I like cocks, but I don't like guys.

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Anyone else feel the same as me? I'm sure there are lots. I love looking at cocks and often fantasize about sucking another guys cock (I've spent LOTS of time sucking my own), but whenever there's an actual male personality attached I completely lose interest in sexual activity. Anyone feel the same way? If you wanted to try sucking another man's cock, how did you go about it?

OK - reading the other comments on this - I might be totally alone here - but actually I think I'm the exact opposite.

I really enjoy being around guys - in groups or individually, have very close bonded relationships with several close friends - but I'm completely nonplussed when it comes to cock. I'm not adverse to the whole thing - but I much prefer the man rather than cock.,
 
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I dig the shit outta guys: to hang with, to play hard, drink & horse around with. Romantically, there's never been any attraction but as far as sexually, I'm a complete dyed-in-the-wool size queen. Kissing? Sure, but only if I feel that it will turn my top man on more. Cuddling afterwards? Not really. I'd rather suck him hard one more time and get back to it, instead. It's all about the dick, plain & simple.

With women, it's completely different. Nothing turns me on more than passionate tongue tangos, nibbles, kisses and massages. It's all about the whole package, and there's a deep, warm peace when holding her tight...especially if there are big soft boobs to press against ;-)
 

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I used to, but got over it.



I found a married guy (over the 'net) who also just wanted to suck dick and who agreed that there didn't have to be any personal connection beyond that. Later I sucked a number of cocks at glory holes and found that to be a total thrill. It completely isolates the cock from the man and puts all the visual and tactile emphasis on the cock, amazingly hot!

I still don't have any romantic of emotional connections with men, but with more and more experience (and comfort in my own skin) I grew to really enjoy, even prefer, having friendships with my suck buddies. That very first cock I ever sucked belongs to a suck buddy who has become a very good friend of mine. I still get a thrill out of sucking a complete stranger, but overall I now prefer to suck a friend.

With luck you may be able to find a similar route to the joys of being an accomplished fellator as I have. Just be prepared for many narrow minded folks who are aware of your activity to want to "brand" you with some stupid label of sexual orientation. But rest assured that there is absolutely nothing wrong with an otherwise straight man loving to suck cock. Been there for years and hope to enjoy it for more years to come.

It couldn't have been stated any better.....
So very true and thanks for posting.....
 

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i think humans are less black and white but sexually and genetically we are on a spectrum.

Curiosity is a wonderful things so long as nobody is being cheated on or hurt by exploring it, mentally, emotionally, physically. There are no label for your situation but rather just do what works for you and please share any followup stories.

Im only into oral, unless im in a relationship. so i get the fascination.
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I have a theory but I want to put it to the test. I am not saying I am right....just my observation. But I do want other people to comment, especially the ones that tend to be in the 90% (gay or straight).

I feel like if you are more gay, you tend to focus more on the guy (characteristics) before even getting to the penis. I hear some gay friends always complain about guys being too_____ (tall, skinny, dark, pale, pimply, hairy, smooth, short, feminine, butch, ethnic). They seem to concentrate more on the person before they even bother to think what it would be like to have sex with them.

I feel like guys who are more bi, as long as the person is not a troll, they are more after the "experience" of the sex. They focus less on the physical characteristics of the man so you do not hear them have many complaints.

As a manly bi guy, I tell my gay friends, "Relax, it's just sex!" There are not making babies with these guys.....they can't get pregnant!!!

What do you guys think?

I agree with you... If i'm not attracted to you as a person... I don't even want to see your cock :wink:
 

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I have a friend who loves to suck cocks. He doesn't get into kissing as he says he's not attracted to guys. He does have several girlfriends and I can tell that he's really into them. i'm sure you are not the only person who feels like way.
 

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yep have heard of tons of guys out there like that. I have a good internet bud like that. Says he loves big cocks, will suck cock, swallow cum, fuck a guys ass, get fucked by a guy but has no other attraction to a man's body. Just the cock.

He's bi. All kinds of tastes out there.
 

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To feel atracted only to big cock and dont male body
its complete normal when a guy have small and average dick,
its something that any male would envy and desire,
who want not own a huge cock
but when size fail and cientific dont get a safe and trust formula to increase dick size
its easy fall in such tendency only dick but dont male body.
Due you feel confortable with your own body,muscle ect,
but cant speak same of the dick
and for such case only dick
think the best is glory hole sex service
 

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I do have trouble being emotionnally attracted to guys. I do like them physically but I don't get along with them at all, I get annoyed. It's been like this with pretty much all the guys I've dated. I have the opposite problem with girls: the emotionnal connection is perfect but the physical connection is rarely there.
 

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We're all broken people: by religion, society, our own fears. Yet, with good will, we can work together allowing each other's interests to energize society.

In my case i have zero sexual interest in women, yet interact professionally very well with female MD's, Attorneys, etc. i can tell which are extremely attractive, yet, it is not ever a sexual stimulus.

I assume the complete opposite is true -- and various mixes.

Some of us search for the IDEALIZED BROTHER: who will always defend us, never let us down.

Others, have idealized others.

To me, sex is the strengthening and completion of the elegance, the pure delight: in being in the company of my handsome friend.

This said, there still remains the need for randomness, for novelty, for comparisons of different anatomical beauty.

According to religion and certain social theory: we are broken...not perfect.

But, maybe that's ok.

We are, all of us: just as we are supposed to be !
 

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Hey folks,
I'd like to share this...
I love tit's, watch straight porn, jerk to it.
I like the concept of getting a woman off with just my mouth and tongue, bringing her to an earth shattering gushing climax... with just my mouth tongue and fingers.
I'm not built for a long term, intimate, sexual, emotional relationship with women, I accept this... and because I do I can "Do no harm" to either them or myself.
I have a lot of women friends, I love them protect them, care and nourish them... I do not want to put my penis in their vagina.
I have had numerous encounters with men, some just needed to suck my dick.
Some just needed a righteous pounding.
Some needed a cuddle and a bro, or an ear for confession/discussion.
I could not help them until I knew what I was capable/curious/willing to do.
Loosen up, when I was in my early twenties, I used to make out with this english bloke Trys.
He was straight, but into me... so we kissed a lot, groped, and went home... alone.
That was all we needed, years later after he had returned to England, and back again across the pond; we kissed and he said " no more of that mate."
Funny thing was, he kissed me first... it had run it's course.
We're still mates, we just don't do that anymore.
7 billion plus people on the planet... how important is it?
Peace and love to all...
 

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I guess I would put myself in this same category. I identify as "bi" with a leaning toward hetero. My interest in women goes beyond the sexual aspect, into much more emotional. I view sex with women as more passionate, soothing, comforting, etc. I treat women with more tenderness, than I would ever be able to do with a guy. As for my gay side, it is and has been purely the physical attraction to a guy. I don't limit that to just a cock, but the overall masculinity. I find men very attractive to look at and enjoy. I have always loved the rawness of m2m interaction, most specifically sexually. It is purely for my sexual pleasures.

That's my two cents!! :smile:
 

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if a woman would just put out a bit more ,, be a bit kinkier , and not bitch near as much I wouldn't be lookin for a cock

Lol. Reminds me of a friend of mine, when referring to women and their whiny, bitchy behavior used to say "if it wasn't for that little bit of pleasure!"