I want to watch my girlfriend fuck...

[CUBE]

dude, you are hot. she is the lucky one

 

[gecko11]

No this certainly does not make you a bad person. This desire to see your GF so satisfied by another guy is more common than you. I think I saw where about 2000 people had already viewed this thread! I wonder if eventually you can be there when he's fucking her and perhaps you could even be part of it. You will be blown away when you actually hear her gasps & cries of delight. It is the most exciting thing to witness. I think it is important to have a guy who you have a strong friendship with. I don't believe that getting a guy just off the street would do the same thing for me. The first guy we had was my best man. His cock was twice as thick as mine and his body beautiful and athletic. I could never give her the pleasure he could but oh, it was the most exciting experience for me. I can't analyze of explain why I find it so ecstatic, but in your case you have a perception that you poor self estimation is the reason for your desire. You may well be right, but in my experience it isn't always the case. Anyway I think she is a lucky girl to have two really attractive guys who are well endowed and sexually athletic. Go for it & enjoy.
Cheers - Gecko

 

[bigmasculine]

why dont you post a pic of her body?i volunteer...!

 

[D_Bela Boxwidener]

Take the advice of the wisemen... Your gf is very lucky, if you are comfortable share you thoughts with her,you never know.

 

[HorsemanUK]

This is a long story, so bear with me, but here goes...

I have a fantasy of watching my girlfriend fuck another man, but I just feel like a freak... am I weird?

I think the motivation comes from many different places, starting with the fact that I grew up fairly unattractive and couldn't get any female attention. I thinned out and suppose I'm decent looking now, but still always see myself as the fat kid I used to be. Because of this I see a lot of guys as more attractive than me. Also, the lack of attention (and therefore sexual attention) makes me feel inadequate sexually even though I've had 2 of my 6 girls tell me I've been the best sex they've ever had (I'm roughly 8x6.75). Seeing giant dicks in porn and on this site doesn't help either! haha! I've just never had the opportunity for lots of sex and it makes me feel undesired and therefore makes me feel small. Three of these girls told me I'm big (including my current gf), but just my downward attitude of myself makes me believe that they're just being nice to me.

I like thinking of my girlfriend fucking other guys because, #1 she is VERY attractive and I love watching her body and seeing her pleased. #2 It's almost a form of fantasy to see her with a chiseled, VERY hung guy, because I can kind of pretend it's me. I can escape my views of myself and imagine that I'm the guy fucking her with all the physical qualities I know girls love. #3 I feel undeserving of such an attractive girl (because of my self image) and I almost worship/adore the kind of man I wish I was. #4 I've never had any agressive women and the thought of her wanting sex so much that she'd fuck another guy even though we're dating is so hott. Cheating is a really taboo stimulation for me. The idea of sexual desire being SO great that it supercedes even a relationship is just amazing.

I don't think any of it's gay, because the thought of touching another man just makes my stomach turn. It's more of an adoration of a beautiful body and penis, and a desire to be like that myself.

I've discussed all this with her and she says she understands. She says she has no real desire to be with anyone else besides me, but she gets where I'm coming from. So after some discussion, I suggested to her that she go try out a friend of hers (a couple years younger than me) that we both knew to be hung. I told her that I'd rather her try it out now than always wonder about it later. So one night she met him and followed him back to his place. They had sex for about 3 hours and I got him to tell me all the details later. She claims that she could barely notice any difference between him and I, and also says that she'd rather be with me. Even after all this, I can't shake that feeling of inadequacy.

I think about the story of them fucking and it always turns me on instantly. I requested that when they fucked, that she let him do so unprotected because she likes it better that way, and also I love natural sex. It's so exciting to think of the risk of pregnancy and her potential desire to want his perfect genes in her baby. She complied and when he offered a condom, she told him definitely not. I also love thinking about him cumming in her. It's so sexy because it's just the heighest height of the whole act... and also when it's a big cock that's squirting all that cum, it's like the ultimate symbol of manhood. He did cum in her (which she also likes internal ejaculation), and he still fucked her in another 2 positions afterward! Lucked out, no baby... but I still fantasize about him being her stud playtoy. We use it during sex and dirty talk, but she says she only does it because I like to hear it. She said it was good with him, but she doesn't really care that it even happened or not.

I wish I had gotten to see her, or wish they'd made a video or something, but since they didn't, I just cant seem to shake this desire. It remains unfulfilled.

I know I've got some issues, but does all this make me a bad person?

and here are some pics of the guy she got to fuck...

There are many couples who participate in cukholding and swinging. It's a pretty widely subscribed fetish. If you have discussed it with your partner and she agreed, it also turns you on there is not a problem. 'Are you normal'? Probably not its not everyones idea of a realtionship, but then again the norm is not always absolute. Does it make you a bad person? No, there are alot worse things going on in the world than a bit of swinging between consenting adults.

 

[pomaz59]

interesting to read about this since i'm on the other side of the coin. many times i had jealous thoughts even though i knew i could trust my girlfriend. i wanted to be the only man she ever had sex with and that she would fantasize about me all the time.
having said that, i very well know that this would be everything else than normal and i hated myself for being this abnormally jealous. the only positive thing about it was, that at least i managed not to show it on the outside, because i'm 100% sure this kind of possessive behaviour would scare anyone off.

responding to your "problem", i think you look at the situation from another perspective.
from what you wrote, she is not really into this whole cuckold thing. if thats true, than she already made a big sacrifice by letting herself talked into that one time. now its time for you to make your sacrifice (that of course only if you love her)!
i'm not saying let go off your fantasy, but try every once in awhile not to focus on what you want but what she wants. maybe she just wants you to feel more confident about yourself. that if she tells you that you have a great body, then you believe her instead of thinking "she's just saying that to cheer me up". that after sex if you are lying next to each other in bed, then she sees a true smile on your face instead of an expression like "it would be sooo much better if someone would fuck her with a 10 inch dick".

so i would work on trying to please HER fantasies instead of getting her to please yours.
but thats me

 

[Shawnc23]

Many people used to be something, but are not anymore. You need to find a way to get over your past and live in your present. Have you ever talked about your feelings with a counselor? Maybe you need to start your day thinking of your positives...1) you have a great body 2) you have a big dick and 3) you have a hot gf who wants you.

Looking at your pictures and the pictures of the other guy...I'd pick you!
Your body + your dick = HOT!

As far as wanting to watch your gf with another guy, I don't think there is anything wrong with it, as long as it's for the right reasons. But you want her to do it because you feel inadequate and I think that is the wrong reason and could damage or end your relationship.

Wow! You have an unbelievable set of tits

 

[bartholomewmcclusk]

Have thought about this as well, similar feelings of "not measuring up" driven by years of rejections as a teenager. There is no chance my gf would be into it and even bringing it up would probably destroy our relationship.

 

[Magruder]

Yeah, we should see her somehow.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

This is a long story, so bear with me, but here goes...

I have a fantasy of watching my girlfriend fuck another man, but I just feel like a freak... am I weird?

I think the motivation comes from many different places, starting with the fact that I grew up fairly unattractive and couldn't get any female attention. I thinned out and suppose I'm decent looking now, but still always see myself as the fat kid I used to be. Because of this I see a lot of guys as more attractive than me. Also, the lack of attention (and therefore sexual attention) makes me feel inadequate sexually even though I've had 2 of my 6 girls tell me I've been the best sex they've ever had (I'm roughly 8x6.75). Seeing giant dicks in porn and on this site doesn't help either! haha! I've just never had the opportunity for lots of sex and it makes me feel undesired and therefore makes me feel small. Three of these girls told me I'm big (including my current gf), but just my downward attitude of myself makes me believe that they're just being nice to me.

I like thinking of my girlfriend fucking other guys because, #1 she is VERY attractive and I love watching her body and seeing her pleased. #2 It's almost a form of fantasy to see her with a chiseled, VERY hung guy, because I can kind of pretend it's me. I can escape my views of myself and imagine that I'm the guy fucking her with all the physical qualities I know girls love. #3 I feel undeserving of such an attractive girl (because of my self image) and I almost worship/adore the kind of man I wish I was. #4 I've never had any agressive women and the thought of her wanting sex so much that she'd fuck another guy even though we're dating is so hott. Cheating is a really taboo stimulation for me. The idea of sexual desire being SO great that it supercedes even a relationship is just amazing.

I don't think any of it's gay, because the thought of touching another man just makes my stomach turn. It's more of an adoration of a beautiful body and penis, and a desire to be like that myself.

I've discussed all this with her and she says she understands. She says she has no real desire to be with anyone else besides me, but she gets where I'm coming from. So after some discussion, I suggested to her that she go try out a friend of hers (a couple years younger than me) that we both knew to be hung. I told her that I'd rather her try it out now than always wonder about it later. So one night she met him and followed him back to his place. They had sex for about 3 hours and I got him to tell me all the details later. She claims that she could barely notice any difference between him and I, and also says that she'd rather be with me. Even after all this, I can't shake that feeling of inadequacy.

I think about the story of them fucking and it always turns me on instantly. I requested that when they fucked, that she let him do so unprotected because she likes it better that way, and also I love natural sex. It's so exciting to think of the risk of pregnancy and her potential desire to want his perfect genes in her baby. She complied and when he offered a condom, she told him definitely not. I also love thinking about him cumming in her. It's so sexy because it's just the heighest height of the whole act... and also when it's a big cock that's squirting all that cum, it's like the ultimate symbol of manhood. He did cum in her (which she also likes internal ejaculation), and he still fucked her in another 2 positions afterward! Lucked out, no baby... but I still fantasize about him being her stud playtoy. We use it during sex and dirty talk, but she says she only does it because I like to hear it. She said it was good with him, but she doesn't really care that it even happened or not.

I wish I had gotten to see her, or wish they'd made a video or something, but since they didn't, I just cant seem to shake this desire. It remains unfulfilled.

I know I've got some issues, but does all this make me a bad person?

and here are some pics of the guy she got to fuck...

I think your gf would never like to fuck another man because is hard to find a man as hung as you are..especially girthwise..also girls like more cock size than a fit body 'cause a fit body is easy to gain with diet and gym but a large cock you have got it or not... you have both, a very fit and nice body and one of the largest cock around..you are only an exhibitionist who liked to tell this weird story to us to see what's our feedback... I say have a bit of respect and be grateful to Universe for what it gave to you and don't tell bullshit please

 

[D_Chinkapook_BoingBoing]

you were seriously happy to let your gf become pregnant from a dude that you more-or-less coerced her into having sex with...?

 

[D_Earl Easypieces]

Yeah Julie is hot. You should have a threesome w/ her and your old lady. That is if they both consent.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

Ah.. I want to add another thing I forgot to point out before... your case seems like a "reverse cuckolding" where you enjoy looking at your gf while fucking with a man less endowed than you

 

[hajduk26]

First of all, you may have "issues" but you are definitely not alone. How do I know? I have been having sex regularly with the wives and girlfriends of guys who desperately want to watch them being fucked, since I was in my teens (the first time was with my coach's wife -- for an entire summer, with him there every time). Since then I have almost always had a regular couple or two, and several one timers, all along. That makes over forty couples by my poor count.

You should know that many many of the guys felt very similar to you, in varying degrees. They often want to watch. They often have very powerful feelings when I am giving the wife/gf so much pleasure, so much more than they feel that they can give her (sound familiar). What they say is that it hurts, but that they love it. They feel awe for my body which can give their wives so much more pleasure than they can. Often they become obsessed with watching, and with my cock as well. Are they bi? Well not when they start out at least.

Here is another fact... the wife really DOES love it. There is nothing like being fucked by a really big uncut cock (if those are your friend's pictures, just like he has), which is handled by a strong, skilled, sexually powerful lover. Women become even more addicted than the cuckold husbands.

Unfortunately, the guys who are telling you to stop before it is too late, don't get it. You desperately need to see your wife with that guy and you won't rest until you do. What happens next is the question. If the guy is a skilled bull, he will give her pleasure but not emotional involvement. We are not interested in stealing wives, just fucking them. On the other hand, this guy may really want your wife. She may be able to handle getting fucked with huge sexual pleasure and not fall in love, or she may not. My advice is get yourself a real skilled bull. He won't steal her, and he will let you see her in more sexual ecstasy than you can imagine.

One more thing... uncut and big is even more pleasurable for her

You're part of a sexual culture (cuckolding) that endorses wholly the "bigger is better" attitude. The vast majority of women have little preference on penis size and only seem to even notice it if their man is at the very high end or very low end of the spectrum. I've been told by three women (the only ones I've been with) that I'm well endowed (though that's not exactly how they put it) but I know my measurements, and I'm just at the high end of normal. So yeah, I'm big compared to a lot of guys, but small compared to a lot also. Though my fiance did once say it's like being with a porn star lol. I was like "Um...Really?"

My guess is that you're confident and much more sexually experienced than the men whose wives you're handling. That makes you a better lover far more than your penis size. If those cuckolds had been confident in their sexuality, then they'd likely be much better lovers to their wives than you ever could, because they have a connection with them that you'll never have. But when men let feelings of inadequacy get in the way, the bedroom gets dull and it creates a self-perpetuating cycle whereby things go wrong, so the man blames himself, which means more things go wrong.

As for cuckolding fetishes in general, I figure they're fairly normal. The feelings of inadequacy lead to a desire for complete submission because the man has actually become afraid of sex. The easiest way to deal with the fear of sex is to avoid it by outsourcing the primary sexual duties to another man (the bull). The cuckold has thereby given up his sexual responsibilities as a husband and can be freely aroused. Hence why they get off on it so much, and why the submission will eventually become bi-sexuality (though I think it's a lot more about power than about an actual desire to be sexual with a man). Eh, interesting stuff, but not something I'd fret about if I were the OP. He just needs to make sure his woman is happy, whether that involves swinging, cuckolding, or monogomy. I wouldn't feel right suggesting anything specific without knowing a lot more about the couple.

I have a similar theory on the causes of homosexuality in some people, but that issue is far more controversial.

 

[D_Tallie_Wacker]

The vast majority of women have little preference on penis size and only seem to even notice it if their man is at the very high end or very low end of the spectrum.

I'm sorry, but THIS is the real myth.

I've been lucky enough to have a lot of decent female friends, so let me give you a run down.

One of my friends was the legitimate undisputed hottest girl from our high school, and she recently admitted she stayed with a guy who was cheap and whom she borderline disliked, solely because he was huge and his dick was "amazing to look at." She now has Magnum condoms around, in the hope that she picks up another well hung guy.

My wife had a big boyfriend in college, and admits it was a lot of fun. She'll sometimes try to say that it really doesn't matter...and then not realizing it sometimes she'll make jokes or comments about bigger being better, and loves using her big vibrator and talking about that ex in particular..

A younger, relatively innocent female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend and admitted she was partly sad to see him go because of his "magnificent cock", which he even measured for her. She briefly tried to claim size didn't matter, but then recanted and admitted it was a big turn on, but that she was kind of scared and at least wanted a small guy to be her first, and then find a bigger guy afterward, lol.

I've overheard any number of female conversations discussing and comparing guys sizes.

I mean, the list goes on and on. Practically every female I know who does try to say size doesn't matter, will privately admit it does.

 

[nikki_hart]

it is true....it's a myth and fact on some level...depends on what we're looking for....if we're looking for love...then penis size don't matter as long as it can satisfy....so something less than average usually don't cut it...

when looking for sex and just fun with mr. right now...penis size matters as much as physical appearance....

some girls tell you that it doesn't matter because....she's not into sex as much or she doesn't want to hurt you....just like how guys always say that we're pretty no matter what we wear...

 

[d_man83]

you were seriously happy to let your gf become pregnant from a dude that you more-or-less coerced her into having sex with...?

No... I wasn't "happy" to let her get pregnant by him... its the fantasy aspect of a sexually aggressive girl wanting sex with a man so badly that she would let him do it unprotected which always carries the risk of pregnancy. The focus is her desire for sex ... not me wanting her to get pregnant to him.

 

[d_man83]

Also, id like to add that this isn't a typical "cuckolding" situation whereas I don't have any desire to be humiliated... just simply a desire to see her being pleased and a type of escape from my own views of myself where I can imagine that im him... the perfect kind of male I think shed enjoy and who I wish I was.

 

[mark1980mark]

my girlfriend from college sucked my best friends dick after blowing me. it was hot as hell.

 

[iggygonzo]

Your not strange at all..my girlfriend and i have a thing where
She has sex with other guys too,, were both pretty into it,,,i let her pick her
Own guy, and she picked this toned guy with a Dick that's bigger
Than mine, it turns me on more that he's a douche bag calling her babe
he smacks her ass in front of me,and he makes her say his name while
His dicks in her mouth,, so...i think it's cool that there are more people that like it...it makes me feel more
Normal,, thanks for sharing your story it's pretty sexy