HUNG guys: Do you only attract BOTTOMS?

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  1. buffaloboy

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    Whenever I put up cock pics on my internet profiles, about 99% of the messages I then receive are from bottoms asking if they can suck my dick and then fuck them. I've had a few guys who will state on their profile they are 'versatile' but then when you start chatting to them they will say the same thing - that they really just want to suck a big cock and then get fucked.

    I know there's worse things in the world to complain about:smile: but it does get a bit boring and if I were to actually meet up with any of these guys (I never do) my sex life would be a bit predictable to say the least.

    Does this happen to other hung guys?
     
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    sometimes. but nowadays most of the guys who are attracted to me are at least more top than bottom
     
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    I've always been of the adage what one gives should be willing to be given the same thing!! Versatile has it's advantages!
     
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    I personally have never been versatile, which kind of holds me up in my current relationship...my "top" is very much versatile in his needs...sometimes he needs to bottom and I'm really not a top at all. I enjoy being fucked by a huge one as much as the next size queen and I'm more than willing to experiment to see how far I can take it. ;)
     
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    well I am what i would call a top vers I am very picky whom i bottom for
    I have a big dick and I use it well but ass play took me forever to get used to.
    so i prefer oral nipple play and j/o
    I am over 40 hairy chubby and hung so yes I tend to get the sub bottoms and I am more of a passive top I like to do oral and i like to start out slow
    then slam you.
    yes when I was younger and did not know bottom from top and I became a top and accidently picked up a very well hung top at the leather bar
    oops
    wont do that again
    lol
     
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    Where are all the versatile guys?!
     
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    Here. I love sucking or getting sucked.:tongue:
     
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    Compatibility trumps versatility.
     
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    Perhaps I'm a freak, but it would be nice to be able to cuddle with a guy without being concerned about all this top and bottom stuff. Being overly concerned with mechanics gets in the way of being happy to be with a guy.
     
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    exactly what i enjoy :)
     
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    I believe there are about 50 bottoms for every top in the world so just by the number of bottoms if you have big dick you are going to get lots of bottoming offers.
     
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    You know what? I actually agree with you. I never really gave the sexual role position issue much thought until a few years ago when I started using hook-up sites. And then the more recently added cock pics made it feel as if it was paramount importance, not to me, but the people messaging.

    I always leave the role blank, to be honest, but it seems that for many people they need to know a) that penetrative sex will definitely happen and b) who will assume which role.

    Personally, I find both assumptions to be somewhat flawed.

    As I type this, I've just received a message on another website from someone calling himself 'PolishBottom'.

    Hmmmm......
     
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    Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see how cuddling compromises or changes top/bottom roles,
    nor do I see why assuming certain roles necessarily precludes happiness or sexual satisfaction.

    Again, compatibility trumps versatility.
     
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    most people are vers from my exp... but if you put vers in a profile ...people go..yep bottom. :) Personally, I prefer top but if i'm into the guy...and he's my size or bigger...then sure...lets flip it up! I think it takes a good bottom to be a great top. You gotta know what feels good...not just what people tell you feels good.
     
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    Almost evfryone I meet wants me to top in some way, but I hate to get fucked, so it's mostly ok. J/O guys seem to be few and far between (although there's a great site for those who LOVE j/o)..
     
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    I hope I attract tops. :X Since I'm a bottom myself. So far I've.. uhm.. "attracted" ;p both. :) Don't know if there's more of the one or the other.
     
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    j/o? Jerk off? If so, what's the site?
     
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    I prefer to suck hung guys, but i usually want to fuck them rather than them fucking me...
     
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    This extreme obsession with the mechanics of sex is disturbing. What about affection? Holding and being held, etc. Without that, it's nothing more than an empty unrewarding mechanical experience.
     
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    :confused: Isn't that like saying a straight man needs a stiff penis in him in order to know what feels good to a woman? I don't agree with your statement sir :poke: