ILIW, If your're 1% gay I'd say you're not ready for cock that size. It could rip you if he's thick. If he's average girth you may be alright but you better have had at least some practice with a dildo or someone smaller. Anal sex is traumatic to your rectum. Make sure to use lots of good lube, EROS Puur is fabulous! Definitely douche and don't eat anything with seeds for a couple days before as they don't clean out very well and could contribute to tearing or scratching. I was a top until my young BF got a hold of my ass. He's 9 and about as big around as a beer bottle. It took me getting broken in slowly to achieve comfort. I always find it easier when I really want to feel him inside me. Really wanting it is the key for me. I can now take a 10x8 do easily with absolutely no distress and now he just slides right in with great comfort and wonderful pleasure. One last thing, if you do bleed after remember that it just comes with the territory and is usually overcome by your body in a day or two...If it doesn't go away in a day or two go see a doctor...It's best to work your way up to size not just dive right in....Rod