I want to meet older women for sex

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  1. LemacST

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    From early 30's to late 40's, preferably.

    Where do I meet them?

    Also, when I say "for sex", I mean I'm basically just looking for a sexual tryst, not trying to seriously date a woman of that age. I'm a 20 year old guy. I've had a thing for older women ever since I could remember.

    What sites work well?
    More importantly: Where would be the best place to meet them in real life? How should I approach them without seeming too sleazy or having them miss the point of why I'm approaching them?
     
  2. SpoiledPrincess

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    You meet them in the same place you'd meet any woman. Approach them just the same way you'd approach a 20 something, you can't go wrong with 'can I get you a drink'.
     
  3. whatireallywant

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    You could try AdultFriendFinder. They even have groups for younger men who like older women/older women who like younger men.
     
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    I agree with whatireallywant. AFF would be a good place to start.
     
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    I don't know how old you are, but if you are interesting, witty, gentle, caring and a little dangerous, you should have no trouble meeting available women this age. You have to put yourself out there...whether gallery openings, parties, etc. Or personals. Be willing to be interested in them...most are way beyond being just impressed with looks. But, please be honest about what you want. They are at an age where many want to find a life partner. So don't be a bastard.
     
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    Older woman are great. Its the much younger one that won my heart.
     
  7. Principessa

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    LindaSue, that is excellent advice! Especially the last bit which I had forgotten about.:smile:
     
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    Some kind of dating or hookup website will likely work eventually, but I would steer clear of AdultFriendFinder specifically, if I were you.
     
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    agematch.com ?