How to teach my wife to suck cock...

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by mwm_massage, Apr 15, 2012.

  1. mwm_massage

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    I want my wife to learn how to suck cock better... She's okay, but she could be a lot better. I think her confidence in the whole situation would improve as well.

    Are there any good videos out there that teach real techniques?
     
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    um... with my gf, i just pretended it was a lot better than it actually was for a bit, and then she got more confidence and naturally got more into it and now shes amazing!
     
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    I noticed the more turned on she is the better she does it. She still can't get much more past the head in though.
     
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    stimulate her clitoris while she takes are of you. You might find you both are suprised.
     
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    Well aren't you the sweetheart... Have you mentioned this to her?
     
  6. DustinGregg

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    Ever 69’d w/her?
     
  7. notN2pussy

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    You look pretty big, head too, maybe it gives her trouble? 69 always makes me better!
     
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    so awesome.
     
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    Fuck the videos, communication babydoll. It's telling her what you like, what feels good. When she's doing right, tell her, "Baby, that feel so good." If it's something you saw and want TELL HER. Don't say I saw this in a video, instead give her credit for a moment of something she was/is doing that felt good. We like hearing that what we're doing is what you like and want. It's all about doing it in an encouraging manner. No, "Could you use less teeth," more, " I like it when you wrap those sexy lips around my cock and I can feel that soft warmth." Reaffirm it with a, "Oh, I love that hot tongue licking me there as you do that." Over time she'll work up a repertoire of techniques that are pleasurable to you. She wants to please you, trust me. Communication is the answer.
     
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    Get her to just suck the head, swirl her tongue around the corona, and flick her tongue over your frenum while she is jacking the shaft. A cock as big as your will make her jaws hurt if she tries to have much of your cock in her mouth. Don't believe what the porno films show, those are professionals and you do not know how many breaks they take. Also, praise her a lot!
     
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    that's pretty much what my wife does. my cock is too thick, she gets about the top 1/3rd in, strokes it, and flicks her tongue around. when she does this for awhile, my cock size is maxed out. so she sucks me, and then hops on.
     
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    ETA: if you really want a video i would suggest any of the Nina Hartley How To videos. Ms. Hartley is an awesome combo of ballsy, intelligent, sexual adventurous and entertaining. she manages to keep a video educational and hot. mostly cuz the participants are clearly like minded and enjoying themselves. also, very ladyfriend friendly.

    you could let her watch you give a blowjob.
    show her all the tricks you wish she'd do :tongue1::wink:

    for true. communication is the best foreplay/instruction manual going. positive feedback/vocalizations when she finds ya hot spots/does something ya like. ask her for what ya want. ya don't have to be clinical. just honest with what ya wanting from your blowjob experience.

    porn seems to be a terrible place to pick up blowjob lessons. the boy is my first/only* interest in nekkid man time. what he likes/loves ain't nothing even close to porn blowjobs. i learned to rock his world by paying attention, hours of experimentation and straight up asking what he likes. asking him to guide me verbally and with hands.

    was hot to learn. remains hot watching him get his happy on. will always be hot cuz being enthusiastic about it keeps me switching up my game.


    * i mentioned first and only cuz for all i know the boy is a freak. what he likes might be penis oral*water*boarding to every other dude on the planet. the only thing i know for sure is the blowjob i see in straight porn = boy does not want.


    ETA 2: curiosity, what does the MWM stand for?
     
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    Usually stands for Married White Male in that context :).
     
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    If you lived in Los Angeles you could just send here to the Pleasure Chest. They have classes on improving your blow job technique on a regular basis.
     
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    I think that's a tough task to ask of her. I mean, a great cock sucker has to enjoy it so much, that they actually feel as if the man getting sucked is doing them (the cocksucker) a favor by letting them suck their cock. Passionate, great technique, eye contact, moaning and attention to detail. All important factors.

    But I also think a great bj is performed by someone who is just in love with cock and pleasing their man. I tend to go without if they are doing it for me. Not that pleasurable, unless they are hungry for it.
     
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    That's awesome!
     
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    Simple encouragement and vocalization. It's essential. She needs to hear what you like, what you want more of, and so on. Keep that verbal communication open. Do you talk, encourage her during sex? If not, try it. ;)
     
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    Buy her a gay best friend.
     
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    Its gotta Cum naturally. Dont force it.
     
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    Practice, practice. We all improve with practice and encouragement of what feels great.