I keep cumming too quick!!

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  1. badgirl1

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    I have a problem. There is this guy that I have been having sex with for awhile now. He has a 8 inch penis and it is good and thick just the way I like it. We have really great sex but there is just one problem whenever I get on top I cum REALLY quickly. I can't even last 2 minutes. If he starts sucking on my nipples I will cum in less than one minute. Can anyone tell me if there is some kind of technique you can use to keep this from happening??? I sometimes feel embarrassed about it but he doesn't mind. I didn't think women had this type of problem.
     
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    Just keep riding his tool!Realy,he won't care how fast you came as long as he gets his!

    oh and use lube please!
     
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    Go for multiple orgasms!
     
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    ENJOY....i see no problem.....men like women like you....go for multiples.....lucky lady....u have a gift....just make sure you give him a big one too.
     
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    I understand the problem. The same thing happens to my gf, and it isn't easy for all women to go for multiple orgasms. On the contrary, lots of women (and men) need a little "break" after coming. Keep going at once can sometimes be painful.
    Me and my gf usually saves her riding me until last. If we've been going on for a while she also tends to be able to "hold out" a little longer.
     
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    i agree - save the riding until last- my girl usually waits until im close to get on top- it's not a bad problem to have- some women cant cum at all.

    btw- i think it is really sexy when i can look at a women when she is cumming-love the facial expressions.
     
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    Can't woman come hundreds of times?:biggrin1:
     
  8. TheRob

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    women all cum really fast in my experieince
     
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    Have him watch "How to Eat Pussy like a Champ" You can download it on isohunt.com

    Jack Lawrence is great in it. If you need a break and came really quickly have him go down on you or you can go down on him. Also, don't start out with that position to start with, that may help. I find (with me anyway) that the longer you drag it out the easier it is to have multiple orgasms.
     
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    Yeah....can't even feel sorry for ya.
     
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    I wish my last girl had your problem!
     
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    For me, the sight of a woman cumming is one of the most wonderful in the world. Especially when I'm the one who made it happen!

    Your man shouldn't mind it at all. If I were him I would let you have your fun all you wanted. My greatest pleasure about sex is watching my woman enjoying herself.
     
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    And the problem is.......................?:smile:
     
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    I really don't get why it's a problem either
     
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    I wish I had that problem! lol
     
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    Seriously? All women are different, but most will get uncomfortable if they come more than a few times, and I once had a long-term lover who could only come once a day. My wife can come two or three times, but after that it's unpleasant for her. Normally it's oral until her first orgasm, and maybe a second during intercourse, so that works well for her. With said long-term lover we had to be very careful, which was hard because of my size.
     
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    whew under 2 minutes....and i thought i was doing good getting off in under 5
     
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    My wife can cum while I'm initially penetrating her. To be fair though, that's almost always her second orgasm.
     
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    just shut up and enjoy it?
     
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    Trust me your not dissappointing him. Regardless of what we say, every man's ego gets a huge stroke when he makes his woman cum, especially when she comes fast. The thing to do is not leave him hanging, no pun intended. If you can keep going then do that, if not go down on him until he cums. Trust me its not a problem at all.