Glad to see that I'm not the only one that is conflicted by this. I've always had a thing for guy's asses. I just love to look at young, tight muscular bubble butts, but the thought of sex with another guy - can't do it. I've had the opportunity, but I couldn't go through with it. Penises used to gross me out, but now I enjoy checking them out. A great ass is the most important to me though. I have seen some incredibly good looking guys in the communal showers with nice dicks, but lousy asses. That just turns me right off. I don't find the guy attractive anymore. By the same token, I have seen some incredibly good looking guys in the neud with a great dick and ass, but once I start talking with them (I'm a pretty friendly guy) and get to know them, I immediately lose interest in them. Yeah, I've fantasized about it, but just can't bring myself to do the deed. I guess I just really appreciate a good looking guy, so I leave it at that.
On an emotional level I definitely connect with women more than men. I had some really good looking male friends in university that I have showered with at the gym. They were great to look at and fantasize about, but I knew them to well. I couldn't imagine having a relationship with them. I backpacked around Europe with one of them. After a week, I was ready to kill the guy. He drove me crazy even though I was attracted to him and had a close relationship/friendship with him. I seem to feel that way around all guys. I can only take them in small doses.
I agree with another poster that said the lines in sexuality are blurred. I label myself as 100% straight because I have never had or ever could have a sexual encounter with another man. Also, I enjoy sex with women, and connect with women on an emotional level. It doesn't mean that I never fantasize about what it would be like to be with another guy. Sure I've wondered, but when the opportunities arose I declined. I had a friend in university who was incredibly homophobic and used to be proud of that fact. However, on more than a few occassions, I saw him checking me out in the locker room, shower and once when I was sleeping (I awoke and saw him staring at my dick and balls that had fallen out of my boxers). I think every guy wonders but doesn't want to admit it openly. That's what's so great about this website. Guys can be open about things they would never talk about with other guys they know.