I feel conned, do all large size men do this?

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  1. MissDD

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    I joined 7orbetter.com about a month ago, a man emailed me who said he had a 10 inch penis, which sounded great. We exchanged photos (me face him of penis etc) and then he was away on holiday etc. We arranged to meet up but then he got cold feet. We had phone sex on Sunday, then today I log onto this site put in 13 inch penis as he said his was this size when using a cock ring, turns out one of his photos (in tshirt and pants) is a fake or is one that's been posted millions of times.

    I feel conned but this guy and I also stated in our ads we wanted serious relationships. I really feel conned now. Is this usual for all large penis men or wannabe large penis men to do this??:confused:
     
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    not all. some. this site has hundreds if not thousands. if you hang around you will realise that most of the "truer" members are nice people. some may still exagerate slightly. tbh, you were naive to belive that he had a 13 inch penis, and trust this only by photos. also why feel conned? you didnt do anything with him. you were both probably the same. the fantasy was the main attraction.
     
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    Thanks for replying. at first he said he had 10 inches then he said he'd made it grow etc... who was I to know or not if he was telling the truth? i feel more conned that he's posting pics of his penis and passing them (at least 1) off as his own. and we were planning to meet - ie go on a date etc. yeah fantasy was probably a big puller for me.
     
  4. DiscoBoy

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    Just about anyone with a penis does this. People lie. It sucks, but it happens.
     
  5. Mule

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    Take a look at my signature. You should be EXTREMELY skeptical of any man that says his penis is 10 inches. In fantasy, sure. 10 inches in the real world is so unlikely your chances of meeting a real 10 incher are next to zero. If there is anything that LPSG is good for, it's readjusting expectations from the excesses of some men's lies and porn's sensationalism.
     
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    Don' tlet the asses out there cast a dark cloud over all of us. Most members are good people - looking to have a bit of fun & chat
    People like him are insecure about their size - his loss not yours
    I am proud to be the size I am...lol no where near "10" and even farther from "13"
    They say the average size is 5.5 - 6" - I come in at almost 7.5...so I am happy to be above average.
    If I was looking to meet someone - well I definately wouldn't lie - cuz someone would be trapped damned quick
     
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    Don't let that discourage you. Mule's signature says it all.
     
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    If I may say so, your interests are a bit misplaced. First find a sincere, truthful, attentive, reliable, personable man that you enjoy being with. Then find out in person about his dick size...which by then (one would hope) would not be your be-all, end-all goal in life. (Or, alternatively, just hire a big-dicked "escort.") Penis size as a measure of the person is highly overrated...and not to be relied upon. And no, not all large-sized men are deceptive (I can truthfully say that I am not). All in all, they're just as varied as any other group of human beings.
     
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    The world is a crazy place. Yes, there are liars on this site (a lot). I may look like I'm packing 8+ inches, but I'm not -- I am 7.5 inches. Aside from liars, be aware of the lunatics. You cannot trust everybody. Imagine if you met him, and he was a future rapist? Just be careful Ms. Lady, please be careful.
     
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    first off you should know that even 8 inches is very rare. By Dr. Kinsey's investigation out of 3,500 men the largest recorded erection was 8.5. THERE is no one in porn who reaches 10 inches. I am 8.75 long, but sometimes I say 9". thats more like rounding up. i try to be an honest guy :)
    LOL it turns out that usually the guys who brag "don't have." But then again, there are guys like me who get a thrill out of hearing "thats bullshit, I don't believe you" when I tell them the truth. I'm sorry miss, men are just as trustworthy as women sometimes...it really comes down to the PERSON.

    ps. cock ring won't give a guy length, just thickness by maybe 1/4 or an inch. its used more to hold an erection longer. You should take a peek at my photos and I PROMISE u they are real :)
     
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    I am not "enourmous" but well above average and will say I never ever mention the size anymore. It's a much bigger turn on to have someone surprisingly pleased.
     
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    fakes and liars are everywhere.... in fact, here on LPSG, you would be shocked :eek: to know there are tons of "women" who are actually men :rolleyes:

    amazing, huh?
     
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    And I am not a mule. *hangs head in shame*
     
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    i think im gonan be sick :biggrin1:
     
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    what?? not a mule?? *cries* all my "lost weekend in Tijuana" fantasies... gone, out the window.. never to be. :frown1:

    boohoo

    dude, i know.. the whole Mule not being a mule thing... i will never be the same.

    truth = hurts *sad tear*
     
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    Any time you hear 10 inches you should be skeptical. 10 inches may "sound great" but so does "Pegasus the winged horse". But Pegasus doesn't exist. I wouldn't go so far as to say 10 inch penises don't exist but they are very rare.

    And especially when a guy says he gains 3 inches from using a cock ring you should run a mile. It's not anatomically possible.

    To answer your question:

    No, not all large size men do this. Because large size men are actually the size they state and aren't using fake pictures, as the guy mentioned in your first post was. Therefore he was not really a "large size man".

    It seems that a lot of average or smaller men do use fake pictures though.
     
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    lmao...it's wrecked my whole belief system! :eek: :tongue:
     
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    It also irritates me that so many are not honest. I was surprised to realize that the first time. More than one "woman" that was actually a man have tried to get me to meet them even when I told them that I am strait. What do they think? did they think that I would let them play with my cock after all if we met??

    One women I meet told me after me that now she believed that it was true that some women find it uncomfortable that I go in all the way. First she thought that I was just one of those guys showing off.

    One of the down sides of these less honest guys out there are that us honest guys sort of have to add a bit to our sizes to not sound small. Therefore I think it is great to use quarters or 50 euro cent coins to prove the size.

    Sorry for my English. I am just a Danish guy.

    PS. I agree it is hard to ballance with the 8 coins, but I almost succede - see the pic [​IMG]
     
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    It's not just men claiming to have big dicks, it's people on the internet.

    Quite a lot, maybe the majority, have no intention of meeting for real - they can re-invent themselves and it's all just fantasy, cyber, phone, etc. Which I suppose can be quite liberating for them. But frustrating for us!
     
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    I'm at least glad that you put "just about" in front of "anyone with a penis". As much as I am not "proud" of my size, I've never lied about it. Always know that sometime, someday, somebody will bust a liar. Anyway, what good does it do to falsify if they're gonna see the truth anyway?