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bigk4: is there a way? i know its baasically impossible with length but is ti the same with thickness or is thee a way? eating loads and wanking or wat, i dont know but all i wanna know.. is there a way :p?
 

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The best advice is to accept what you have and learn to be happy. :D

--But then, like every other man breathing, you won't accept that. ;)

Some increase in girth typically occurs as we get older (don't know your age?)
Men often notice gains of another 1/2 inch or so in erect girth in their twenties or thirties.

Of all the known, (common) PE (enlargement) methods practiced, jelq and low-level vacuum pumping will best improve girth over an extended period of time.

These topics are more than adequately covered in our "making it bigger" section.

Should you truly want to try PE....accept you'll be in a routine for quite awhile...
(think at least a year or more) and for the most part....EVERY DAY sessions of at least 15 to 30 minutes. Many of us find life already too cramped for time for that kind of schedule. --It's up to you.
 
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Hapi Papi: Yes, yes... remember the suggestions? I'm really dedicated to other stuff but this... lost cause for me... I respect those who can do it faithfully. Maybe one day.
 
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VladtheImpaler: I did a lot of jelqing years ago until I decided I was big enough, but for some reason I never got any thicker, just longer. I started out very thick though (6.5 inches circumference), so that may be why. Jelqing probably works differently for every man.
 

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Originally posted by VladtheImpaler@Jul 6 2004, 11:09 PM
"... Jelqing probably works differently for every man."
It really does, I think.

When doing jelq, just be sure there are definite "methods and strategies" being followed faithfully....not just randomly squeezing and manipulating just for the heck of it. There must be deliberate patterns of the jelq squeezes for specific purposes and done for a very long period of time.

I used jelq in combination with other techniques and also noticed more length improvement than girth. That is changing though after three plus years of PE to where now, I am indeed noticing better gains in girth. --But the gains are indeed very gradual...the kind you "feel" more than "see" (if that makes any sense!)
 
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sillysally: Dear Big K,

I mentioned in another part of the forum that I work as a urology nurse. I hate to tell you this, but there really is no good way to make your penis larger. If you are having erection difficulties, there are a number of ways to improve your performance, which includes the size of your erection. But, in the end, the results are limited by your original equipment. Anyone trying to sell you a product or technique which suggests it can make your penis larger is pulling your (third) leg.

Sally
 

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Originally posted by sillysally@Jul 13 2004, 03:21 AM
"...Anyone trying to sell you a product or technique which suggests it can make your penis larger is pulling your (third) leg." Sally
Sally, in very many ways, you're absolutely correct. :)

However---

There are some men, myself included, who have, over a very long period of time improved themselves in added length and girth. What I have always been mindful of in offering advice here is seeking to avoid promising the moon and getting men's hopes up for nothing--taking advantage of them with false expectations.

I respect your professional advice, Sally, and I won't knock it, necessarily. But, I must speak up here!

I went to a number of urologists for advice and other guidance in male issues over the years. I found every one of them (regionally here in the south) to dismiss my inquiries of seeking advice on enlarging as nothing more than pure folly. It made me resentful and even furious! that my genuine concerns were so abruptly disregarded. Men care about this subject and care about it dearly. Urologists and other MD's would offer a great service to many men just to listen and not laugh about concerns over penis size. Sally, reading your comments in another thread about nurses sharing remarks on the rare occasion when a big man was examined--didn't help me either. I always suspected such behavior and your comments confirmed it for me. Professional decorum? --I could have gone without ever knowing it, Sally. And, so could a lot of other men here who read that. (And, btw-- I happen to be a larger man who's thinking this way!)

Now back to my rebuttal--
The truth is, there are some techniques (WHEN SAFELY PRACTICED AND OVER A VERY LONG DURATION OF TIME !) that will encourage good penile health and improve one's penis size to some degree. Each man will respond differently.
A one inch gain is possible for many men; any more than that will vary for reasons I do not know. Some men may not even get the one inch improvement! But there are some methods which will work. A urologist will (now) never tell me differently.
But to say that there is NO improvement possible at all is misleading to some degree. If anything, the overnight wonder pills, potions, and methods for six inch improvements which will promise a 4-incher to become a "10" in two months---THOSE are the methods of enlargement that need to be shot down here. And, rightfully so.

Sally, in all due respect, please allow those of us who indeed have noticed gains from PE (again SAFE PE) to share our encouragement to other men--offering them some hope. Especially allow those of us who share this advice reasonably so and without false hype to offer our advice or answer other's questions without a blanket of disapproval and accusations of ourtright lying to be thrown over us. :)
 
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XXLHS: I would like to chime in here also,

There are a few ways to make it bigger... and they do work, but its like geology... you the deal... presure and time.

Time is that it takes time... just like working out... you do it everyday, for a short period and you get results in time.

I can say that while not mind blowing... forget mind blowing in PE... and go for gradual increase. I used to think that being 12 inches and 3 inches would be huge... but that is horse sized and well, that does not work well with most women.

After about two years of pumping on and off to no schedule and nothing really happening... I started to just eat healthy, workout and get into shape as well as just light pump - both penis and penis and balls every evening for about 30-60 mins on low presure. Amazing thing happened... I started to grow. It was the slight increases due to tissue growth. You see its not a muscle, and its an organ... and the only way to make an organ grow is to have more cells in it... and well, warmth, slight presure and being in shape and getting enough sleep just like in working out, allow your penis and balls to make some growth.

I got up to a good solide 8 inch erection and my faccid state is 2 x 7 and nice sized balls (that I later had augmented, but that is another story and soon I may have my penis augemented) but I suddenly realized that 8 inches is rather huge in its own right... and so I am more then happy at present.

I would say, just try to do a little each day and don't think about it... just like anything else, it will happen as your body changes naturally to the new stimulus... so find something that works for you and just stick to it.
 
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sillysally:
Originally posted by benderten2001@Jul 13 2004, 07:05 PM


Sally, in all due respect, please allow those of us who indeed have noticed gains from PE (again SAFE PE) to share our encouragement to other men--offering them some hope. Especially allow those of us who share this advice reasonably so and without false hype to offer our advice or answer other's questions without a blanket of disapproval and accusations of ourtright lying to be thrown over us. :)
My, wasn't that a terse little response. Sorry if I offended you. I'm not certain where I called you or anyone else a liar. Possibly with all this stretching your skin got a little thin? ;)

You cover a lot of ground in your "rebuttal." Let's take a look at a few things from another point of view:

1. You may feel doctors are dismissive of your questions on enlargement, but, believe me, they all know that a low risk, non-invasive and proven method of penis enlargement would be a license to print money. That's why so many of the spams you get really are from docotors that decided to throw ethics to the wind.

2. I've only been at this for six years and can't say that I've done an exhaustive literature search, but I don't believe there is much in the way of credible research that shows any of these techniques actually work. If you or others have a different experience, perhaps you should approach a qualified researcher and get into print. Again, this is the holy grail. People will be interested if it is true.

3. We treat quite a few men who have injured themselves with various penis enlargement techniques. I am not aware that we have ever had a patient come in and show / tell us that he was able to enlarge his penis through his own efforts. Again, the sample is limited and may not reflect the population as a whole.

4. Men's bodies change over time in a variety of ways. Changes in your penis as you age, begin working out, stop smoking, get laid more often, etc. can happen for a lot of reasons. There is a possibility that these changes could be coincidental to your own efforts.

5. Finally, to your personal attack on my professional decorum. Everyone I work with (at last check) is human. We work in a reasonable stressful environment. Do you ever find anything in your work that makes you smirk? Having worked in a couple of doctor's offices and a hospital, I can tell you the atomosphere usually borders on bawdy. You seem offended that a medical professional might also recognize your humanity, rather than as a specimen. When I go to my gyno, I actually assume he is checking me out. That does not mean that I feel I won't get the care I need. My guess is that it is more common for a woman to get placed in the stirrups for no good reason that it is for a couple of worn out nurses or PA's to have a giggle about some guy's sex organ.

I've seen some of your other posts, as well. You write very well and seem sincere. Maybe a little too sincere. I'll admit that I came to this site as kind of a lark. Maybe I waded into the wrong end by answering this topic. It just seems to me that there are a heck of a lot of men getting ripped off and some even getting damaged through practices of dubious medical worth. I'll step off my soap box now, go back to the ladies room where I belong and let you guys go on believing whatever you want to.
 

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Dear Sally.

First of all, you are welcomed here of course. So, you needn't retreat to the ladies room and stay quiet. --Goodness no.

Like the other ladies who have joined us, you already have made some useful remarks and lent insight from the female perspective from which we all can benefit.
And, we certainly invite more of that.

But regarding PE, you did strike a nerve. And, admittedly, my response indeed can be deemed "terse". I can't (and won't) apologize for what I said.

I have spent considerable time, research, and (shamefully!) large sums of money on penis enlargement. I've tried everything imaginable, too. I'm not an expert, but I know my stuff. Like you, I do get annoyed with all the spammers and the con artists taking advantage of innocent men who only want to improve themselves. For the record, I'm quite hacked at them, too. They promote irresponsible, wreckless, UNSAFE PE methods. Personally, in my comments throughout this forum, (to the best of my knowledge!), --I have not done that. I vehemently defend that, too. I've said this before, earlier in the forum-- I worry about my being one of the main posters in this subject area of PE. I get concerned that someone may nonetheless hurt themselves, despite my urging caution in PE.
But to flat-out deny PE doesn't ever work for anyone? That's wrong, Sally.
It isn't true. And the results I experienced were NOT all related either to a "changing body getting older". My improvement was genuine---however it occurred, from exercising techniques, pure and simple. Other men performing PE report the same thing. Improvement (WHEN if finally occurs) is for there, for sure, --undisputable.

So...Confession time here. I work in health care as an administrator. I have referred numerous men to urologists. Many of the men are scared to death for even the simplest of procedures, tests, or inquiries. No, they're not seeking penis enlargement. They seek prostate exams; need corrective help with tight foreskins, you know so well already Sally,--the whole gamut of men's problems. But, these men to me represent "typical men" who don't like discussing their male parts let alone having them causing trouble or needing examining. This irritates me all the more--that men have such "hang-ups" about their male bodies and their sexuality. That's exactly why this forum--even though the topic is "large penis" is so terrific...we get the job done here to offer an arena to ask our questions, share, learn , and enjoy being men (joined by the ladies who often guide our thinking) :D

I've gone to urologists personally and one time was for a PE-related injury. It was embarrassing. I was early into my PE program and the arrogance and otherwise flippant attitude of that particular MD made me even more determined to get my results from PE. (And, I finally did, too!). But, I was furious (seething!) at his derogatory tone. Other urologists whom I earlier had sought treatment for non-related PE matters also were quite haughty-taughty as well when answering my inquiries about my genital size and my seeking some consolation about size issues. Again--this ticked me off. I had to wonder then, how many other men get treated this same way? --IF they're as brazen as I was! to even be asking such questions about their penis size! So, even working in the medical field myself--I wasn't overly impressed with these "specialists" .....at all. In fact, I could have very well deliberately spat on them.

I don't blame the docs and the insurance companies! from staying clear of the subject of penis enlargement. They have their reasons in this day and age of everyone suing someone else for anything and everything. Yes, penis enlargement mishaps would probably yield a "field day", no doubt. These doctors and specialists in the field of urology can go on burying their heads into the sand and make fun, laugh, and scoff about penis enlargement all they want to. At the present time the entire subject area is indeed (admittedly) in its infancy stage. The fact is though, there IS a significant underground movement well underway with men trying enlargement all on their own, --and, many of these men are getting results. I have somewhat innocently joined these "pioneer men" I suppose as together, we are plowing this new frontier into an all new area of men's health. Coupled with exercising and jelq is the increased knowledge of nutritional supplements which compliment male sexual performance and I can (I think most comfortably) predict there will be eventually be tremendous progress in the future to bring PE, nutritional supplements, and other factors all together. It's only a matter of time. Modern medicine is amazing. Enlarging one's penis (breasts for women) may not be on the front burner to cancer, diabetes, and life-threatening situations. But there's a market for "enlargement knowledge" too! And, you betcha it will sell once the answers come, no doubt. And, we thought Viagra was ground-breaking! Why,--just wait. If penis enlargement sounds far-fetched, so be it. Could we imagine just ten years ago about what medical innovations have come forward? I remember when one single heart transplant was national news.
Now, we see all kinds of transplants all over the world, numerous times a day!

The olive branch is extended, Sally. (No personal hard feelings toward you here)
--Someone around here is bound to coin a grin from that line, huh?) ;)
But, I could not let this occasion to speak up slide by. Many men are so fearful of MD's when their penises are concerned-- they dread going to an office, facing female nurses, and they just know what might be said behind their backs about their bodies. I still regret knowing that the giggles go on behind the scenes, Sally. That did anger me. A female staff whispering could not be much of a confidence booster for the average or less than average size fella, I would think. But for that matter, like myself here--many large men don't necessarily like a lot of undue attention from strangers either, especially in a medical setting, --good grief. So, maybe this will help you think when at work in the future, Sally. I hope you and you co-horts will be more considerate.

And thanks for sharing your own concerns about what perhaps goes through the mind of your gyno when YOU'RE being examined with feet in the stirrups. I can't imagine women though, having as much a "size issue" down there to fret over as with a man. But, you know what? With either gender, a medical office is no place to cop a feel or cop a laugh..when it happens to be at another's expense.

If my comments here are deemed all blown out of proportion, then granted--they could be. But I wager I have struck a common cord with more than one reader here today about expecting more from our medical community than what we're getting. We're paying high costs to see MD's and specialists and we're deserving of some respect when we dare ask personal (sensitive) questions about our sexual health and sexual well-being. For many of us men, that subject area does at times include the subject of penis enlargemement. And, to us, it's serious business---despite what the doctors and their staff think. And to laugh at us...is deplorable.
I just have to say this again...and hear me well: Even though I'm in the field of health care personally, I'm not all that impressed with some of the "experts".
Turns out they DON'T have all the answers afterall. But, just try telling them that!
 

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wow benderten2001 that was an interesting story....i can actually see urologists behaving that way.

i have to admit i don't really believe in PE...but hearing you and some other people post about their results has got me thinking if it does in fact work

hmmm is it that doctors are not interested in finding a surgery method to enlargement or is it that the penis is just to complicated of a muscle to actually perform a successful enlargement operation? Because i am sure there will be millions of guys paying to for an enlargement operation.
 

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Benderten, I am sure sillysally was just describing a common phenomena that ALL occupations share- human employees! While you might not like to hear it, most stressful jobs share humor and overt silliness as a way of coping. I worked in the Cemetery business for five years and I could tell you some jokes that very few people would appreciate, but that's what we did to stay sane. Since this IS the large penis support group, she was sharing a large penis story, no harm intended. I am coming to realize what a sensitive issue this is for some men, but the fact that you are sensitive does not obligate anyone else to placate you. We all must live our lives according to our own needs, it was a bit of a stretch to ask her to change her daily behavior just for you. I am not picking on you here, just think that everyone has a right to communicate, sorry if it seems offensive, it's not meant to be.
 

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Originally posted by blar@Jul 14 2004, 06:54 AM
"...is it that doctors are not interested in finding a surgery method to enlargement or is it that the penis is just to complicated of a muscle to actually perform a successful enlargement operation?..."
blar, I think it's not so much of the MD's not wanting to do PE surgery as much as the procedure itself being quite risky---far, far from perfected as yet. The side effects (and typically they DO occur) involve shaft distortion (bent/crooked) erectile dysfunction, and with injections for girth enhancement, recession and reversion BACK to the original girth dimension over time. These are disappointing and emotionally devestating consequences for a man. There are men out there from early surgery attempts scarred for life. Some dysfunctional...physically and emotionally from the setbacks.

I'm far from believing in and recommending surgery at all for any man except either for the most daring--willing to accept the consequences, or for those men of exceptionally small sizes. Men with "micro-penises" (who are at 1" or less flaccid / 3 " erect) have considerable performance and sexual pleasure concerns. These would be the men, then, who would perhaps be candidates for suspensory ligament surgery whereby the penis is altered (internally) from the abdomen to extend more outward (by say an inch or so) and from there, the longer flacced penis is then "stretched" by an extender device under MD supervision for a period of time to improve its erect state of about 3/4" or so. A man with micro-penis can thereby possibly improve his dimensions by an additional inch or two (tops) with then the decision (if he desires to try it) have injections of fat (or a synthentic equivalent) to improve his girth. Typically, its the injection process though, which often "fails" as the body eventually absorbs the injected materal and thus effect is consequently reduced or lost entirely. btw--the suspensory ligament altering has been improved over the last year or so with less scarring and less liklikhood of a bent shaft. Often, the angle of erection (from ligament adjusting) is yet another negative side effect whereby the erect penis "droops" and becomes even somewhat flimsy when erect, making it more challenging to "use" as such. Again, the surgery approach has a long way to go to ever be the ideal route for PE. But, for the exceptionally below average size man, ANY improvement is welcomed and would be seriously considered. It IS that important a matter to him.

For other men, the alternative to surgery for PE is the natural exercises and jelq programs which I (and others) speak of around here which when done faithfully over time, will gradually allow the inner chambers of the penis to expand and hold more blood --increasing the erect size. Obviously, all the skin stretching and "toning" result in an improved flaccid hang. It's all quite a simple premise, really---like stretching a balloon to hold more air. But the penis is a stubborn bit of human tissue. It's not a muscle per se. And it has to be respected and not overly abused when being put through such exercise regimens. They sometimes become rather strenuous sessions of exercise, too....up to thirty minutes or longer! Best results come for men who are at least about 3" flaccid or better (more to grasp for stretching and exercising) and the very best maximum results seem to occur for men who are already slightly above average! I've read this and have heard from several fellow PE "buddies" who, like myself, even surpassed the typical 1 to 2 inch linear gains over two or three years of exercising! But, I'll repeat this in closing: On the same premise, for unknown reasons, some men....do NOT get that much improvement despite all the work. Mostly what I hear from those who do succeed...is despite the disappointment of seeing NO results right away, they just keep on faithfully with their routines until something good DOES happen. And it does for many of us, IF we're patient.

Also-- most all of us report better sexual stamina, better erections and improved overall male health from all the workouts! Few of us would ever stop. We would at least opt to go on with our "maintenance" exercises done every few days. Those of us in our forties (and over) remain very impressed. I look upon all this as simply another form of good physical fitness.... which just so happens to include the penis.
 

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ah ok thanks for the info benderten2001

i was about to ask before about the faccid being larger instead of the erection....but you basically answered that.....it does makes sense about the erection increase coming later. Thanks you taught alot about it.

yea the side effects that can happen from surgery these days in doing that are way too risky for men to do.....maybe sometime in the near future they may find something out
 
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Originally posted by benderten2001@Jul 14 2004, 04:37 AM
Why,--just wait. If penis enlargement sounds far-fetched, so be it. Could we imagine just ten years ago about what medical innovations have come forward? I remember when one single heart transplant was national news.
Now, we see all kinds of transplants all over the world, numerous times a day
thoese were the results of new technoloy. if PE really worked then it would be public knowledge maybe even taught in schools (jk) simply because man has always had a penis and a hand. there is absolutly no way it would have only been discovered in the last 10 years.
 

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I am one of those men who has spoken to Urologists about P e and got the same reaction - It wont work!! But now 4 years later and very consistent Penile exercise I can tell you that it has worked for me and continues to work. I started out at 6inches by 5 (circumference- 4 years ago. Today, believe it or not I am 8 1/2 x 6 1/2. I cant tell you how pleased I amd and also how excited my wife gets about it.
The only drawback is --- It takes a lot of fortitude, consistency and patience but it has been well worth it to me and I definitely am a believer.
 

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It has worked for me. I'm in my seventh month of consistent, determinated, and, yeap, even enjoyable PE. For stretching, I have 5 exercises with sets of 40 each -- str8 out, to the left, to the right, str8 up, and str8 down. Then lube up with a mixture of vitamin E oil and Johnson's baby oil for the milking exercises. This consists of sets of 10 pulling from base to end with thumb on top center and index finger on bottom center. At times when this 'pull' reaches the corona of the head, I hold the extra blood in the head to make it flare out and to just give it a little short 'wait'. After ten of these execises, I sometimes flop the enlarged dick from thigh to thigh or stroke it to rearrange the blood in the cells, before continuing for the next 10 pulls. I have a mechanical device that I use for the last 50 of the total 200 'milks'.

My dick has become thicker, heavier and its blood circulation makes me harden much faster and more often than before I began the PE regimen. I was 5.75 inches around before I began the exercises and now am 6.25 going on 6.5. In length, I'm noticably longer in my fist, and measure a half of an inch longer. I think if I were able to stretch it harder than my hand can pull during the exercises, I would have more length improvement.

It's sad that more urologists aren't aware of PE's benefits. I think the older a guy is the more benefit is derived from better blood circulation. I'm 75. :rolleyes:
 

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Good explanation on your routine Roystoy. It's just about exactly what I've been doing for the last 4 years.