Dear Sally.
First of all, you are welcomed here of course. So, you needn't retreat to the ladies room and stay quiet. --Goodness no.
Like the other ladies who have joined us, you already have made some useful remarks and lent insight from the female perspective from which we all can benefit.
And, we certainly invite more of that.
But regarding PE, you did strike a nerve. And, admittedly, my response indeed can be deemed "terse". I can't (and won't) apologize for what I said.
I have spent considerable time, research, and (shamefully!
large sums of money on penis enlargement. I've tried everything imaginable, too. I'm not an expert, but I know my stuff. Like you, I do get annoyed with all the spammers and the con artists taking advantage of innocent men who only want to improve themselves. For the record, I'm quite hacked at them, too. They promote irresponsible, wreckless, UNSAFE PE methods. Personally, in my comments throughout this forum, (to the best of my knowledge!
, --I have not done that. I vehemently defend that, too. I've said this before, earlier in the forum-- I worry about my being one of the main posters in this subject area of PE. I get concerned that someone may nonetheless hurt themselves, despite my urging caution in PE.
But to flat-out deny PE doesn't ever work for anyone? That's wrong, Sally.
It isn't true. And the results I experienced were NOT all related either to a "changing body getting older". My improvement was genuine---however it occurred, from exercising techniques, pure and simple. Other men performing PE report the same thing. Improvement (WHEN if finally occurs) is for there, for sure, --undisputable.
So...Confession time here. I work in health care as an administrator. I have referred numerous men to urologists. Many of the men are scared to death for even the simplest of procedures, tests, or inquiries. No, they're not seeking penis enlargement. They seek prostate exams; need corrective help with tight foreskins, you know so well already Sally,--the whole gamut of men's problems. But, these men to me represent "typical men" who don't like discussing their male parts let alone having them causing trouble or needing examining. This irritates me all the more--that men have such "hang-ups" about their male bodies and their sexuality. That's exactly why this forum--even though the topic is "large penis" is so terrific...we get the job done here to offer an arena to ask our questions, share, learn , and enjoy being men (joined by the ladies who often guide our thinking)
I've gone to urologists personally and one time was for a PE-related injury. It was embarrassing. I was early into my PE program and the arrogance and otherwise flippant attitude of that particular MD made me even more determined to get my results from PE. (And, I finally did, too!
. But, I was furious (seething!
at his derogatory tone. Other urologists whom I earlier had sought treatment for non-related PE matters also were quite haughty-taughty as well when answering my inquiries about my genital size and my seeking some consolation about size issues. Again--this ticked me off. I had to wonder then, how many other men get treated this same way? --IF they're as brazen as I was! to even be asking such questions about their penis size! So, even working in the medical field myself--I wasn't overly impressed with these "specialists" .....at all. In fact, I could have very well deliberately spat on them.
I don't blame the docs and the insurance companies! from staying clear of the subject of penis enlargement. They have their reasons in this day and age of everyone suing someone else for anything and everything. Yes, penis enlargement mishaps would probably yield a "field day", no doubt. These doctors and specialists in the field of urology can go on burying their heads into the sand and make fun, laugh, and scoff about penis enlargement all they want to. At the present time the entire subject area is indeed (admittedly) in its infancy stage. The fact is though, there IS a significant underground movement well underway with men trying enlargement all on their own, --and, many of these men are getting results. I have somewhat innocently joined these "pioneer men" I suppose as together, we are plowing this new frontier into an all new area of men's health. Coupled with exercising and jelq is the increased knowledge of nutritional supplements which compliment male sexual performance and I can (I think most comfortably) predict there will be eventually be tremendous progress in the future to bring PE, nutritional supplements, and other factors all together. It's only a matter of time. Modern medicine is amazing. Enlarging one's penis (breasts for women) may not be on the front burner to cancer, diabetes, and life-threatening situations. But there's a market for "enlargement knowledge" too! And, you betcha it will sell once the answers come, no doubt. And, we thought Viagra was ground-breaking! Why,--just wait. If penis enlargement sounds far-fetched, so be it. Could we imagine just ten years ago about what medical innovations have come forward? I remember when one single heart transplant was national news.
Now, we see all kinds of transplants all over the world, numerous times a day!
The olive branch is extended, Sally. (No personal hard feelings toward you here)
--Someone around here is bound to coin a grin from that line, huh?)
But, I could not let this occasion to speak up slide by. Many men are so fearful of MD's when their penises are concerned-- they dread going to an office, facing female nurses, and they just know what might be said behind their backs about their bodies. I still regret knowing that the giggles go on behind the scenes, Sally. That did anger me. A female staff whispering could not be much of a confidence booster for the average or less than average size fella, I would think. But for that matter, like myself here--many large men don't necessarily like a lot of undue attention from strangers either, especially in a medical setting, --good grief. So, maybe this will help you think when at work in the future, Sally. I hope you and you co-horts will be more considerate.
And thanks for sharing your own concerns about what perhaps goes through the mind of your gyno when YOU'RE being examined with feet in the stirrups. I can't imagine women though, having as much a "size issue" down there to fret over as with a man. But, you know what? With either gender, a medical office is no place to cop a feel or cop a laugh..when it happens to be at another's expense.
If my comments here are deemed all blown out of proportion, then granted--they could be. But I wager I have struck a common cord with more than one reader here today about expecting more from our medical community than what we're getting. We're paying high costs to see MD's and specialists and we're deserving of some respect when we dare ask personal (sensitive) questions about our sexual health and sexual well-being. For many of us men, that subject area does at times include the subject of penis enlargemement. And, to us, it's serious business---despite what the doctors and their staff think. And to laugh at us...is deplorable.
I just have to say this again...and hear me well: Even though I'm in the field of health care personally, I'm not all that impressed with some of the "experts".
Turns out they DON'T have all the answers afterall. But, just try telling them that!