Ok to clairify...I had a private conversation with the op not too long after her post, and she found my suggestion to be quite helpful.
BTW... it was you who set the tone of my response. Rape (or as you inferred) should not of even been mentioned in any response given by you or anyone else. At no point in my response did I ever suggest to the OP forcefully try to penetrate her husband. My intention (which was obviously picked up upon by everyone other than yourself...which led to me referring to you as a dumbass) was to make a sort of erotic game out of it. Think kink. Now had the OP tried my methodology, and had it of caused harm to the relationship, then I would offer up an apoligy and asked for a moderator to remove my post. Seeing as (to my understanding) my method was a success and no harm came to anyone in said situation, there was no need to take such an agressive stance to my post.
Although I did reply to you in a derrogative manner, my point was made, and it got a rise out of you, thus giving me the satisfaction of annoying you!
No hard feelings mate!
EDIT: HAd you of read the OP's post closely, you would have picked up on the use of the word RELUCTANT. At no point in her post did she ever say he was hell bent on not getting his ass fingered, rather one could infer that he was nervous about such an event occuring, and therefore needed some coersion...nay...coaxing in order for the sceniario to play out.