I'm straight but I like very large cocks...why?

[rob_just_rob]

HOLY CRAP! I am a Gay man!:tongue::biggrin1::smile:​

Nice to meet you. I am a fairly butch lesbian.

 

[Adam875]

Every man (and most women?) loves a large dick. If they have got one, they're proud of it; if they haven't, they wish they had. Basically it seems to have nothing to do with sexual orientation, though it's often represented as a 'gay' thing. The fact is that if gay men (and hetero women, for that matter) relied on 'the big dick' for all their sexual relations, they wouldn't get much of it. Yet we still dream, and love to look - hence the big dick theme in all male porno (not to mention this site!). All very difficult to analyse, perhaps, but a form of 'phallic worship' which is buried deep in the human psyche.

And a comment on the "Tripod Ten". It strikes me as a simplistic snapshot. These obviously appeal to him, but not necessarily to all gay men, and certainly not to me! I don't think you can actually be dogmatic about 'what attracts' - and that throughout the whole spectrum of sexuality. Being gay does not mean simply responding to one set of criteria, any more than being hetero does.

But, of course, there is always the universal fascination with the big dick. So long live LPSG, and all who exhibit therein.

 

[tripod]

Ha Ha!!! I'm glad y'all got a kick outta my "Top Ten Signs You Might Be Gay"

njqt, I am glad that you scored high on that list... a confirmation of your true manlust!!!

 

[RU8plusinNE?]

I love big cocks too. I don't find guys attractive at all, would never kiss a guy, not into a lot of contact but when I see a big one hanging there I just want to see how big it gets. I do suck them and that fun too.

 

[aloopdoop]

If you are attracted to cocks, most would call you somewhat bi or bi-curious. However, the problem with words like "bi", "straight", and "gay" is that different people have different meanings for them. So don't worry about labeling yourself, or being labeled. Take it from someone who was formerly "bi" - if you start labeling yourself, you're just going to confuse people who have their own expectations of what "straight" or "bi" mean.

If you don't mind my asking, what is it about "handling and playing with" a penis that interests you? Speculating here - could it be simple curiosity rather than a sexual thing? Lots of guys apparently don't get a lot of exposure to other men's equipment, and don't want to ask questions for fear of a homophobic response.

I don't really think is a sexual thing. I'd like do have a cock in my hands, feel it, weight and measure it. Never had the opportunity, even as a kid.
I'm not afraid of discovering my gay side...I mean, lying to myself is the worst lying I can do Is just that I don't feel gay, but I like giant dicks :biggrin1:

 

[sbeBen]

Playing with a cock is a form of sex IMO. Who cares though? Enjoy!:smile:

 

[lonamisa]

I'm the same way!! I was thinking of even starting a thread similar to this but I guess it's not necessary. It definitely makes me confused though.. I'm seeing a very attractive girl right now, yet I still have this secret need sometimes to look at cocks, but only certain kinds which is strange. Sometimes even really big cocks are a turn off to me, if they don't look a certain way. I actually have had a little bit of gay experience but it was very awkward, and no fucking involved. It's just so hard to explain in a way because I think about it and it almost doesn't make sense. I have to say that I do think it's some form of quasi-almost-gay though. But like others said, who cares, I suppose.

 

[Jordan1107]

I totally understand im just like u. sometimes u just want to hold a big dick in your hand. i understand

 

[Adam875]

I totally understand im just like u. sometimes u just want to hold a big dick in your hand. i understand

Exactly. Which goes to show that there's almost certainly a tiny percentage - at least - of homosexual interest in every human male. They may not think it's there, they may not admit to it, they may call themselves 100% straight, but the almost universal interest in "what others have got ... and the bigger the better" gives it away.

 

[scruffylookin]

lets faceit somthing about a large cock is erotic, whether gay or striaght, its the ultimate masculine phallus we admire

 

[135145]

I'm striaght but if i was in a situation where i had to see another mans cock, i would rather see a bigger one than a smaller one.Regardless of gender; bigger tends to look better.
Breasts, penis's, eyes, they all look better when their big.

 

[SpeedoGuy]

Hello everybody
I'm a straight guy, but I feel abnormally attracted by XXL cocks. I'm really turned on by monster penises, and don't know why.

Same here. I never had any desire to touch but I do like to look.

That the 1% part of me I attribute to being gay, I guess.

 

[chesz001]

Hello everybody

I've been lurking for a while and finally a couple of days ago I decided to register.great!you finally decide to register.

I'm a straight guy, but I feel abnormally attracted by XXL cocks. I'm really turned on by monster penises, and don't know why.

First thing I tought was I was hiding my gay part who pushed to come out...that's not being gay maybe you're just curious but I really don't like men. I would never in life have sex with another man, but I really would like to handle and play with a massive cock.

Is there anyone out there like me?

Hope I won't be judged (but if I know this place a little, you're great people )

ciao

We all wanted to have that biggg dick but unfortunately we're not greatly endowed..it's ok to look at dick pics coz i myself look at it just for a comparison with mine and it's ok to be amazed but if you're thinking that 'i wanna play with it','i wanna suck it','i want it inside me'..well that's probably somethin'...

 

[D_Aston Asstonne]

Brother im straight as an arrow ,but i thouroughally enjoy big cock pics.I also like correspondence with other hung guys.Wheather they'll admit it or not...ALL GUYS ARE THIS WAY!after all,when watching porn what had you rather see a 10 incher or a 5 incher??I enjoy looking at huge cock pics,but thats where i draw the line as touching is strictly off limits.

 

[Meniscus]

You know what are the signs that you might be gay?

1). Wanting to passionately kissing a man
2). Wanting to feel his body next to yours
3). BEING ATTRACTED TO HIS ASS and in general getting turned on by men's butts.
4). Loving the way a man's natural musk smells
5). Wanting a man to rub his mustache on your face and loving to feel a man with a beard go down on you.
6). Being attracted to beard stuble
7). Being turned off by viewing a vagina that has large labia
8). Wanting to stick your cock up a rectum...
9). Wanting to rub and touch a hairy ass
10). Wanting to dance with a man.

Poor tripod, everyone's criticizing his list. I was with you on the first two, but the rest reads like straight guy's misconception of what gay guys are into. Many gay men don't care for, or are indifferent to, body hair and facial hair. Not all of us are into anal sex. On the other hand, there are some straight men who are into anal sex.

However, I think you've generally got the right idea, you just need to simplify it a bit. Gay men are, in a general sense, attracted to men, not just their bodies or specific body parts, although that's a part of it, but to the whole man. It's a desire to bond emotionally and spiritually with another man and all the gestures of intimacy and affection that come with that (e.g., kissing, holding hands, gazing into each other eyes, snuggling together, having a romantic dinner or picnic, etc., etc.) and just wanting to spend time in the presence of another man who feels special to you.

I imagine straight men can form strong emotional attachments to other guys and want to spend time with them. I think the key to being gay is having a particular desire for both sexual and emotional connection to other men, without having similar desires for women.

I feel somewhat badly for straight guys who are turned on by dicks, whether they're big or not, or of a particular type or not. First, you have to go through all this questioning of your own sexuality. Then, if you admit to anyone else that you're turned on by cocks (especially if you want to do more than just look), then other people are going to wonder about your sexuality as well. Either you have to live with your desire/curiosity unfulfilled, or you have to find someone who is willing to indulge you without expecting more from you, and a female partner who is willing to let you indulge. This is no easy task. If it's something you want to do more than once, over the course of a lifetime you'll probably have to find several guys willing to indulge you.

Anyway, I don't know if I'd go as far to say that all guys feel this way, but it does seem to be a fairly common "fetish," for lack of a better word. (On the other hand, the straight male members of lpsg may not be representative of the larger straight male population.) I wouldn't even classify this as bisexual, although some guys who feel this way may choose to identify themselves that way. Since the word "bisexual" seems to mean something different to everyone, who am I to say? Then again, some straight guys will, under the right circumstances, do more sexual stuff with another guy than any bisexual-identified guy ever would. (Heck, there are straight guys who have had more gay sex than I've had. It's sad, really.)

 

[tripod]

Gay men are, in a general sense, attracted to men, not just their bodies or specific body parts, although that's a part of it, but to the whole man. It's a desire to bond emotionally and spiritually with another man and all the gestures of intimacy and affection that come with that (e.g., kissing, holding hands, gazing into each other eyes, snuggling together, having a romantic dinner or picnic, etc., etc.) and just wanting to spend time in the presence of another man who feels special to you.

I imagine straight men can form strong emotional attachments to other guys and want to spend time with them. I think the key to being gay is having a particular desire for both sexual and emotional connection to other men, without having similar desires for women.

I feel somewhat badly for straight guys who are turned on by dicks, whether they're big or not, or of a particular type or not. First, you have to go through all this questioning of your own sexuality. Then, if you admit to anyone else that you're turned on by cocks (especially if you want to do more than just look), then other people are going to wonder about your sexuality as well. Either you have to live with your desire/curiosity unfulfilled, or you have to find someone who is willing to indulge you without expecting more from you, and a female partner who is willing to let you indulge. This is no easy task. If it's something you want to do more than once, over the course of a lifetime you'll probably have to find several guys willing to indulge you.

Anyway, I don't know if I'd go as far to say that all guys feel this way, but it does seem to be a fairly common "fetish," for lack of a better word. (On the other hand, the straight male members of lpsg may not be representative of the larger straight male population.) I wouldn't even classify this as bisexual, although some guys who feel this way may choose to identify themselves that way. Since the word "bisexual" seems to mean something different to everyone, who am I to say? Then again, some straight guys will, under the right circumstances, do more sexual stuff with another guy than any bisexual-identified guy ever would. (Heck, there are straight guys who have had more gay sex than I've had. It's sad, really.)

That was the amazing insight that I was hoping would show up in this thread. I have dealt with my own fascination with big cocks through pumping up my own cock and being able to be fascinated by my own penis! This allows me to indulge my curiosity and keeps me straight! lol!!! I am lucky that girth has come sort of easy for me in the pumping because it's knowing that I am carrying around the thick and heavy meat that really turns me on. Great post!!!!

 

[Calboner]

Cal: I just want you to know this is like the first conversation of like three conversations that lead to you being gay. Like... there's this and then in a year it's like, "Oh you know, I kinda wanna, ya know, get back out there but I think I like guys" and then there's the big, "Oh, I'm a gay guy now".
David: You're gay for saying that.
Cal: I'm gay for saying that?
David: You know how I know you're gay?
Cal: How? How do you know I'm gay?
David: Because you macraméd yourself a pair of jean shorts.
Cal: You know how I know you're gay? You just told me you're not sleeping with women any more.
David: You know how I know that you're gay?
Cal: How? 'Cause you're gay? and you can tell who other gay people are?
David: You know how I know you're gay?
Cal: How?
David: You like Coldplay.

****

David: You know how I know that you're gay?
Cal: How?
David: You like the movie Maid in Manhattan.
Cal: You know how I know you're gay?
David: How?
Cal: I saw you make a spinach dip in a loaf of sourdough bread once.
David: You know how I know that you're gay?
Cal: How?
David: You have a rainbow bumper sticker on your car that says "I love it when balls are in my face."
Cal: That's gay?

(By the way, my alias has no connection with the character named "Cal" in The Forty-Year-Old Virgin.)

 

[bek2335]

Only fucking is sex? Did someone go to the Bill Clinton School of Life Management? Get real! If big dicks make you hot, you're not 100% straight. And so what? Find a guy that turns you on and go for it.

 

[tripod]

Only fucking is sex? Did someone go to the Bill Clinton School of Life Management?

I do hold an honorary doctorate though! lol!! :lmao:

 

[aloopdoop]

Great post, Meniscus