How to ask my friend if he wants to jerk off together???

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  1. Dragon88

    Dragon88 New Member

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    I would like to jerk off with my best friend, since I've never experienced it before, but I'm not sure how I'm going to ask him. Should I just say "Hey Andy, do you wanna jerk off together some time?" :tongue: I'm not sure how he would react, but I've heard that this "male bonding" is the closest relationship you can get to a friend without being boyfriends, dating or something... :confused: I think he's really hot, but I don't want to push him to doing anything he doesn't want to do or scare him off.
     
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    I've been in the same situation. Best thing to do is invite him over to stay the night ... Use a laptop and just go on porn and be like : look what (one of your friends he doesnt knows name) showed me, wicked site ...."

    If he takes to it, nature should take its course, but if he's like "WTF" don't let it backfire and put yourself back on top by saying cooly somthin like; oh, your not into that ...

    Hope it goes well! Let me know!
     
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    There's no way for people to answer this question for you. Too many factors are unknown by the rest of us. How has he reacted in the past? Does he watch porn with you? Is he homophobic? Is he a violent person? Do you think he'd be open to the idea, or is it clear that he'd be offended? Etc., etc.

    People will likely offer advice on this topic based on what they'd do, or just so they can type out some sex fantasy. You shouldn't follow any of their advice; you should do what you think is right based on your own experiences with this person, as well as what you're willing to risk (including your reputation, your friendship, etc.).
     
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    understandable bayareaguy, but he did ask, so ...
    But your advice is better than mine.
     
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    Oh, it happened this way quite a lot of times already!!! :cool:
     
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    recipe: late night and dark room, porn, beer. Mix ingrdients well and it results in jackoff
     
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    Yeah, sit down to watching some great porn together. At some point when you're rock hard, say something like "Sorry man, I just gotta take care of this" get yours out and start doing yourself. If he picks up the cue, great. If not, hey, it's porn. Everybody jacks off to it. You don't need an excuse.
     
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    He's really nice and great to be with and we are great friends. I don't know how he feels about porn, but he is pretty religious, so I guess he doesn't have a lot of experience with it. I think he would be pretty open about this subject, since we're so close. I doubt he is homophobic, and he is definitly not a violent person! I think he would consider it if I ask him, and if he decides to not, I don't think it would effect our friendship very much. The thing is that I just have to find the right moment to ask him, for example if he sleeps over at my place or vice versa... but thanks for the advice! :biggrin1:
     
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    I would not risk losing my friendship with him. Go out to a gay gathering place and find a boyfriend that turns you on or a one night stand. Preserve your friendship.

    I have been hit on by many straight married men in my life because they don't want to look for a boyfriend and go to a gay club becasue that is too gay for them. All they do is out themselves and ruin their marriages.