other guy would be shaving, and the girl would be doing her hair. I thought it was very cool that they were all relaxed around each other, but I never lived in an environment like that. Back when I had housemates, we used the bathroom one at a time, and closed the door when we were using it. Sometimes it was really frustrating when I was running late and still waiting for my turn.

I've always wondered what's OK and what's not especially with roommates. i always went on the safe side but felt like i shouldn't worry about it as much as i do.

Same here. I live alone now, but whenever I moved into a place with housemates or a roommate, I'd try to observe how modest they were, to get some clues about what was OK and what wasn't. Unfortunately, modesty ruled.

One nice thing about living alone is that when I get up in the morning, I don't have to bother getting dressed to walk from my bedroom to the shower, and if it's warm enough, I can stay naked after my shower until I'm ready to go out for the day. And like salinger said, I can hang out naked on really hot days.
 

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This is neither here nor there, but I didn't want to search for somewhere else to put this. I was hanging out with my old college roommate tonight and we were talking about my Europe trip. I told him and his wife about how I went to these nude beaches in Europe. His wife said she had been but my roomie said he wouldn't go. I kind of laughed and didn't believe him and said something to the effect of - You would to. You have a nice body (he's a former athlete), you're not shy and you have a decent sized dick, what are you worried about?. His wife agreed with me and started in with that argument and then turned to me - How do you know about his penis? We used to be roommates I said, and left it at that. If he wants to mention the threeway, that's his business.
 

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I ran around nude all day yesterday. I was camping at a hot springs I try to get to at least once a year.

Oh sure, brag about it why don't you? It's 30 degrees and snowing here. I probably won't get to be nude again (except for showers) for at least 6 months.
 

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I have no problems with being naked with my mates but not all the time. Generally in summer when the heat is stifling then we all go natural, only if we're at someone's place.
 

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Oh sure, brag about it why don't you? It's 30 degrees and snowing here. I probably won't get to be nude again (except for showers) for at least 6 months.
I know it's kind of far for a camping trip---it's a half hour drive from Vegas and about an hour hike in. Fly on out and I'll take you there. :eek:
 

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I know it's kind of far for a camping trip---it's a half hour drive from Vegas and about an hour hike in. Fly on out and I'll take you there. :eek:

If I could get out of work (and afford airfare)...it's 12 degrees here. However, tomorrow it's supposed to warm up and be in the mid-40s (with a mix of snow & rain).
 

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There's even a sauna cave down on the Colorado River, which is only about 350 feet above sea level. Hence the warmer temperatures. It requires a short swim through the Colorado though. I'm normally cold-blooded - but as long as I know I can get in a hot pool on either end of the swim, I'm fine.
 

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I'm a pretty open minded guy with open minded friends and I have never had a friend who does the whole, I'm naked in my house thing. I would never hang out naked with my friends. If the situation was sexual, that's different but just chillin? Nah.

I do remember when I lived with my best friend/roommate, I used to go to the bathroom in the morning completely naked, cause I sleep naked but he was always asleep in his room and in all the years we lived together, there wasn't even a close call.
 

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I love being naked and do it my home and yard all the time. But I'm also aware that not all my friends are the same so I try to respect their issues of personal space and only go mutually nudie when it's...mutual.

It's also not necessarily a sexual thing, but it is sensual ('con-sensual'...lol).
 

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I'm not the fittest guy, but I have no problem being nude. I wouldn't invite my friends over to the house to just hang around naked, but we've seen each other at Haulover or around the pool. No big deal & it isn't anything sexual.

I do notice that my European & South American friends are more relaxed with nudity. Some of my American friends seem to freak out if you just take your shirt off!
 

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Nudity for me is something I do in certain places and situations, such as beaches, saunas and swims, so if friends are with me then, we'll be naked. Mostly I have a different group of people I know, especially when having a sauna- indeed I've heard the expression 'friend from the sauna' or 'sauna friend' used by a couple of people.
 

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Years ago when we were on the road, the lead singer would always lounge around the suite naked. He was Welsh and said that was always the way they did it back there. Then one by one the rest of us got comfortable. This continued for about a year winding down or up after a road gig. Of course, it was not totally sex-free as women were sometimes involved, well let's say eventually the majority of the time.

I've become a lot more uptight since then, though. I'm thinking the recreational pharmaceuticals had something to do with my mellow mood back then.

Now I'm just has as comfortable sans duds with my best and only naked friend.
 

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Depends on the 'friends' and the circumstances. It's not like im going to say to my volleyball team mates, "hey lets get naked and watch a porno...no homo"; that only happens in porn, right before, "gee I have never done this before ... " followed by 'ARRRGGH GAG SLURP'.
 
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I rent "clothing optional" pisos in one of my buildings in Barçelona exclusively to gay clients for one to three or more month contracts. Each floor was converted to multiple apartments at one time, but over the years I've learned that groups of Europeans and many Brits like to pool their money for long-term stays. Therefore, we've "un" converted the apartments and restored the floors back to their original foot prints to when the building was constructed in 1900.

Each piso is about 400 square meters (about the size of a small roller rink) with 4 bedrooms, 3.5 baths, maid quarters, large designer kitchens with pantries, and the kitchens easily seat six, plus each opens into a formal dining room that can accommodate 12 people, each has a study which serves as the media room and can be used as a fifth bedroom, and then there is the a common living area where renters can meet and entertain guests.

The pisos are completely furnished with a gay housekeeping service that comes in twice a week. And they are not cheap. Despite the global economic calamity taking place there is still a solid niche market for expensive, luxurious rentals. The Squeeze and I live on the top floor six months each year. The roof, as have most roofs in Barçelona, has been turned into sunning terrace with a hot tub, sauna and outdoor shower. We've cordoned off a third of the roof terrace for ourselves installing a privacy barrier, second jacuzzi-style hot tub and our own sauna and shower. A gay rental agency manages the business for us that specializes in gay rentals.

There are a couple of reasons all of the pisos are booked year round at least 12 months in advance, but according to our rental agents the primary draws are: 1. The rooftop terrace is advertised as "clothing optional"; and 2. the location of the building is less than one block from La Metro, one of BCN's more notorious gay discos in the middle of the gai l'eixample neighborhood. During the day, it's just like any other neighborhood with lots of children and families plying the streets. After 12:00 midnight things change. But it is also one of the safest parts of the city and easily reached by walking from Plaça Catalunya.

Of course, in the winter months not many renters are interested in sitting around in cold, wet weather. But spring, summer, and into late autumn BCN is hot and frequently humid. So we meet and hang out with lots of guests who are as equally comfortable lolling about naked as we are. Unlike most large cities, the l'exiample is filled with buildings basically all the same height. So, if anyone it interested in playing "what can I see with my telescope?" the closest tall buildings are at least 1.5 kilometers away and it's hard for anyone to see anything if they try.

When it comes to being nude among our friends, we let our friends decide for themselves if they want to romp around without any clothing or not. There is no pressure. If friends come by to meet for drinks before we all go out to dinner and clubbing, no one has ever shown an inclination to strip down just to get dressed again before we go out. But when friends come home with us after a short evening it's not even mentioned or noticed that eventually everyone is naked and lounging comfortably. Barcelona is damn hot in the summer and we try to live without using the individual room air conditioners.

As for renters running into one another naked in the stairwell, it just doesn't happen. Each piso has it's own key that corresponds to a floor in the central elevator (an old metal cage style lift). And most clients seem to understand that at least a bathrobe and a towel are essential for accessing the community terrace, but once on the terrace all bets are off.

It's just a much more laid back world than the USA. Although, I've discovered a few clothing optional motel/hotels in Palm Springs that are almost as comfortable. But those venues tend to attract guys interested in cruising individually or in groups. Not exactly the same as being naked at home watching TV or reading.
 
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